One of the key things to ensure that you harness the full enjoyment of swinging is to keep expectations in check. Very often, people get too caught up with looks or a lack of it that they start getting disillusioned by it. In Singapore, its often a case of fair-skinned preferences.
I wouldn't go so far as to say that they are racists but many squirm at the sight or thought of anyone darker then them. Ironically, it is not only the fair-skinned girls but even the tanner ones. To be fair, it is their prerogative to do so but by listing down your requirements, you are taking out the essence of swinging which is about surprise and adventure into the unknown.
Of course you should be mindful about scanning potential swinging partners but to some extent, you should give one the benefit of the doubt. Besides, you have your partner with you so it is unlikely for anyone to try any funny business or get violent. In the 16 years since I discovered this, I've had my fair share of weirdos but it comes with every territory. Just use your common sense and good judgment and you should be fine. Have fun - that is the main thing.
The swinging lifestyle is all about an immersion into others, an interaction and engagement and exploration into your sexuality which should not be governed by biases and racist sentiments. If you cannot do that, don't get in. Understand the lifestyle before you get in it.
Missus Singapore out!
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