A COMPLIMENT NOT SUBSTITUTE

Many men write in expressing their concerns after they discover that their significant other is still good friends with their vibrators. Despite the fact that they can now get a regular fix of sexual intimacy with them, it rattles them somewhat when they find out they still masturbate.

Well, it is normal guys. What is not is if she would rather masturbate than have sex with you. But here is some food for thought that would put your male egos at ease.

A 2009 American study found that women who use vibrators are more likely to report higher levels of desire, arousal, lubrication and orgasm compared to those who don't.

But even without the study, any women would tell you that. It's like getting the motor ready for the big one. Yes vibrators are great companions on those lonely nights but they are also great at sending blood to the right areas before sex.

The challenge for women is how to stop themselves from coming by masturbation because once you get it going, it's hard to stop yourself from going all the way.

For myself, it really works wonders too. I find myself wilder, more daring and willing to dive into sexual adventure.

So if she does it, think that she is doing it for something bigger. See it as a compliment to your sexual relations and not a substitute for you.

Your job however, is to deliver the goods. Otherwise, you will lose the battle with her vibrator. One way to know you are facing an uphill battle to overthrow the vibrator is when she has given it a name.

With my ex many years ago, not only did I have several dildos but named them all until I totally forgot what the hell his name was.

Missus Singapore out!