ROUGH OR SENSUAL? (POLL 22)

Here are the poll results for the one on rough versus sensual sex. The figures speak for themselves. Although I expected it to be about equal, I certainly didn't expect that this many people (65.3%) actually enjoyed it.

As for me, I enjoy it too and like Freda from Malaysia wrote in to say, "I like them both but it has to depend on my moods."

It also depends on the man really. Sometimes a woman's idea of rough is nothing like what a man has in mind so it's important to communicate these things before the first item of clothing is removed. Talk they say is cheap but if it becomes part of the foreplay, then it will be very beneficial to all parties. It's a great way to stir up the excitement.

Rough sex takes skill in order not to hurt your partner. If you think rough sex is all about hard and ferocious pounding like there is no tomorrow and with no regard for the woman, well then you are not ready to have it.

It's really about getting your tool in and out quickly. Hard thrusting? Yes, but not banging into her pelvic bone or slipping out and hitting your tool against the soft and sensitive external tissues of her privates. Trust me, that's really no fun for the woman and you might make her want to avoid rough sex altogether.

I think one way is to get the woman to take control of the rough sex and slowly work to gain her trust and confidence in you enough to let her relinquish control at some point.

Anyway, as usual, thank you all for your votes.

Missus Singapore out!