Minggu, 10 Januari 2010

SEX RESOLUTION #1

Finally, the most important sex resolution for the year, especially for Singaporeans.

#1 - Master Oral Sex

The reason why this is directed to mainly Singaporeans is simply because No.1 - many don't know how to do it properly and No.2 - In their defense - oral sex was outlawed until 2007 - when Parliament blew (no pun intended) the lid off it. Being law-abiding, I guess many just stuck to regular sex.

Oral sex, I mean really great oral sex can sometimes be as good as penetration - for women I mean. The problem is many men don't seem to get it and spend too little time learning the skill. I'd rather not have a guy go down on me if I know he sucks (not in a good way) at it.

If they do it right, i.e. try to avoid making it monotonous or uncomfortable for the woman, then they are in for a treat. The trouble is they don't seem to understand the concept of what I call the 'build up'. For that, they need to know when to hasten and when to draw their wagging tongues to a crawl. It's the 'tongue tease' technique.

Very often men just go down for the sake of it and are too impatient to get their tools where they want it to be.

On the flip side, many women too are guilty of not making a big enough effort to blow their men to the clouds. It's not just the dickhead they should be working on but the whole tool and its supporting structures - the rim of the head, shaft, root and even his jewels. It should often be accompanied by some hand action - stroking, squeezing and massaging.

Every guy is different and while I'm still a long way to being considered a blow mistress - I do know that if you don't experiment, you will never know what pleases your man. It takes lots of practice . Spend more time down there if you want to open up another potential for mutual and sexual satisfaction.

There is no shame in wanting to learn how to do anything right, oral sex included. The only crime is if you brush it off as a foreplay ritual. It's more than that. It's an art and an important component of good sex. Sex is not one action but a whole experience and the richer it is with variety, the more you enjoy and want it. It works both ways and rewards both parties.

Missus Singapore out!

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