Senin, 30 Agustus 2010

THREESOME NOSOME (POLL 23)

Well it turns out that threesomes are not as common as one would imagine. Many emails came in saying that it is really a fantasy of theirs but fixing it up is often difficult. Well, to be honest, it's not something that is easy to go down with anyone unless they have thought about it or know what it involves to begin with.

MMF seems to be the most popular amongst my readers so I gather the gals are getting more than their fair share of it. But seriously, there is always the idea that a woman will have to be a bisexual to be involved in this. Not true. More often than not, the guys I know who have been involved in threesomes are heterosexual.

We gals should learn from them because they seem to have an unwritten code of how to go about it without so much as skin-on-skin contact with each other. I've had threesomes with women who are heterosexual too and although she was not too squirmish about skin-on-skin as many men are, it was not an issue at all. In fact our bodies touched more than several occasions and not she is a bona-fide threesome groupie - always bugging me when the next session is planned for. (Yes, Jean, I'm referring to you!)

So anyway, here are the results for the poll on threesomes. A total of 64 respondents were involved and 72% (46) of them had not been involved in it.

I did not expect the numbers to be so high really. I figured that in this day and age, there would be more people involved in it compared to a survey that was carried out here in 1998 where 60% (out of 150 people) said that they hadn't tried it.

Missus Singapore out!

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SEX BITS

Hookup culture isn't killing relationships.

According to a study by a University of Iowa sociologist, casual sex does not necessarily dilute the possibility of falling in love or becoming romantically involved.

Anthony Paik's survey of 642 adults in Chicago initially found that "average relationship quality was higher for individuals who waited until things were serious to have sex compared to those who became sexually involved in 'hookups,' 'friends with benefits,' or casual dating relationships". This was according to the press release on the study.

However, when Paik had controlled for people who had zero interest in having a relationship, that difference disappeared.

He said, "Couples who became sexually involved as friends or acquaintances and were open to a serious relationship ended up just as happy as those who dated and waited."

Apparently, the study did not pick up much evidence that relationships were lower quality because they started off as hookups. It suggests that rewarding relationships are possible for those who delay sex. But it's also possible for true love to emerge if things start off with a more 'Sex and the City' approach, when people spot each other across the room, become sexually involved and then build a relationship.

Read More at Salon.com.

MS: Honestly, this isn't a big revelation. Many of us already knew about this either first-hand or from the experiences of friends. Of course this study didn't mention how long these relationships lasted or if they progressed into a live long union.

It's really a matter or timing and moods for me. Hell, we can be so strong at times while at other moments, we tend to be so fickle and emotionally swayed that if a particular song is playing at the time a man approaches us, it is not too hard to envisage ourselves locked into a mysterious bond that finds us swooning in bed over this guy a few hours later. Sometimes we hope he calls the next day. Sometimes we don't.

Missus Singapore out!

My Horizontal Life: A Collection of One-Night Stands

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Minggu, 29 Agustus 2010

Group Sex Parties -- Monday, August 30 to Sunday, September 5...

Sex Parties -- Monday, August 30 to Sunday, September 5...

***PICKS OF THE WEEK: THE MEATPACKERS (Saturday)

Monday...
JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) "AUGUST MASSAGE-&-PLAY MONDAY PARTY #5!"; Doors, 7:00 - Midnight, goes 'til 2 am; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s) Starts at 9:3opm. In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys maye have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys.
*Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com

Tuesday…
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). Tonight is the PEAK party. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), $weet (best looking guys get part of proceeds), and SIR (for older men and their admirers),a nd HOOK (everyone gets a # to find guys later to meet) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Paddles."
http://www.nyjacks.com

Wednesday…
DIESEL (Hell's Kitchen). New location. Every Wednesday night (8pm-1am and no longer closing the doors so arrivals can continue coming in throughout the party). Guys are 20-45YO. VERY HOT guys -- great party. For a young/hot crowd. For invite you should send stats and pics at diesel.nyc@hotmail.com or hit up "Diesel2010nyc" on Adam4Adam.com.

GRAB ASS PARTY (Chelsea) Held at Paddles. Every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Get 30-50 guys ages 25 to 55YO: height/weight proportionate (all body types, extremely friendly). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com

HARLEM FREAK PARTY (Harlem) Weekly Wednesday Night Harlem Discreet Freak Party. Its gets better every week..with hotter guys!! Drinks/Condom/Lube provided. 2 rooms available for all nite fucking!! 12am-6am. email/text for more info!! iamthestylist@sprint.blackberry.net

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem) 7pm-11pm, In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending (although last time I went a few weeks ago there were only 6 guys there)from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older.
To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

Thursday…
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). Tonight is the ERUPTION party. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), $weet (best looking guys get part of proceeds), and SIR (for older men and their admirers),a nd HOOK (everyone gets a # to find guys later to meet) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 6PM-MIDNIGHT. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

Friday…
NUBIAN MIDTOWN BOXER PARTY! (Midtown). 11:30pm-5:30am, Nubian midtown is for muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are usually twice a month, usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights too 12am-6am. Gets 70-90 dudes each party. Send pics and stats to Nubianmidtown@yahoo.com

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (UES). It's BACK and in a new location on the UES. Description is from the host, not me: private Mediterranean-themed party for solid masculine men (italian, greek, latin, white, black, middle-eastern) over 200 naked hairy muscled jocks and smooth pumped-up studs, ages 21-45, powerful determined tops and hungry willing bottoms, lots of thick heavy uncut meat, 9pm-4am, NEW UPPER EAST SIDE TOWNHOUSE in E60s, need pics/email address...also need sexy workers. This is the party that was held in the Gramercy Duplex, which generally had average guys, and an older crowd, but hopefully this new party will be more discriminating. Give it a shot and let me know guys.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

AFTER FIVE MEAT/MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (Park Slope, Brooklyn). 7pm-midnight, According to the host, they screen to invite hot, athletic/fit/in-shape men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. Guys that used fake pics/stats to get an invite & but are out of shape, have large bellys, large/average build or look much older than 45 are not be admitted to the party.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@yahoo.com, or check out http://hotsexpartiesnyc.blogspot.com/

HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn)
18-30yo ONLY. Usually 40-50 hot guys; *All lean in shape guys: No fats, chubs, dads, or bears. Unlimited Cosmos and Beer 11PM-3AM. Party runs 10PM- 4 AM. For a younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotbrooklynparty@nyc.rr.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited.
To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 8PM to 3AM. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Times Square). Held in a great space near Times Square. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Doors 9PM to 3AM, party till 4AM. The new location in the W40s is great: fully equipped with shower, porn rom, sauna and with air conditioner. An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email omegaparties@hotmail.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

Saturday…
THE MEATPACKERS/PITSSTOP PARTY(Brooklyn/Park Slope) In cellar with cages and rooms. I haven’t been to this is years, but was hot and a little scary, which made it hotter. Held the 1st Saturday of each month (call the number for info--you'll get an answering machine). For a mixed age crowd/average to hot guys
Must call: 212-677-3599

UPTOWN’S FINEST UNDERWEAR PARTY (Harlem). Held in an apartment – in total darkness this week – plus a garden to fuck outside. FOR Invite EMAIL: KAIZEN729@GMAIL.COM

BLACKOUT PARTY/MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (Harlem). 7pm-midnight, According to the host, they screen to invite hot, athletic/fit/in-shape men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. Guys that used fake pics/stats to get an invite & but are out of shape, have large bellys, large/average build or look much older than 45 are not be admitted to the party.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@yahoo.com, or check out http://hotsexpartiesnyc.blogspot.com/

THE OMEGA PARTY (Times Square). Held in a great space near Times Square. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Doors 6PM to 1AM, party till 2AM. The new location in the W40s is great: fully equipped with shower, porn rom, sauna and with air conditioner. An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email omegaparties@hotmail.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

ASSTORIA BY NIGHT GANG FUCK PARTY (Astoria, Queens). Description by host: party filled with hot naked bi, gay, straight, married voyeurs and exhibitionists. The last party had muscled hairy greek & turks jocks, DL black boys, smooth pumped-up Brazilians, Latino studs, Italian dudes, Asian twinks, and rugged masculine middle eastern arabs eager to relieve their stress in a Dim orgy setting private luxury apt. Age 21 – 45 ONLY slim, athletic, muscle (All races welcomed). 11pm – 3am, STRICT door policy will be enforced, everyone WILL be screened with no exceptions. Must strip down naked at door. Alcohol & Soda refreshments provided. This is drug free & SAFE sex party Condoms & Lube provided.
TO GET IN SEND PICS AND STATS TO: asstorianparty@gmail.com

Sunday…
NUBIAN MIDTOWN BOXER PARTY! (Midtown). 8pm-2am, Nubian midtown is for muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are usually twice a month, usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights too 12am-6am. Gets 70-90 dudes each party. Send pics and stats to Nubianmidtown@yahoo.com

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Chelsea Space."
http://www.nyjacks.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

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PASSENGERS IN TROUBLE

I was on the MRT the other evening and it wasn't terribly crowded but most of the seats were taken. Sometime during the journey, this young couple came on and sat down beside me. I could see from the reflection in the glass window that they obviously needed a room.

Anyway, I didn't bother about it. After all it's the 21st Century and couples are free to do what they want. So being really tired from a long day, I decided to close my eyes but this guy's elbow kept nudging into me. He did it once, I moved. Usually a third time would get me going but I was tired and his bony elbow was hurting me somewhat. So I just let go, "Excuse me but can you please stop nudging into me."

They both stopped what they were doing and almost fell off their seats in shock. I didn't expect their reaction to be honest.

The girl turned to the guy and asked him "Why do you want to touch her? I'm not good enough for you is it?"

He kept quite but she continued ranting even while they were leaving the train. I was amused. One moment, this was a couple who simply couldn't get their hands off each other and now, because of me, they were having a heated argument.

Amazing how love can turn a corner so quickly.

Missus Singapore out!

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Jumat, 27 Agustus 2010

ASK THE BOLDER WOMAN

Q: Is it normal for a woman to prefer fondling and a massage over sex? That seems to be the case with my partner.

MS: Remember the moments leading to your first sexual encounter? Chances are it was passionate with fondling and foreplay to last a lifetime. It has to do with touch. She may feel tired but it may be her way of asking you to help relax her body. It may not always end up with sex but such a deed is registered and payback is often to your benefit.

Don’t underrate what touch can do for a woman. Hey, if she allows you to touch her, that’s always a good sign. Maybe she just wants to take it slow and revisit with those heady moments of past. Moreover, a nice massage can get the blood flowing all over which has the tendency to not only soothe but also arouse. At the end of the day, you have to remember that every woman is different and respond differently to touch.

Missus Singapore out!

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Kamis, 26 Agustus 2010

HUMP PARTY -- Closing Permanently!

According to their website -- and an email blast -- Bruce & Pete are closing down the HUMP PARTIES NYC (The New York Butt Lickers and Sex On Sunday)for good.

Check out their website for details: http://www.GaySexParties.com
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Not much of a surprise since they lost their space when the Gramercy Duplex closed down (still not clear why) last month. I only went to this party once and it was -- without question -- the most disgusting party I have ever attended. The guys were way more than just out of shape, and the smell and atmosphere was disgusting. I'll never forget watching some of the grossest UNSAFE sex I've ever seen. I got out of there in about ten minutes.

All that said -- clearly they must have brought pleasure to certain guys looking for a particular kind of release. Well, guys, you still have The Gallery Party.

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ON THE VERGE

Well congratulations to the very beautiful Miss Mexico for winning the Miss Universe crown. Somehow, that doesn't seem to carry as much flair as it used to. Instead, everyone seems to be licking their lips as to just when her scandal will hit the news.

It's almost as if by winning a pageant, people expect a scandal to follow. But really, so what if she had sex before, or if there are nude photos of her circulating around the net? It's not as if this is a pageant for virgins or Miss Pure.

Take the Mrs pageant I took part in. The good thing about it is there don't seem to be any scandals associated with it because - you must have screwed to be able to take part in the competition to begin with. No screwing, no children and no children, no entry to the competition. So who cares about any scandal from a Mrs pageant, even though there are more than enough stories to shake your world for a long time.

Missus Singapore out!

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Rabu, 25 Agustus 2010

MOOD BOOSTERS

Here is another submission from Kate, from Malaysia on her methods of getting into the right mood for her man.

"If there is one thing that always gets me happy, it's spending time with my family. When I share moments with them, I am reminded how lucky I am to have them. And when my husband is there, I am reminded that he is just as responsible for them as I am. Inevitably, when I am happy this way, I also feel drawn to him and of course usually, intimacy will follow later. "

Thanks for this Kate. It's really a nice way to look at things and something that only couples with children will appreciate. I feel that way too although at times I also want to kill my husband who gave me the kids when they drive me up the wall!

Missus Singapore out!

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ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY review

There are many parties in the city that I avoid, or have never tried for one reason or another, so I rely on friends to test them out. One of my blog readers decided to give ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY a shot last week. I've never tried this out, even though it's close to my apartment because the host (who seems like really nice dudes) don't seem very discriminating. Also, I'm slightly obsessed with SAFE SEX parties -- and theirs didn't seem like one that had SAFE SEX as a priority. Well, guys, here's my friend's review...


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***ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan)REVIEW***

Hi - have read your blog - just thought i'd pass along that I attended the Ed and Steve interracial group this past Saturday and it was DISTURBING and DISGUSTING.

First of all, it's pretty smoke filled as they allow smoking; secondly, they advertise the age range of 35-45 - but saw only about 3 of us who fit into that age range - most were AT LEAST 10 years older; MOST disturbing - it just felt dirty and very seedy and there were NUMEROUS people who were visibly unhealthy and, although condoms and lube were provided, most were practicing unsafe sex and by their physical look, made that a practice.

Needless to say - I did nothing and left - and was not given my money back. Just thought you'd want to know to NOT encourage this party. Read of your distaste for the Harlem party - think this one was probably far worse! --Dan

BOTTOM LINE: It was not AT ALL what I was expecting - and was very jarring and disturbing.

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So guys -- WOW -- well, I'm glad I've never been to this one -- I would have left too. As regular readers of this blog know I'm only interested in promoting SAFE-SEX parties, and I try to warn guys which parties are NOT safe. If guys want to go to parties that are exclusively BB -- that's their business (and there are plenty of BB parties), but it drives me crazy to see BB at general parties. Have fun guys, BUT PLAY SAFE!

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So if all this sounds hot to you, here's the info (but you won't see me there)...

ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) Held in a private apartment by an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. Starts at 5pm and runs until 12am (officially there is no door closing time). The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35 - 45. They get about 40+ guys. The hosts says They provide condoms and lube; Smoking is allowed in designated areas; it's a BYOB party. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude. 8pm to 2am.
Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

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Selasa, 24 Agustus 2010

A WOMAN'S WAY

A 34-year old man writes in, "I just can't seem to understand my wife. Sometimes she is so much in the mood for sex that at times she even jumps me but at other times, when I do the same to her, she pulls away. Women are weird."

Tomas, from Spain.

MS: Well, Tomas, she is not weird. She is just  being a woman. You have to understand that women are for most parts, cyclic creatures who are at the mercy of hormones. What is going on in her life at that point in time is also a contributing factor.

If you think that just because my blog centres on sexuality that I am humping all the time, well you are wrong. There are times that I just don't feel in the mood. I mean it could be to the extent that I'd probably go for a root canal than have sex. Okay, maybe that's a bit exaggerated but you get the idea.

Women do get bored easily too, especially when its the same song and dance routine. So you need to take some time to understand your woman. Hang out together without any pressure on sex to get to know each other on different levels. That way you would probably be more in-tuned to her moods and if you are lucky enough, you might even discover the key to getting her in the mood. It really pays to take time to know your woman.

Missus Singapore out!

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Senin, 23 Agustus 2010

MEAT TO EAT

Here is a doctored ad but a pretty good one. For me, give me my cereal every morning please. I just need my power food to get me through the day. But then again, morning dick is also something I'd consider. I'd rather have it then than at the end of the day dick, which might not be as hard. 

I think the ad (if it is really as it is) should be featuring a hard dick. I mean placing it beside morning cereal, implying a morning meal, there should be a hard dick she is holding. That would make it a more telling choice. In this case, flaccid dick over cereal, not much of a competition. I'll take cereal anytime.

Thanks Don, from Quebec, Canada

Missus Singapore out!

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GWEN IS A DOGGY!

Remember my friend Gwen? I posted sometime back (2006) about her never ever being taken from the rear by anyone let alone her husband of 13 years. Well, I sort of lost touch with her when she headed overseas due her hubby's posting to the US.

We did exchange the occasional email while she was there but she is back and we caught up over the weekend. Latest report from her - she has added one more adorable girl to her brood of two.

Interestingly, she did not take too long to revisit with the subject of our conversation about her not experiencing a doggy, ever. Guess what? She is now a 'certified bitch' - as she puts it because she just can't get enough of it these days. In fact, she even went on to claim that her latest child was a result of it! Wow. Even I don't recall how or when I conceived my two kids.

So anyway, she has nothing but thanks for me after persuading her to try it. Actually, all I did was tell her not to restrict her bedroom activities to a single position. I used the doggy as an example only.

Little did I know I would be transforming her preferences completely. While I too love the doggy, I have to admit I've never quite achieved the fixation that she has. I'm doomed to hell. What kind of monster have I created?

Missus Singapore out!

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Minggu, 22 Agustus 2010

Group Sex Parties -- Monday, August 23 to Sunday, August 29...

Sex Parties -- Monday, August 23 to Sunday, August 29...

***PICKS OF THE WEEK: The Olympus Party -- at it's new location (Friday)

Monday...
JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) "Massage-&-Play Mondays" at "Paddles"; events go 'til 2 am; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s) Starts at 9:3opm. In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys maye have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys.
*Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com

Tuesday…
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). Tonight is PEAK meets SIR. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), $weet (best looking guys get part of proceeds), and SIR (for older men and their admirers),a nd HOOK (everyone gets a # to find guys later to meet) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. $20. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Paddles;” 25 donation.
http://www.nyjacks.com

Wednesday…
DIESEL (Hell's Kitchen). New location. Every Wednesday night (8pm-1am and no longer closing the doors so arrivals can continue coming in throughout the party). Guys are 20-45YO. $25 exact change. VERY HOT guys -- great party. For a young/hot crowd. For invite you should send stats and pics at diesel.nyc@hotmail.com or hit up "Diesel2010nyc" on Adam4Adam.com.

GRAB ASS PARTY (Chelsea) Held at Paddles. Every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. $25 donation, plus $2 for clothes check. Get 30-50 guys ages 25 to 55YO: height/weight proportionate (all body types, extremely friendly). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com
NOTE: Win a free Complimentary Entry for August Grab Ass! For the month of August they are playing a game. Send them your pic and if they think that you are HOT you get ONE free comp for Grab Ass for the month of August! Send to hunteur1@gmail.com and he will send a reply right away! Good Luck!

HARLEM FREAK PARTY (Harlem) Weekly Wednesday Night Harlem Discreet Freak Party. Its gets better every week..with hotter guys!! Drinks/Condom/Lube provided. 2 rooms available for all nite fucking!! 12am-6am. email/text for more info!! iamthestylist@sprint.blackberry.net

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited. WED night parties in the summer for $5!
To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

Thursday…
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). TONIGHT is Eruption. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), $weet (best looking guys get part of proceeds), and SIR (for older men and their admirers),a nd HOOK (everyone gets a # to find guys later to meet) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. $20. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 6PM-MIDNIGHT; $15 donation. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem)
In big apartment in Harlem. Doors: 7pm-9pm; the party ends at 11pm. The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending (although last time I went a few weeks ago there were only 6 guys there)from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. $20. Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com
NOTE: This is theme party..."NEON BLACKOUT PARTY" -- When you check in, you will be given a neon glow-stick bracelet to wear on your wrist. There will be different colors to indicate who is top/bottom/versatile. The playroom will be completely dark except for the neon colors from your bracelets. The rest of the apartment will remain dimly lit with movies playing in the living room for those that want to socialize.

Friday…
THE OLYMPUS PARTY (UES). It's BACK and in a new location on the UES. Description is from the host, not me: private Mediterranean-themed party for solid masculine men (italian, greek, latin, white, black, middle-eastern) over 200 naked hairy muscled jocks and smooth pumped-up studs, ages 21-45, powerful determined tops and hungry willing bottoms, lots of thick heavy uncut meat, $25, 9pm-4am, NEW UPPER EAST SIDE TOWNHOUSE in E60s, need pics/email address...also need sexy workers. This is the party that was held in the Gramercy Duplex, which generally had average guys, and an older crowd, but hopefully this new party will be more discriminating. Give it a shot and let me know guys.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). TONIGHT is $WEET. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), $weet (best looking guys get part of proceeds), and SIR (for older men and their admirers),a nd HOOK (everyone gets a # to find guys later to meet) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. $20. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) Held in a private apartment by an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. Starts at 5pm and runs until 12am (officially there is no door closing time). The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35 - 45. They get about 40+ guys. The hosts says They provide condoms and lube; Smoking is allowed in designated areas; it's a BYOB party. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude. 8pm to 2am. $10 before 6pm; $20 donation afterwards.
Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn)
18-30yo ONLY. Usually 40-50 hot guys; *All lean in shape guys: No fats, chubs, dads, or bears. ($20 Donation for New Members; $15 Donation for Members; College Boy Twinks 18-23yo Free 10pm-12am /$10 Donation after 12am). Unlimited Cosmos and Beer 11PM-3AM. Party runs 10PM- 4 AM. For a younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotbrooklynparty@nyc.rr.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. $15
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. $15 donation includes drinks; $10 no drinks). Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited.
To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 8PM to 3AM; $15 donation. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) Held in a private apartment by an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. Starts at 5pm and runs until 12am (officially there is no door closing time). The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35 - 45. Beware: Lots of BB. They claim to get about 40+ guys. The hosts says They provide condoms and lube; Smoking is allowed in designated areas; it's a BYOB party. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude. Time: 8PM to 2AM; donation: $10 before 9PM (exact change) $20 after 9PM. For older/mostly out-of-shape guys.
Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

GALLERY OF MEN (Times Square) 9PM-3AM; $20 before Midnight and $25 after; every two weeks, 20s - 40s mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. A party for older out of-shape guys.
Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com

Saturday…
UPTOWN’S FINEST UNDERWEAR PARTY (Harlem). Held in an apartment – in total darkness this week – plus a garden to fuck outside. $10.00 at the door - 1ST FIVE PEOPLE BEFORE 1:00AM get in half off. FOR Invite EMAIL: KAIZEN729@GMAIL.COM

THE OMEGA PARTY (Times Square). Held in a great space near Times Square. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Doors 9 PM to 3 AM , party till 4AM, Donation:$22. The new location in the W40s is great: fully equipped with shower, porn rom, sauna and with air conditioner. An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email omegaparties@hotmail.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) "AFTERNOON LEATHER" at "Paddles" -- doors 1:00 to 6:00, goes 'til 8 pm; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. $15
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

ASSTORIA BY NIGHT GANG FUCK PARTY (Astoria, Queens). Description by host: party filled with hot naked bi, gay, straight, married voyeurs and exhibitionists. The last party had muscled hairy greek & turks jocks, DL black boys, smooth pumped-up Brazilians, Latino studs, Italian dudes, Asian twinks, and rugged masculine middle eastern arabs eager to relieve their stress in a Dim orgy setting private luxury apt. Age 21 – 45 ONLY slim, athletic, muscle (All races welcomed). 11pm – 3am, STRICT door policy will be enforced, everyone WILL be screened with no exceptions. Must strip down naked at door. Alcohol & Soda refreshments provided. This is drug free & SAFE sex party Condoms & Lube provided $20 Donation.
TO GET IN SEND PICS AND STATS TO: asstorianparty@gmail.com

Sunday…
THE OMEGA PARTY (Times Square). Held in a great space near Times Square. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Doors 6 PM to 1 AM , party till 2AM, Donation: $22. The new location in the W40s is great: fully equipped with shower, porn rom, sauna and with air conditioner. An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email omegaparties@hotmail.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Chelsea Space"; 25 donation.
http://www.nyjacks.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. $15
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

HOT PARTIES 2006 (Times Square). Party in studio space in W40s. 7PM to 12AM. An older mixed crowd/for mostly out-of-shape guys. $22 donation. *Email photos and stats to hotparties2006@verizon.net or hotparties2006@msn.com

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ALL THE PARTIES – LISTED BY CATEGORY – INCLUDING PARTIES TO CHECK OUT THAT ARE NOT HAPPENING THIS WEEK…

Manhattan

THE BEST (The Top Parties -- for Hot Guys)

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square/Garment District) Just moved to back to Manhattan). The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not always great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. $25 donation. 11pm-5am. For a younger/hot crowd.
nyjockparty@yahoo.com

THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Midtown East) 7-11pm. Held in a studio space -- has guys in mostly 20s -30s-hot 40YOs. It's above average to hot muscle guys, and twinks. Not a lot of attitude. Usually hot sex, and a fun mix of guys. Easily one of the best parties -- and one of few that you get a good mix of hot guys and hot sex. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice a month, 7pm-11pm. $20 until 8pm, $25 donation afterward. For a racially mixed younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

AM: An All New After Hours Party (Midtown). AM is a private, selective, and hot party only for good looking in shape guys. Get about 80 guys. This is a SAFE & DRUG FREE PARTY. Party takes place after you've been everywhere else on Sunday night: Starts after midnight and goes until early Monday morning. $20, $25 after 1am; Coat check is $1; Condoms, lube, water, Gatorade and more is provided. Same dude runs this who runs NYJP (and has a similar crowd to NYJP--when it was in Manhattan).
For invite, email James: aminnyc1@yahoo.com

UPPER WEST SIDE UNDERWEAR PARTY (UWS) Haven't been yet, but sounds very hot. Doors open 10:30 to 12:30am (The party goes untill its dead). There is no cover. Free liquor provided. This is a private apartment in a doorman building so discretion is a must. This is a private party so only the people who have been approved are invited. This is a fun atmosphere to chill hang out and play with hot guys. No obligation to participate if you don't want to. Will have porn and lube and condoms as well. To get in send pics and stats to underwearpartyuws@gmail.com.

DIESEL (Hell's Kitchen). New location. Every Wednesday night (8pm-1am and no longer closing the doors so arrivals can continue coming in throughout the party). $25 exact change. Never been, but they claim to get a very hot crowd. You have to hit up "Diesel2010nyc" on Adam4Adam.com to get in.

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AVERAGE GUYS (Mixed and spotty crowd -– Sometimes Very Hot, Sometimes NOT)....

THE OMEGA PARTY (Times Square). Held in a great space near Times Square. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 6PM TO 2 AM, DOORS 6PM TO 12 am; Donation: $25; early bird special $20 (6pm to 8 pm). coat check $1. The new location in the W40s is great: fully equipped with shower, porn rom, sauna and with air conditioner. An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email omegaparties@hotmail.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (UES). Description is from the host, not me: private Mediterranean-themed party for solid masculine men (italian, greek, latin, white, black, middle-eastern) over 200 naked hairy muscled jocks and smooth pumped-up studs, ages 21-45, powerful determined tops and hungry willing bottoms, lots of thick heavy uncut meat, $25, 9pm-4am, NEW UPPER EAST SIDE TOWNHOUSE in E60s, need pics/email address...also need sexy workers. This is the party that was held in the Gramercy Duplex, which generally had average guys, and an older crowd, but hopefully this new party will be more discriminating. Give it a shot and let me know guys.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

ALL NUDE FREAK PARTY (Manhattan & Brooklyn). According to the host, they screen to invite hot, athletic/fit/in-shape men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. Guys that used fake pics/stats to get an invite & but are out of shape, have large bellys, large/average build or look much older than 45 are not be admitted to the party. 9pm - 1am; $20, plus $1 minimum tip for clothes check helpers.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@yahoo.com, or check out http://hotsexpartiesnyc.blogspot.com/

EXECUTIVE LUNCH (UES). Lunch-time party expecting a huge turnout, lots of changes and new hidden features, including the newly renovated skybox, quickly becoming the place for business men to hook up weekday afternoons. $20 donation, 11am-4pm.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net (www.gaysexpartiesnyc.com).

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s)
In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from
hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys maye have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys.
*Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com

ANOTHER SEX PARTY 70s PORN (West Harlem). I've not been to this one, but was told it's "the hottest I have ever attended." Seems to be held once or twice a year -- never get advance warning. It's odd because it is a mix of straight men who like the porn and don't even look at the other guys much and gay men who do nothing but look at the other guys, and only glance at the porn. About 12 men each party. Preference is given to hairy men; from really handsome to normal but no fat or very old men. Social yes, wine is served as is lube.
FOR INVITE: Send a face and full description to playevents@gmail.com

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem)
In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending (although last time I went a few weeks ago there were only 6 guys there)from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. $25. Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com


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OPEN DOOR POLICY (NOT SELECTIVE: let anybody in, some hot guys and then anybody else who wants to go)...

THE PLAYGROUND (Garment District). Private M4M sex party, 11:30pm-4:30am, $20 donation. "Featuring 4 freak areas & heavy action!!" An older crowd/for average to out of shape guys. Supplies, liquids & clothescheck provided. Never been to this one.
Send pics + stats to playgroundnyc@yahoo.com.

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), $weet (best looking guys get part of proceeds), and SIR (for older men and their admirers),a nd HOOK (everyone gets a # to find guys later to meet) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. $20. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

CUMMONKEY/GRAB ASS PARTY (Chelsea) Held at Paddles. Every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. $25 donation, plus $2 for clothes check. Get 30-50 guys ages 25 to 55YO: height/weight proportionate (all body types, extremely friendly). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com

HOT PARTIES 2006 (Times Square). Party in studio space in W40s. 7PM to 12AM. An older mixed crowd/for mostly out-of-shape guys. $22 donation. *Email photos and stats to hotparties2006@verizon.net or hotparties2006@msn.com

JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Sunday and Tuesday Parties at "Chelsea Space" and "Paddles," respectively; 25 donation.
http://www.nyjacks.com

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Specialty Parties Specifically for Interracial, African-American, Latino or Asian guys…

ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) Held in a private apartment by an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. Starts at 5pm and runs until 12am (officially there is no door closing time). The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35 - 45. Beware: Lots of BB. They claim to get about 40+ guys. The hosts says They provide condoms and lube; Smoking is allowed in designated areas; it's a BYOB party. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude. Time: 8PM to 2AM; donation: $10 before 9PM (exact change) $20 after 9PM. For older/mostly out-of-shape guys.
Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

NUBIAN MIDTOWN BOXER PARTY! (Midtown). Nubian midtown is for muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. $15 before 1:30am,$20 after. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are usually twice a month, usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights too 12am-6am. Gets 70-90 dudes each party. Send pics and stats to Nubianmidtown@yahoo.com

PAPI BROTHAS HOTEL SUITE PARTY (Midtown) A party for 20-40YO Black, Latin and Mixed guys ONLY held a hot hotel suite with open Bar, exotic dancers, sodas, wine, bottled water. Email pics/stats to Latinman4sexymen@aol.com or check out http://papibrothasnyc.blogspot.com/?zx=46415ca9e7e3bd93.

STICKY RICE PARTY (Gramercy) An exclusive Asian sex party in NYC for "young, hot, lean, in shape Asian guys" between 18 - 35. Everyone pitches in for cost of hotel, and brings their own condoms. Needles to say, I've never been. Saturdays.
Email for invite: sticky-rice-party-nyc@googlegroups.com

SKYBLU ( Harlem ) Only for older attractive masculine Black & Latino guys 35-50YO.
Check out: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SKYBLU-GROOVE/
Or email stats and pics to: SKYBLU-GROOVE@yahoogroups.com

UPTOWN’S FINEST UNDERWEAR PARTY (Harlem). Held in an apartment – in total darkness this week – plus a garden to fuck outside. $10.00 at the door - 1ST FIVE PEOPLE BEFORE 1:00AM get in half off. FOR Invite EMAIL: KAIZEN729@GMAIL.COM

MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (E. 20s). this party is a mixed race party that is predominately black and Latino. The door is no discriminatory in regards to age, shape or size therefore there is mix of people that may or may not be to my liking. Most of the crowd older and not in the best of shape. Additionally the party did not seem to promote safe sex. Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@yahoo.com

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Specialty Parties…

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). Not a sex party, but a massage party…its about touch. The hosts says. "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Limited to 14 guys; $30 for the Party. Students and Under 26 - $20, 8:15pm to 10:45pm (door closes at 8:35 pm). Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries. They've been running these for two months now.
To Get in email the host: massagecoachnyc@gmail.com

SPAM PARTY (Brooklyn). Not a M4M party, but may interest the more adventurous of you: A play party where dykes, fags, bisexuals and tansgendered folks get together for a sexually charged underwear party. 11pm-4am, Admission: $10 women/trans, $20 men, student's 18-22 w/valid id FREE! Mandatory Pants Check Down To Your Underwear. They also run the SUBMIT PARTY. Check out the parties at http://www..submitparty.com. If you have questions, please email Red@submitparty.com.

THE BEAR HUNT ( West Harlem ). Run by the same people who run The Men's Party. For bears and their admirers. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. $25 donation
www.bearhuntnyc.com

BODY BUILDER SEX PARTY ( Manhattan ) For
body builders only (and their slaves). The parties are always held in discreet locations with at least 10 bodybuilders.
www.bodybuildersexparty.com
www.realbodybuilders.com

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) Sex is no longer banned (for about 6 months now). Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger
guys in. Last weekend it was $5 if under 25 and $10 if under 30. It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night.
www.NYBondageClub.com

DARRELL’S DUNGEON (Chelsea). Leather, Military or Less. All Male, All Colors, Anything Goes…Thursdays (8PM-3AM). Held at PADDLES (w26). For more information, check out: www.darrellsdungeon.mobi. For invitation, send stats and pics to darrell@darrellsdungeon.com

FOREVER FISTING PARTY: Open door policy, every 2nd Wednesday at "Chelsea Space" – Contact Cain at MasterCainB@yahoo.com

BANA POOL PARTY ( Manhattan ) In a club. A huge space with different levels and rooms: hotubs, pools, shower rooms, saunas, steam rooms, sex rooms, dance floor, bars.$40-50 general admission, $60-80 gets you a locker+, and $100 VIP pass. Very cool party. Lots of fun. February 12th at 11:59pm - 5AM
www.hotsteammachine.com
www.thebanapoolparty.com

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PARTIES FOR OLDER and/or OUT OF SHAPE GUYS....

GYMJOX BOXER PARTY (Times Square). Haven't been yet, but hosts insists it's strictly for lean/fit guys under 40YO. 11:30pm-4:30am; $20 donation; Condoms, lube & liquids provided; Mandatory secure clothes check. No shirts or tees allowed. Haven't been yet, but many many guys have told me it's for an older, out of shape crowd. To get in email stats and pics to gymjoxnyc@yahoo.com.

GALLERY OF MEN (Times Square) 9PM-3AM; $20 before Midnight and $25 after; every two weeks, 20s - 40s mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. A party for older out of shape guys.
Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com

BISHOP (Downtown) Hotel room. I’ve never been to this party because they take anyone -- ANYONE. One guy reported the he likes it because it attracts a wide group of types, ages, ethnic groups without discrimination. A party for older out of shape guys. I hear the host is NOT cool. Usually 30-50 guys attend--mostly 30-40 YOs, $20.
*Email request (no pic or stats needed) to bishop.group@gmail.com

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem)
In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending (although last time I went a few weeks ago there were only 6 guys there)from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. $25. Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com

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ALL MALE PARTY (Midtown West).
In apartment. I haven't been to this one in years because its way too expensive, AND IT SUCKS -- the one time I went the FAT guys were only outnumbered by the UGLY guys. 25-50 guys, weird fee structure, check out their website. TOTAL waste of your time and money. PASS ON THIS ONE. AVOID!!!
www.AllMaleParty.com or email AllMaleParty@gmail.com

RIPPED (Chelsea) I'M BEGINNING TO THINK THIS IS A FAKE PARTY. But if yoiu want to try: the host claims that it's held in a huge loft, books solid months in advance. Hot underwear sex party for hunks and rugged masculine bodybuilder dudes, 100+ guys in great shape, all ages and races welcome, $25, 9PM-4PM, (ALSO NEED PUMPED JOCKS AND MUSCLED STUDS TO HELP OUT-FREE ENTRY AND GET TO PLAY DURING THE NIGHT). You have to hit up "RippedSteel" on Adam4Adam with pics and email to get. SUPER HOT GUYS KEEP COMPLAINING THAT THEY CAN'T GET IN -- SO IT SEEMS UNLIKLEY THAT THIS IS FOR REAL. LET ME KNOW IF YOU HEAR OTHERWISE. ANYONE BEEN?????

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Brooklyn…

COLLEGE WATER SPORTS KEGGER PARTY and GOLDEN BOYS USA (Brooklyn) Held in the basement space in a brownstone. Only accept guys who
are in-shape, 18-30 years old. Have regular rooms and wet rooms (even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party). Average 75-120 guys attend, all 20 YOs, $25. For a younger/hot crowd.
Email here ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com

HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn)
18-30yo ONLY. Usually 40-50 hot guys; *All lean in shape guys: No fats, chubs, dads, or bears. ($20 Donation for New Members; $15 Donation for Members; College Boy Twinks 18-23yo Free 10pm-12am /$10 Donation after 12am). Unlimited Cosmos and Beer 11PM-3AM. Party runs 10PM- 4 AM. For a younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotbrooklynparty@nyc.rr.com

THE MEATPACKERS/PITSSTOP PARTY(Brooklyn/Park Slope) In cellar with cages and rooms. I haven’t been to this is years, but was hot and a little scary, which made it hotter. Held the 1st Saturday of each month (call the number for info--you'll get an answering machine). For a mixed age crowd/average to hot guys
Must call: 212-677-3599

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, held every Friday & Sat (12midnight-7am) and Sunday (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. $15
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. $15 donation includes drinks; $10 no drinks). Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited. Also has WED night parties in the summer for $5!
To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Park Slope) Sometimes has a joint party Brooklyn. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. $25 donation. 10pm-5am. The Manhattan party is better. For a younger/hot crowd.
nyjockparty@yahoo.com

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Queens ...

WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills) The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in pvt 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am.
Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

OZONE PARK SEX PARTY (Ozone Park, Queens). Held in a private apartment, Donation $24 person/$40 Couple, 9pm-am (doors close at 10:30pm). Host 30 to 50 guys once a month (usually 35 guys per party with 30 here at a time); big on variety, so lots of different guys: breakdown of 35 guys is something like 10 guys under 30, 15 guys in their 30s and 10 guys over 40. Now only accepting new guys who are under 35 years of age (exceptions made). For a mixed age/average to hot crowd.
Email pics + stats to: SexPartyQueens@gmail.com.
*ON HIATUS UNTIL SEPTEMBER 18.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; Thursday, 6PM-MIDNIGHT, or Fridays, 8PM to 3AM; $15 donation. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

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New Jersey …

MONMOUTH COUNTY PARTY (Tinton Falls). Lunch-time sex party held at hotel. $20.00 donation; Condoms lube bottled water provided; held in Penthouse Suite with beds & showers and plenty of room to play. Get 30 to 60 guys in a 4 hour time span. For an older/average crowd. For invite: mfactor62@yahoo.com


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Sabtu, 21 Agustus 2010

DON'T WANT THE WIFE BACK!

A man bought a new sports car and was out for a nice evening drive. Midway through his drive, he spotted the familiar flashing of red and blue light behind him.

"There's no way they will catch me," he thought, and stepped on the gas.

The needle hit 90, 100, 110, 130. and finally 150 with the lights still behind him.

"What in hell am I doing?" he thought and pulled over.

The cop came up to him, took his license without a word and examined it and the car.

"I've had a tough shift and this is my last pull over. I don't feel like more paperwork so if you can give me an excuse for your driving that I haven't heard before, then you can go!"

"Last week my wife ran off with a cop," the man said, "and I was afraid you were trying to give her back!"

"Have a nice night", said the officer.

MS: Thanks Daniel Ling for this and all the other things you sent in.

Missus Singapore out!

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OUT WITH IT!

"My cousin got married in 1985 to a wonderful woman. They were only 21 and I was also around the same age. I felt it was a wee bit young then. Anyway, we used to hang out together a lot and at the time I was in and out of many relationships.

I can't say that I didn't expect it but a few months into the union, they started having a lot of arguments and things were not rosy. I wanted to stay out of things and not take sides which I managed to do. However, my cousin called me and asked if I could help her out and talk to her. He sounded desperate and so I agreed.

We met at the beach one evening (her idea). We started talking and found out that she was finding it hard to get use to his long string of previous girlfriends who still keep calling him. She felt threatened by it and it didn't help that she was a little on the insecure side.

I encouraged her to sit down and talk to him and lay everything out (which I figured they should have done before they tied the knot). It was a long tiring talk and it toned down a little as the night was in full swing. Then out of the blue, she turned around to hug me. I hugged her back thinking that it was done in appreciation. But then she turned her lips to mine, kissed me and before I could pull away, she had her hand on my dick.

Being the horny retard that I was then, I didn't push her away. In fact, I helped her unzip my jeans and pulled out my throbbing dick. She stroked it for a while and then went down on me. It was a blow in angst and I loved it!

Then without any warning, she went on her knees, pulled down her pantie from under her skirt, and with one hand firmly gripping my dick, she guided it in. It was a wild fuck in the open (of course in the dark) but we later took it to my place where we spent the whole night screwing each other.

Interestingly, she never nor did I, say a word as we were screwing. Not a single word. We never did it again and although they did get back together after that, their marriage only lasted for about two years before they decided to call it quits. It was our little secret and has stayed that way since - I fucked my cousin's new wife or rather she fucked me!"
Gordon P, East, Singapore

MS: So it does pay to lend a ear! Gosh with the confessions that I am receiving such as this one, I really think I should have no problem whatsoever getting a place in heaven!

Missus Singapore out!

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Jumat, 20 Agustus 2010

ROUGH OR SENSUAL? (POLL 22)

Here are the poll results for the one on rough versus sensual sex. The figures speak for themselves. Although I expected it to be about equal, I certainly didn't expect that this many people (65.3%) actually enjoyed it.

As for me, I enjoy it too and like Freda from Malaysia wrote in to say, "I like them both but it has to depend on my moods."

It also depends on the man really. Sometimes a woman's idea of rough is nothing like what a man has in mind so it's important to communicate these things before the first item of clothing is removed. Talk they say is cheap but if it becomes part of the foreplay, then it will be very beneficial to all parties. It's a great way to stir up the excitement.

Rough sex takes skill in order not to hurt your partner. If you think rough sex is all about hard and ferocious pounding like there is no tomorrow and with no regard for the woman, well then you are not ready to have it.

It's really about getting your tool in and out quickly. Hard thrusting? Yes, but not banging into her pelvic bone or slipping out and hitting your tool against the soft and sensitive external tissues of her privates. Trust me, that's really no fun for the woman and you might make her want to avoid rough sex altogether.

I think one way is to get the woman to take control of the rough sex and slowly work to gain her trust and confidence in you enough to let her relinquish control at some point.

Anyway, as usual, thank you all for your votes.

Missus Singapore out!

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Kamis, 19 Agustus 2010

Anyone been to RIPPED???

Guys -- need your help!!! Dozens of hot guys have asked me if RIPPED is for real. They have all tried through A4A to get into RIPPED -- and have been told by the host that he is booked up untli after Labor Day (I heard the same thing when I tried to get in). So all these very HOT guys are asking: Is this party for real?

I'm beginning to wonder myself if RIPPED is for real too. I don't know ANYONE who's been. So guys -- if you've been to RIPPED, can you comment below or email me at evanmccarthy9999@yahoo.com. Will post your info anonymously. Thanks guys.

Here's the info the host posts on A4A...
RIPPED (Chelsea) Held in a huge loft, book solid months in advance. Hot underwear sex party for hunks and rugged masculine bodybuilder dudes, 100+ guys in great shape, all ages and races welcome, $25, 9PM-4PM, (ALSO NEED PUMPED JOCKS AND MUSCLED STUDS TO HELP OUT-FREE ENTRY AND GET TO PLAY DURING THE NIGHT). You have to hit up "RippedSteel" on Adam4Adam with pics and email to get in

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UPDATE: LOTS OF GUYS EMAILED ME COMPLAINING THAT THEY THINK THIS IS A FAKE PARTY TOO - NOT ONE PERSON WHO EMAILED ME HAS EVER BEEN TO THIS PARTY -- OR KNOWN ANYONE WHO'S BEEN. SOUNDS LIKE A FAKE TO ME GUYS.

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MOOD BOOSTERS

Here is one mood booster sent in by Eve Nalstrom. Eve is a 46-year old mother of two, one of whom is autistic. Like all mothers, she is stressed by motherhood - more so since she has a special-needs child to look after. But she is an example of a woman who will not bow to her goals of enjoying life (and sex) to the fullest. Here is how she boosts her mood for sex.


"It's hard for me to find time for myself but on the rare occasions that I do, I will jog around my apartment. It just clears my mind and I feel recharged. Each time I do so I increase it by one round. Now I am up to 9 rounds. Not only am I fitter, I'm also able to think better and clearer and the bonus for me(and my husband) is that I also find myself hungrier for sex after each run."

Missus Singapore out!

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Rabu, 18 Agustus 2010

OLYMPUS and EXECUTIVE LUNCH Parties Update

For all of you who keep asking me what happened to the Gramercy Duplex -- I still don't know -- but the good news is that I heard from the host of the OLYMPUS and EXECUTIVE LUNCH parties -- and they have restarted at his new upper east side location in the 60's. (He says it's a private three-level townhouse.)

This only applies to the OLYMPUS and EXECUTIVE LUNCH parties (HUMP which has nothing to do with this host is still searching for a new space to hold their parties).

So if anyway tries out the new location before I do -- report back. Thanks guys -- have fun and be safe.

This Friday...
THE OLYMPUS PARTY (UES). It's BACK and in a new location on the UES. Description is from the host, not me: private Mediterranean-themed party for solid masculine men (italian, greek, latin, white, black, middle-eastern) over 200 naked hairy muscled jocks and smooth pumped-up studs, ages 21-45, powerful determined tops and hungry willing bottoms, lots of thick heavy uncut meat, $25, 9pm-4am, NEW UPPER EAST SIDE TOWNHOUSE in E60s, need pics/email address...also need sexy workers. This is the party that was held in the Gramercy Duplex, which generally had average guys, and an older crowd, but hopefully this new party will be more discriminating. Give it a shot and let me know guys.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

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HEADLINE NEWS!

"A new study says; the kind of smartphone you wield could play a role in how lucky you are getting laid! According to statistics by an online dating website published this week, iPhone users have more sex on average than BlackBerry and Android owners.

OkCupid, one of the nation's largest free online dating services, has released statistics gathered from users, which showed that by the age of 30, female iPhone owners had had twice as many sexual partners as Android users and 25 percent more than BlackBerry users. Male iPhone users were also shown to have had more sexual partners at 30 than BlackBerry or Android-owning members, though the margins were slightly narrower."

As reported in IGN Gear.

MS: What a joke! I doubt this has any credibility since you can never trust OKCupid to 'hook you up with the perfect one'.Then with the number of aps available, where will anyone ever find the time to get laid? I think the ones with the boring plain phones tend to get laid the most! LOL!

Missus Singapore out!

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Selasa, 17 Agustus 2010

DATING DON'TS

I was out with a few friends last week. It was a little disappointing because it was supposed to be a girls' night out but one of my friends Sue, decided to bring a new boyfriend along on the pretext of introducing him to us.

Sue is a divorcee with two children and is around my age. The other three girlfriends were all in same age group too. But this guy, let's call him Alex, was about 10 years younger than any of us. He was quite a dresser and pretty good looking. Charming guy really, until he started opening his mouth.

Meeting him led me to write this post about what you should not do when you are out with your girlfriend and her friends. It's really common sense. When you are out with your girlfriend's friends, one of the things you should not do is to comment on how hot another of her friends is.

Sue called me up the next day to tell me about how Alex went on and on about hot hot I was. Although I am not one to dismiss comments like that (especially at my age), I was aghast on hearing them in this instance.

Even if I am smoking hot (which I think I am, LOL), you should have the good sense not to mention it to your girlfriend, not even if you are kidding around. I don't think any woman will find it funny or amusing. In fact, you might probably make her angry or hurt.

Sue was definitely feeling that way. I'm betting she will never invite him to our outings again not because she won't trust us but more likely that she won't trust him.

The dating game is really about making the right moves at the right time and this is definitely one of the worse moves to make. Even if it is true that a woman has smoking hot friends, keep it to yourself. Your job is to make her the centre of your attraction and. You want to make her feel special no matter what.

Even if you think your girlfriend is secure enough to handle this piece of information, don't test it out because she won't be. Most women hate to feel like they are second best to their guy no matter what the tell you.

Missus Singapore out!

The Do's and Don'ts of Dating: A Dating Guide for LDS Girls

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Senin, 16 Agustus 2010

YOG COMES TO SINGAPORE

In case you didn't know, Singapore is currently playing host to the first ever Youth Olympic Games.

But so as not to ignore us oldies who are still active in other ways, here is a cartoon sent in by Jeff from Norway. Apparently sports is a little different up North - but definitely more interesting.  It's great isn't it? Everyone can participate and you don't just need to be a good jumper too. I wouldn't mind being the opener!

Missus Singapore out!

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Minggu, 15 Agustus 2010

Group Sex Parties -- Monday, August 16 to Sunday, August 22...

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