What is so wrong about that?
I certainly don't mind it and am not opposed to the idea but what I hate is when guys become too presumptuous at times and think that just because you are sex friends with them that the arrangement is exclusive to only them. That is not what this arrangement is all about.
My peeve with some of my male sex friends has to do with timing. Like any male-female arrangement, it is the female who should call the shots. The guy should take pains to sort out his schedule around the woman's. Let's face it, it is always easier for a woman to find a sex friend than it is for a man. Double standards? You bet! You choose because women can certainly look elsewhere and find another partner relatively easier.
Another thing is not to be treated properly. One thing you need to know is that even if you have regular sex friend, you still ought to treat her like you would any other woman and for your own sake, show her your appreciation. Take her for granted and you are history buddy.
If I am supposed to make time for a sex friend, then he is not worth it. Of course if he wants me to compensate my effort to arrange my time around his, then sure why not. But that would make me a sex worker wouldn't it? To come to think of it, they may just have been playing this sex friend bit the right way, with real benefits - moolah!
Perhaps I should consider putting a fee down and be a real sex friend with benefits - the guy gets the sex and I get the benefits. After all if they expect a regular romp, why not? A career change in the works perhaps?
Missus Singapore out!
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