A WOMAN'S WAY

A 34-year old man writes in, "I just can't seem to understand my wife. Sometimes she is so much in the mood for sex that at times she even jumps me but at other times, when I do the same to her, she pulls away. Women are weird."

Tomas, from Spain.

MS: Well, Tomas, she is not weird. She is just  being a woman. You have to understand that women are for most parts, cyclic creatures who are at the mercy of hormones. What is going on in her life at that point in time is also a contributing factor.

If you think that just because my blog centres on sexuality that I am humping all the time, well you are wrong. There are times that I just don't feel in the mood. I mean it could be to the extent that I'd probably go for a root canal than have sex. Okay, maybe that's a bit exaggerated but you get the idea.

Women do get bored easily too, especially when its the same song and dance routine. So you need to take some time to understand your woman. Hang out together without any pressure on sex to get to know each other on different levels. That way you would probably be more in-tuned to her moods and if you are lucky enough, you might even discover the key to getting her in the mood. It really pays to take time to know your woman.

Missus Singapore out!