Sue is a divorcee with two children and is around my age. The other three girlfriends were all in same age group too. But this guy, let's call him Alex, was about 10 years younger than any of us. He was quite a dresser and pretty good looking. Charming guy really, until he started opening his mouth.
Meeting him led me to write this post about what you should not do when you are out with your girlfriend and her friends. It's really common sense. When you are out with your girlfriend's friends, one of the things you should not do is to comment on how hot another of her friends is.
Sue called me up the next day to tell me about how Alex went on and on about hot hot I was. Although I am not one to dismiss comments like that (especially at my age), I was aghast on hearing them in this instance.
Even if I am smoking hot (which I think I am, LOL), you should have the good sense not to mention it to your girlfriend, not even if you are kidding around. I don't think any woman will find it funny or amusing. In fact, you might probably make her angry or hurt.
Sue was definitely feeling that way. I'm betting she will never invite him to our outings again not because she won't trust us but more likely that she won't trust him.
The dating game is really about making the right moves at the right time and this is definitely one of the worse moves to make. Even if it is true that a woman has smoking hot friends, keep it to yourself. Your job is to make her the centre of your attraction and. You want to make her feel special no matter what.
Even if you think your girlfriend is secure enough to handle this piece of information, don't test it out because she won't be. Most women hate to feel like they are second best to their guy no matter what the tell you.
Missus Singapore out!
The Do's and Don'ts of Dating: A Dating Guide for LDS Girls
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