Now, this week's position is also known as the Fireside for the simple reason that you would normally associate it in the living room by the fireplace. Of course in these parts, only an absolute idiot would have a fireplace, so On The Edge sounds more appropriate.
You'll need a sturdy chair for this one - nothing flimsy. (A bed with a hard mattress would also work.) It should have arm-rests too and preferably only as high as where a man's tool would hang in a comfortable kneeling position.
Sit at the edge, wrapping your hands around his neck or you can also support yourself on the arm-rests. It's best if the material of the chair is not too silky or your butt will have a hard time finding enough grip to stay in the same position. Too leathery and you might suffer abrasions from all the to-and-fro rocking.
You could also try leaning backwards (I prefer a hard cushion behind my head) with the guy using the arm-rests for support. And if the chair is narrow enough, you can also use the arm-rests to place your legs over.
For me, this is one position where I like slow strokes, in and out, and if he is coming in at a slightly lower angle, that is great as his head rubs against your upper inner walls. The slow friction is really a turn on.
If he stands at an angle, bending towards you and slipping into you, then he should extend himself a little upwards so that his tool goes in at a downward pointing angle and rubs your lower walls. That is also great but too long at it and it does kinda induce the sensation of wanting to take a leak - that's the best I can describe it in my case.
If guys want to thrust hard, be careful not to slip out and hit a woman on the clit, which can be a total turn-off for many. Sometimes, you achieve the most by doing less.
UPDATES: If I was guilty of not getting enough of the position two weeks ago (cunninglingus), the hubby certainly wasn't complaining about the last week's one - fellatio. I took the opportunity to explore different skills and improve on the existing ones. I'm happy to report that it has done my jaw (and tongue) muscles a whole lot of good.
I have to admit that for a woman, it can get addictive especially when there is a yummy dick at the other end. Just take the time to spoil every inch of his tool and you'll soon discover the spots you want to focus more on.
Wendy, a 38-year-old homemaker from Singapore, who has been a regular follower of the column is one writer who emails to update me on her progress. Here's an extract of her most recent email.
"MS - I appreciate that the positions are not new ones but by highlighting them, it made me want to focus a little on improving my sex skills. I always knew how to give a blow but never really knew - if you understand what I mean. But this week, after doing it on my husband for nine years, I finally got it right. I actually blew him until he came. Three times in total and no hands! He is so excited and has been asking me where I have been picking up these new techniques."
Missus Singapore out!
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