I've a friend who is married and once claimed that she and her significant other have never fought or argued at all after six years together. I find it hard to believe but I'd chose to give her the benefit of the doubt. She also said then that the sex was good too. So I was happy for her.
We had met some months back at some function. I can't quite remember what it was for. Anyway, it was there that she told me about her perfect marriage and how she never had any arguments with her hubby. I also told her that make-up sex was unbelievable. She never thought much about it then.
Two days ago, we met for coffee and the first thing she told me was I was right. Not sure what she was referring to at the time, she went on to explain that she recently had a big argument with her husband - the usual - some insignificant tiff that married couples always have.
However, two days later, the sex she had was nothing compared to anything she had ever experienced.
I meant what I said about make-up sex. It's filled with a mixture of anger, anxiety frustration, passion and release - all the ingredients you need to get really hot and sweaty.
For me, at times I'd lose myself and feel as though I have to teach him a lesson for messing with me! The woman wants to be a real bitch to top off her man who is trying equally hard to show how big a bastard he is - in bed I mean. It's a battle which translates to hot furious sex.
It really becomes a competition of who has with the last word - who makes their mark felt. Both will want to dominate and subconsciously, show who is boss. I know its only in bed but it does have repercussions for the relationship.
Of course, no one really wins - or more accurately, both win - if you get my drift.
With a release, all frustrations fly out and you feel relaxed and at ease. Don't settle for anything less than a cum or two. Otherwise, you lose. But at the end of it all, you just want to cuddle up and act all lovey again.
I would use the analogy of getting a clean boot up for your PC. Once in a while, a clean boot would get your PC running all smooth again. Marriage or any relationship, I feel, is the same way. An argument, hot mindless sex and the relationship is back on track.
The problem is that people tend to sit on things for too long until it manifests into a monster too big to handle. There comes a point when ego takes over and becomes the only thing that governs what you do or not do. Right and wrong become the issue as compromise is thrown out the window. No need to mention what that can lead to.
Now where the hell is my man? I feel like picking a fight right now!
Missus Singapore out!
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