ONE-WAY SEX

Have you ever practised the adage old cliché of it being better to give than to receive? For many couples, a relationship can settle into a power struggle. So by embracing the idea - to give without receiving anything in return - can evoke fears that they may be seen by their partners as being weak.

But if you can get over such notions, taking turns to give your full attention to spoil your partner can really add spice to a relationship not to mention, strengthen the bonds. It &is nothing to do with giving in or being submissive but everything to do with how important the relationship is to you. Your partner will get the message too.

Sex gives couples the opportunity, perhaps a platform to expand and strengthen a relationship. It's a unique tool that is unlike many other elements in a relationship. So once in a while, it's great to take turns to pamper each other. Let him/her lay back and do nothing but enjoy. You do all the work and make the effort to ensure that he/she knows the night is his/hers.

It is quite obvious that a woman has more weapons towards this - she can make herself up, dress up in hot lingerie etc. For a man, it is more challenging but not impossible. Gals love a soothing massage for a start. Go out of your way to get the ambience of the room going. Soft music, aromatherapy scents, and a bottle of bubbly won't do any harm. If alcohol is not allowed, even a cooling fruit punch can do the trick. The main thing - don't focus on the destination but on the ride instead.

Take your special someone on a one-way ride to paradise. We all want that, but surprisingly, you will also get lots of pleasure being the host/hostess on your partner's journey. Just make sure you don't let him/her do a thing. Absolutely nothing! That way, you can focus or learn more about what turns your lover on. One-way sex can be a very erotic experience for both.

Missus Singapore out!