ASK THE BOLDER WOMAN

I've received many questions stemming from this column and just to clarify things, these questions are not from readers of Missus Singapore. They come from a column I used to have in a local Men's Magazine.

Nonetheless, I'm certainly pleased with your queries which I will definitely have to address in a separate forum - perhaps another column. I've also managed to put together all your confessions finally and honestly, I have enough confessions for a book! Kisses!

In the mean time, here is this week's ASK THE BOLDER WOMAN.

Q: I have a fetish for her toes. How do I bring it up to my girlfriend without freaking her out?

MS: Unless you know each other very well, bringing up such a request during a conversation may send her on her way. Out of the bedroom, you can always compliment her toes. Joke that they look so good that you could just suck on them. If she freaks out, at least you can say that you were only kidding.
In bed, you might try kissing her from the inner thighs and gradually moving down. Invariably, her toes would be a natural stop for your tongue’s journey. Observe her reaction and you can take it from there.

If she squirms with obvious delight, you’re one step closer to satisfying your fetish. If she pulls away or starts laughing uncontrollably, find another fetish.

Add On: Interesting subject this one. I knew of a few guys who loved to suck on my toes but unfortunately all, except one - a guy from Australia, failed miserably. They always claim to know what to do but it's the usual ending - leaving me disappointed.

The worse was this one guy, a local chap - was a little on the plump side, tiny little member, and when it came down to sucking on my toes, I just flipped out. I don't even think he knows how to suck on an ice-lolly to begin with. Anyway, interestingly enough, he wants to get in touch again and has a girlfriend who is very insecure about him knowing me.

My take? A recipe for trouble. But it's no loss of mine, she has got him and she can keep him because I'd rather turn to my toys then entertain his lack of skill in all areas.

In such a scenario, saying someone sucks at toe-sucking may be a compliment but in his case, I mean it in the most negative of ways.

Missus Singapore out!