TAKING CONTROL

From my experience, I've noticed that many men want to control their women but secretly want another woman to take control of them. I cannot begin to count the number of emails from female readers who have men who control them.

But interestingly, many of these women also mentioned that when they changed their strategy in bed - taking control - they get the full attention of their partners. I don't find this out of the ordinary simply because men are like that by and large.

When men (or many women for that matter) are able to control things, boredom often sets in because they become easily distracted once the challenge of controlling their partner dissipates.

Although I feel that taking control is great, it should not be a regular thing or else, once again (you guessed it) the man will get bored with that. Spontaneity and mystery keeps them guessing and that in itself will get his attention. For how long, it really depends on you.

I'm really not one to subscribe to the idea that if there is really love, it will forever stay fresh. Hogwash! You got to work your butt off in any relationship.

Keep it exciting and keep it spicy.

Missus Singapore out!