Don't we all know this one. Or do we? As simple as it looks, I bet there are lots of women out there who have had their fair share of foul ups with guys who clearly don't get this position.
Let's look at the simple version, man on top with woman opening her legs - feet flat on the bed. I'm not talking about the 50 other variations - just simple missionary 101.
The biggest mistake? Banging pelvic bones. When you think about banging someone, visualisations of a guy furiously pounding his woman comes to mind. Non-stop slap, slap, slap - two bodies coming together when it really is only one hitting the other.
What I have realised is that many men just bang thinking it is part and parcel of the nasty. What they don't realise, and my girlfriends will attest to, is that the frontal tip of a woman's pelvic bone is prone to bruising. It's filled with lots of nerves so constant pounding can cause lots of discomfort after.
The proper way - well like all sex positions, takes skill. Anyone who says sex doesn't require skill is an idiot, because it does, even the most simple and fundamental moves.
You can pound a woman without hurting her. The way to do it is know how deep you go in and stop before bodies collide. Think strokes of pleasure. You can vary the rhythm, movement and speed but make sure, if you want to give her maximum pleasure, not to hit her body directly.
If you really like it fast and furious, that is not a problem. Enter at slightly a lower angle. Move your hips as if scooping up from below (I'm told it gives a great ab workout) or you can rest on your knees and penetrate such that your pelvic bones don't come together.
Now if you are thinking of passionate lovemaking, pelvic bone to pelvic bone is fine because the slow passionate strokes are unlikely to cause much discomfort.
Who says you don't need to think before you screw?
Missus Singapore out!
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