The first thing I like to clarify is that I am definitely no expert at it. What I do know and have observed over the years is all I can share. If that makes me sound like some kind of bonafide expert, then I apologise.
What I will say however, is that - and I always stress this - is to give a blow based on your man's preferences and comfort levels. Every man is going to be different and there is no one blow suits all solution. The thing is you have to do it as a mindful act and not a mindless suck-and-go exercise.
It is an art and one that every woman and some men can muster. But you have to be observant and tuned in to interpreting a man's response to what you are doing. Learn as you go and you should do okay. The worse thing you can do is learn from porn. In fact, learning sex from watching porn is the worse thing you can do.
If you think I never fumbled at it, you are wrong because I certainly have. We have all been there at some point and its really okay but if you don't learn anything from it then you can blow till the cows come home and still not get it right.
Have an open mind and be willing to learn and understand that all dicks are not created equal. What please one man may have another retreating in pain. Your best bet is to start off slow and work your way as you go along.
Personally, I don't believe in instruction books or videos. While they do provide ideas, they are definitely not meant to serve as the definitive way to get a guy off with your mouth.
As a rule of thumb, I advise using tongue first, then lips and once you feel that he is comfortable, introduce your mouth to the act. Even that, how deep (or quickly) you go has to be gradual. Hope that helps ladies and please, don't think of me as an expert.
Missus Singapore out!
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