BIGGUY BRIEFS

This week's video is a little of an anti-climax. Got me going wow mid-way through but then, in a 'snap' I was disappointed. I doubt really if any man will find such flexibility and stretchability useful.

I remember several male models I worked with before who were doing a brief print ad. They often asked these models to stuff in a rolled up face towel or a sock. However, one time, I almost fell off my chair when this model turned around (after being given a sock) to say, but I already have a sock in it!

Missus Singapore out!

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GROUP Sex Parties -- Monday, February 28 to Sunday, March 6...

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LUCKY WIFE

This was one of several jokes sent in by Charles. I picked this one because my significant other is always calling me a lucky witch! So it has some association with me.  

Two guys went to a gas station that was holding a contest: a chance to win free sex when you filled your tank. They pumped their gas and went to pay the male attendant.

"I'm thinking of a number between one and ten," he said. "If you guess right, you win free sex."

"Okay," agreed one of the guys, "I guess seven."

"Sorry, I was thinking of eight," replied the attendant.

The next week they tried again. When they went to pay, the attendant told them to pick a number.

"Two!" said the second guy.

"Sorry, it's three, said the attendant. "Come back and try again."

As they walked out to their car, one guy said to the other, "I think this contest is rigged."

"No way," said his buddy. "My wife won twice last week."

Missus Singapore out!

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ABOUT SEX FRIENDS

Sex friends, fuck buddies, friends with benefits, etc. Call them what you like but they are all basically the same thing. Some people scorn at it but like tennis or golfing buddies, a pub posse, they are simply a group of friends enjoying the same pleasures in life.

What is so wrong about that?

I certainly don't mind it and am not opposed to the idea but what I hate is when guys become too presumptuous at times and think that just because you are sex friends with them that the arrangement is exclusive to only them. That is not what this arrangement is all about.

My peeve with some of my male sex friends has to do with timing. Like any male-female arrangement, it is the female who should call the shots. The guy should take pains to sort out his schedule around the woman's. Let's face it, it is always easier for a woman to find a sex friend than it is for a man. Double standards? You bet! You choose because women can certainly look elsewhere and find another partner relatively easier.

Another thing is not to be treated properly. One thing you need to know is that even if you have regular sex friend, you still ought to treat her like you would any other woman and for your own sake, show her your appreciation. Take her for granted and you are history buddy.

If I am supposed to make time for a sex friend, then he is not worth it. Of course if he wants me to compensate my effort to arrange my time around his, then sure why not. But that would make me a sex worker wouldn't it? To come to think of it, they may just have been playing this sex friend bit the right way, with real benefits - moolah!

Perhaps I should consider putting a fee down and be a real sex friend with benefits - the guy gets the sex and I get the benefits. After all if they expect a regular romp, why not? A career change in the works perhaps?

Missus Singapore out!

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WARDROBE SELF-MALFUNCTION

Have you ever had one? Well my friend Shoba did at a pub on ladies' night this week.

She had on a delightful spaghetti-strap top which tapered down to the waist. It was not however, your regular strap but one that was intricately came together at the shoulder on one side. (Pity I didn't bring my camera along. and chances are I will never get to snap it after what happened.)

All of us were sitting at the bar and she was one of those standing and swaying to the music. So midway through, the strap of her wrist watch got caught on the flimsy strap of her blouse. Annoyed, she yanked at it and one side broke off without her knowing.

She got back to swaying to the music and then it happened. One side of her blouse felt off frontwards, exposing her left boob! Mind you this was not exactly a dimly-lit joint. Behind us was a dining area. So everyone had a really nice tit-show because Shoba does have a nasty rack on her.

But she took it in good humour and even before she reached down to redeem her modesty, she said, "Well done Shob, now everyone knows you have a nipple ring!" We all were amazed because we knew she had big boobs but none of us knew she had a nipple ring. Shows how much some of us really know our friends.

In a way, this was not truly a wardrobe malfunction but one that was inadvertently caused by an outside factor. I referred to it as a wardrobe self-malfunction.

Missus Singapore out!

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THE MILF RULE BOOK

It is a perennial debate amongst many of my girlfriends, both married and single.

I've written about it numerous times and even had quite a few articles on the subject published over the years but clearly, it is still a hot subject. I suppose it always has been and always will be - single vs married debate.

It's natural that one will always have a strong and somewhat biased opinion that supports her present marital status. Single women will insist that being single is the best thing there is while the married ones will come back with their usual response 'been there, done that but being married is better' argument. Even the divorced ones will claim that being divorced is the best thing ever to happen to them.

All have their merits really but it is almost impossible to come to a consensus simply because there are countless factors involved. Being in a good marriage is dependent on your partner and we all know no two partners are made equally.

I will never take the stand of any one because my life as a single was great. It was filled with fun, freedom and carelessness. But it did get a little dour at times. You could possibly say that my youthful hunger for adventure got me looking at marriage.

To be fair, getting hitched had to do with me getting tired of the dating game and wanting more permanence to pursue other goals in my life. And I don't regret it one bit because getting the relationship component out of the way has really allowed me to soar to better things. I'm more grounded, sensible and know how to pick my fights wisely.

It is often said that marriage changes a woman and in some ways it does but in all honesty, we will change in any case. It's called maturing and marriage has nothing to do with it.

That said, it doesn't mean that I didn't enjoy being single. Again, if one is not lucky and marries a man who turns out years later to be a Mr Hyde, it could be a nightmare as well. So getting married is really about taking risks and hoping for the best. How else is one suppose to know?

What I can say however is that whatever a single woman claims to enjoy, a married woman has already done so. However, the opposite cannot hold true. A single woman will have no inkling what marriage will entail and that is actually great because the element of not knowing can sometimes provide the excitement.

My stand is not to say one is better over the other but to call out to married women to put their money where their mouths are. If you get hitched and thereafter let yourself go, then which single woman in her right mind would want to head down the same road.

All married women have the responsibility to keep looking good for themselves. So if they have to work out more, that comes with the territory. In all honesty, if I were a single woman looking into the life of many a married woman, I'll be heading for the woods before you can say cellulite or stretch marks.

Maintain your looks, dress well and feed your confidence and self-esteem and it will all fall into place for you. The MILF phenomenon is not a passing fad. It is a rule-book for married women to follow. 'Over the hill' is just one destination of many and in no way one that we are forced to head to.

I'm not proposing that all women should rush to get hitched. Live your life however you wish to but don't discount that just because a friend got married and divorced soon after, or that another lost her shape, that is a true indication of what marriage is all about. The only important thing to know is that it is in your hands.

Invariably, when the subject of sex comes into the picture though, I have to admit that married women tend to know a trick or three more in bed. It comes with experience. I used to think as a single I knew it all but now with a matured, bolder, braver and more adventurous mindset, I have to say I was barely at the boundary of my sexual expression.

Missus Singapore out!

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PHOTO SHOOT WITH ME?

I was really taken aback by several emails I received regarding my recent Subtle Fantasy shoot. I am humbled by your comments and compliments.

Nine requests came in. Not a big number but huge to me considering that I never considered that anyone would take up my offer seriously. I will have to find a way to sieve them out.

Not surprisingly, there were more men! I wonder why. Five men, two girls and two couples. Now the next thing I got to do is figure out the themes. Your creative suggestions will be most appreciated.

Missus Singapore out!

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THE HOT JOCK PARTY review

Hey guys, unfortunately here's a disappointing review of THE HOT JOCK PARTY from Sunday...

"I went to the Hot Jock Party this past Sunday. The ad said that it would be a completely naked (no underwear) party. I arrived early and they had already abandoned that idea. There were some guys hanging out, talking to Aaron (the host) near the clothes check. When I went inside to the play area(s), only the downstairs was open and available; that was a bummer. The downstairs is very small, and unfortunately too close and open to the check-in/clothes check. There were maybe 6 large ottomans against the walls, not nearly enough space for anything fun to happen. When I entered there were about 12 guys hanging out, while the host and a handful of guys chatted loudly in the other room. Nothing was happening in the play area. An hour went by and about 15 more guys entered, and still no action. It was like we were next to the kitchen at a frat party. The Greek guy (no pun intended) that leases the place was also there and chatting away. There was a very weird energy in the air. I would have to say that if they close the upstairs, they might want to think about canceling the party all together. The space is just too open and I think it makes people feel uncomfortable. I left very early and unsatisfied. That isn't normal for me for that party."

He later added: "I only lasted until 7:45. Not sure how it was afterwards, but I couldn't stand waiting to see... I've never left that early before. I'm sure it picked up as long as people stayed and more came. My point really was that it usually gets going much earlier at that particular party if the guys show up. The guys did showed up, 20+ people before 7:15 is a lot of guys. The problem is that they weren't doing anything, just standing around, talking. I really believe it was a mixture of the space and the loud talking that delayed the sexual energy. Also, two other guys left when I did at 7:45. I'm not saying that I won't go again, just that Arron needs to think about how the space and his behavior effects the energy of the partiers."

Disappointing because this is always one of the hot parties. I was gonna go on Sunday, but there were a bunch of other parties that night and I decided to hit the NYJOCK PARTY & GBU party instead -- which is may explain why no one was at the HOT JOCK. But, it could be that it's too early (starts at 6pm) or too short (ends at 10pm).



ALSO GOT A REBUTTAL from another reader: "It's odd because many of the things that the other reviewed disliked about Sunday Hot Jock Party were what I viewed as its strengths. First, let's clarify the points of agreement: The space, with the blocked of spiral staircase, was a bit weird. It was also too cold, and the way the furniture was laid out was passing comprehension. I also could have used a bit more light, since I could never really tell what anyone's face looked like, and call me old fashioned, but I like to see a face before I kiss it. But the thing that I actually really liked about this party was the kitchen area, where people were congregating and hanging out a bit. The host is sweet, flirtatious and goes out of his way to make people feel comfortable. The guests that I hung out with in the kitchen all seemed very bright and social, and I appreciated that we could all just sort of hang out and chat. I guess the point of the party is not socializing, but this is what really set this party apart. It wasn't like the NYJP where a bunch of bitchy prima donnas stand around not talking and not fooling around. It wasn't like so many other parties you can't move two feet without someone trying to shove their hand up your asshole. It was funny, friendly, and sexy, but you could actually talk to people. Imagine that. You'd spend a bit of time chatting with your fellows and then you'd head into the back and get your swerve on. I met a couple people there that I would actually talk to if I saw them in public, which is basically never the case with these things. And for the record, the boys at this party were par excellance. They were just as good as the bitches that populate NYJP. Also, for the record, the sex was super hot, and I got off a couple times with absolutely beautiful men."

I still feel that the real problem to me is the space. The 1st floor of the duplex is too weird a space and doesn't have enough furniture to fuck on or even sit down. It's better when the upstairs is used too. But all that said, the party was much better when it was held in the hotel suite. The space was more contained and guys were forced to be on top of one another. Also hotel sex is always hot. Anyway -- don't give up on THE HOT JOCK PARTY, but I wish the hosts would be more careful when they all decide to have their parties on the same night.

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TWO BULLOCKS FULL, PLEASE

Well for so long, various parts of our bodies have been the subject of polls in men's magazines. This time around, my latest poll centres on a man's family jewels.

It came about from a conversation I had with a writer friend of mine who insisted that she didn't care how big a guy's are. To some extent and from experience, I've also come to see the connection or rather lack of, from a guy's nuts to the amount of cum he has in store.

That said, from a visual point of view, big balls always look sexier. In fact, if they hand a little lower, it looks even better. However, in the greater animal kingdom, testicles size make a difference between getting your mate or not. However, this does not always hold true with our species.

So ladies, make your vote count and tell Missus Singapore what your preference is.

Missus Singapore out!

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GROUP Sex Parties -- Monday, February 21 to Sunday, February 27

Sex Parties -- Monday, February 21 to Sunday, February 27...

***HOT PICKS OF THE WEEK: THE FORMER DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Thurs) and NYJOCK (Sat).

Monday...
JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) "VALENTINE'S DAY MASSAGE-&-PLAY PARTY #2!" @ "Paddles" Doors 7 PM to Midnight, goes 'til 2 AM; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

Tuesday…
MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s) Starts at 9/9:30pm (also has lunch-time parties). In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking/sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys maye have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys.
*Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. TONIGHT is the FUSION party (Fusion is a Safe sex and bb party: Baseball style wristbands are available if you want to let guys know if you prefer safe or bareback. Totally optional. Limits the need for negotions.) Held in a private apartment. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35.Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Paddles." Check out: http://www.nyjacks.com

Wednesday…
THE FORMER DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Gramercy). LUNCH-TIME Party (noon-3pm). Great vibe with some average to hot guys. The host is very cool guy, who tries to be selective. For a mixed crowd/for average to hot guys. EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com

INFINITY NYC (Times Square). WEEKDAY AFTER-WORK PARTY: “For dudes in need of a weekday release.” STRICTLY FOR FIT MEN 20-45ish; HOT porn, HOT dudes, & HOT action! 7PM - 1AM , $15 before 8pm, $20 afterwards; All supplies provided
Mandatory street clothescheck. No shirts or tees. Now every other Wednesday. To get in send stats and pics to infinitinyc@yahoo.com.

HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) "An intoxicating blend of sexual possibility and good vibes." Held at Paddles every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less.
Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. TONIGHT is the FUSION party (Fusion is a Safe sex and bb party: Baseball style wristbands are available if you want to let guys know if you prefer safe or bareback. Totally optional. Limits the need for negotions.) Held in a private apartment. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35.Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

Thursday…
EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-4pm) party expecting a huge turnout, quickly becoming the place for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

THE FORMER DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Gramercy). 7pm-10pm. Haven’t been to the new location – but the former location had a great vibe with some average to hot guys. The host is very cool guy, who tries to be selective. For a mixed crowd/for average to hot guys.
EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. TONIGHT is ERUPTION party. Eruption (not exclusively safe). Held in a private apartment. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35.Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea)"21ST ANNIVERSARY THURSDAY NIGHT SPECIAL!" @Paddles, Doors 7 PM to Midnight, goes 'til 2 AM; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 6PM-MIDNIGHT. Refreshments and snacks provided For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

Friday…
NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). 10pm-3am. This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are usually twice a month, usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights too 12am-6am. Gets 70-90 dudes each party. Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy). Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties. Last week's party had about 60+ older, out of shape guys.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 12:00-7:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited.
To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 8PM to 3AM. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Soho). NEW LOCATION. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 9PM TO 4 AM. An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem) 9pm-3am.In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. $25. Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com

HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn)7pm. 18-30yo ONLY. Usually 40-50 hot guys; *All lean in shape guys: No fats, chubs, dads, or bears. For a younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotbrooklynparty@nyc.rr.com

Saturday…
JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) AFTERNOON PARTY: "21ST ANNIVERSARY SPECIAL #3!" @Paddles; Doors 1:00 to 6:00, goes 'til 8 PM; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square/Garment District) 10pm-5am. Door closes at 4. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not always great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. For a younger/hot crowd.
nyjockparty@yahoo.com

LOAD NYC (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement for in-shape guys. 90 guys, porn. ALSO has Park Slope party. For hot/younger crowd. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 9:00pm-3:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills) The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in pvt 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am.
Mostly older guys. Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com

Sunday…
THE OMEGA PARTY (Soho). NEW LOCATION. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Drinks, snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 6 PM TO 2 AM, DOORS 6 PM TO 1 AM , party till 2 AM; An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Chelsea Space." http://www.nyjacks.com/

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. TONIGHT is the FUSION party (Fusion is a Safe sex and bb party: Baseball style wristbands are available if you want to let guys know if you prefer safe or bareback. Totally optional. Limits the need for negotions.) Held in a private apartment. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35.Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

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THE BIG BOOST

This week's video takes a look at that trusty blue pill for men. There has been a lot of bad publicity surrounding it since it was made available in 1998 but truth be told and for some men, it has been a boon.

I had the opportunity to know of a man, quite young - in his early-30s - who was on it. He could hardly get a hard-on before but these days, he is rock hard for substantially longer which means more satisfaction for his partner. For both parties, it can be the elixir of sexual rejuvenation.

It takes a lot of balls to own up to your problem and seek medication and while a woman will definitely appreciate the less work required on her part, ultimately, there are problems that need addressing. Most of the time, it's a psychological problem behind it and should be tackled.

Missus Singapore out!

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WORST EXPERIENCES

What am I doing wrong?

I was chatting with a girlfriend the other night and we were sharing our worst sex experiences with men. It was hilarious.

Rachel had this Chinese guy who for some reason kept saying 'Ouch'. He was fine before anything and appeared normal, she says, but once sex came around, he kept 'ouching' uncontrollably. After the fifth ouch, she couldn't help but burst out laughing. Of course he thought that she was just enjoying the moment when actually, it was her way of dealing with his 'pain'.

She said, "I didn't really notice if he actually was a bad fuck or not because I just couldn't focus. But that in itself says just how bad the whole experience was. It was a pity because he was pretty well-endowed." 

Mine too had to be with an overly vocal guy. One that tried too hard to talk dirty and want me to do all sorts of things. To put him in his place, I did so and that caught him off guard. After a while I realised that underneath all this dirty bold talk he couldn't fuck to save his life. He was just using it in the hope that I will not notice just how much he sucked in bed.

He should just leave the dirty talk to the experts and do all girls a favour by keeping his skinny willy in his pants. Many times, I've come to realise that the ones who talk the most tend to be the worse in bed. Maybe its not fair to generalise but for me so far, this has been the case.

Missus Singapore out!

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ONE BEER TOO MANY

I found this ad which looks rather ordinary until it is inverted. It tells a story about just how too much beer has the effect of dampening a night of expectation for a woman. Men often berate others who don't drink as much since they think it's the manly thing to do.

Well although it seems that way, many women will tell you that too much beer will have quite the opposite effect. One woman wrote in saying that the men who tend to go overboard with their beers are mostly those who are all talk and know for a fact that they are not going to get any. So they go get wasted.

Anyway, here is the inverted version of the ad. It speaks for itself.

Missus Singapore out!

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OUT WITH IT!

Here is a confession from a reader who sent it to me via email. It describes her changing fortunes with men.

"My best experience has to be quite recently when I decided to tone down my selective picking of Adam. Being a successful woman in her 40s with a pub, I am called MILF and a Cougar all in one breathe.

My experience with men came from a well known adult website which I am a member. I am usually picky with whom I want to meet; they have to be Caucasian, expatriates, in their early 40's and well hung.

Most of them are failures though.

It is something about us being Asian that these white men want to keep us as trophies. Of course, there are genuine ones. Maybe too many Singaporean women are putting too much hope in white men and thus we often see phrases like "no (race) allowed", etc, etc.

Quite recently, I decided on a change. This time, I looked for any race except "white".

Lo and behold, this boyish looking 30-ish Indian guy replied to my profile. A gentleman for a change, he didn't introduce himself as hunky dory like one 'Mr Texas' does. In fact, it was his admission of lack of physical attributes that caught my attention. He was a dark-skinned Indian but with none of the traits and he speaks good English. Finally, someone who doesn't speaks gibberish!

We met over coffee in Changi Village one night. He came across as a real, soft-spoken gentleman. Not really handsome but just the cuteness of his boyish looks won over me. He spoke with such humility that I began to worry if he will pull it off if we were on bed.

Nevertheless, his explanation is that he tends to ejaculate faster if he is not in the right mood. He mentions that he can perform better if the girl and him take it easy, getting to know each other and not just go straight into sex. I thought to myself, "Thank you for your honesty, for I had wanted to seek him out tonight". So our conversation for that night became just that, a coffee outing.

I called him again thinking that he would have gotten use to me already. True enough, he is alright, calm, cool and collected. I suggested to him if he wants to come over to my place the next few days so that we can have a little celebration for the New Year. I didn't realize the ringing tone indicated he was overseas. He was already Sydney. Again, my heart fluttered and wondered if I have made the right choice to change my preference from "ang moh" to "all races". He promised to call me back.

When January the 3rd came, I received a call from him apologizing profusely for not being able to meet up. He had lost a job and he was looking for a job in Sydney. So we met up in my place. I remember him telling me that he needs to feel cozy and comfortable so like a mother to her wayward son, I did my best not to make him feel awful; by being nice and slow to him and talking about other worldly issues while getting closer to him while watching videos.

True enough, we got to the point of nakedness and he was really being humble. Not big neither is he small but like they say, you can overcome that with other strengths.

When he got down on me, it was like the longest cunt-licking that I ever had and he only surfaced for oxygen every 15 minutes or so. I never had this long for close to one hour. I came there and then at every 20 minutes interval and he had this wicked smile on his face every time I came.

I wanted to give him a blow job but he refused. I felt so disappointed but he told me that that is his weakness, to be getting a blow job before the sex. So I tried adapting to his game plan and lo and behold, we were sweating profusely in no time at all. The bed even moved location. I guessed he was at his peak performance. Never mind about me wanting big dicks and white men. This is the real deal.

He was so courteous that he asked me on where he should throw his load, in me or on me. I told him on my face and there he was sitting right over my face. The sperm was so hot that it felt like acid but I loved every ounce of it. I was totally covered in his cum and blinded by it. I asked him what did he eat or drink to have such a tasty cum and he replied, “Loads of pineapple juice.” Yum!

I thought this could be the man I will be seeing regularly. Not that he is the best but him being such gentleman. I stopped texting him for a week or two and he didn’t even pester me for more sex.

Recently, I had a vacancy at my club for a bouncer. I did the personal interviews and there he was walking straight to my desk. We felt awkward for a moment but took the interview on a serious note. I hired him but my mind is now thinking, should I chase the kitchen staff out, should I lock him in with me in the toilet or just the office."

MS: Thanks CS for sharing with us your intriguing story. My only question is what kind of bouncing did you have in mind when you hired him as a bouncer!

Missus Singapore out!

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Lunch-Time Sex Party Review

Guys, I've never been to these lunch parties -- more of a night time fucker (not counting the steam room at David Barton). But there are two lunch-time fuckfests every week in Manhattan if you're looking to get off at noon.

Here's a review some reader sent me...

"Just back from the Excutive Lunch party, here's a quick review...I got there right at 12 when it opened, Host was very nice and welcoming, I checked my cloths and went upstairs, as I was changing a second guy came, and shortly we were playing upstairs, we were soon joined by a 3rd and had fun, by 1 there were about 20 guys and less action then when there were 5 guys lots of standing , stroking and watching, The crowd was a good mix of ages, 3-4 guys in 20's, most 30-45 and the rest older and most were in decient shape. Its a very nice way to spend an afternoon, no attitude or preasure. I will be going back soon for more."



Here's all the info.

Wednesdays...
THE FORMER DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Gramercy). Lunch time: 12-3pm. Still haven’t been to the new location – but the former location had a great vibe with some average to hot guys. The host is very cool guy, who tries to be selective. For a mixed crowd/for average to hot guys.
EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com

Thursdays...
EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch time: 12-4pm. From the host: "party expecting a huge turnout, quickly becoming the place for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons." *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

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IS YOUR BRA THE RIGHT FIT? (POLL 30)

I am astonished by how many women don't seem to know if the bra they have on is the right fit. But in all honesty, I think that it has to do with how equipped salesgirls are about it. I have often inquired but salesgirls just don't seem to have the proper understanding about how to find a right bra fit for their customers.

I went to a departmental store last month and just out of curiosity, asked the salesgirl about what I should look out for. Her reply was simple - 'As long as it doesn't shake about, it should be fine.'

I wonder what training these salesgirls receive because I am sure - and you will agree - that her reply was far from satisfactory. Of course for the 11% of women who said they don't wear any, that wouldn't matter.

If you want to know more about how to choose the right bra, I like to share this site with you. It is quite accurate and simple to follow.

In the mean time, here are the results from the bra poll held over Nov-Dec 2010.

Is Your Bra The Right Fit?
Definitely: 24 (15%)
I'm not sure: 64 (41%)
The salesgirl said so: 22 (14%)
I don't care: 28 (18%)
I don't wear any: 18 (12%)
Total no. of respondents: 156

Missus Singapore out!

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WITH GRATITUDE

I'd just like to take some time off to send my mid-week appreciation to several blogs that have been consistently directing traffic to Missus Singapore. I should have done this a while back but better late than never.

Whether consciously or otherwise, links on these blogs have been bringing readers here and it's not like me to ignore the gestures. So I'd like to return the favour and direct my readers to these blogs.

They are all personal accounts of their lives which revolve around sex so hang on to your hats. The thing I like about them is although there are the occasional expletives used, it is still within good taste.

So if you don't mind taking some time off and indulging in some intriguing reads, check them out. They are - in no order of preference - as follows:

Casanova Confessions
Ejackulated
Liquid Ecstasy
The Girl with Sakura 

Missus Singapore out!

PS: If I have left anyone out for now, don't worry, I will post your links soon. 

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ASK THE BOLDER WOMAN

Here is a query sent in by Stephen. He has a problem that is echoed by many emails I receive from time to time. So I guess now is as good a time as any to address it. 

Q: I just got married six months ago and it was great initially but now, my wife and I are not making out that often as before. I suppose it may be due to stress and family problems. Since I have a high sex drive, I can't stop fantasising having sex, even with other women. I know it is a bad thing to do but what should I do? Should I just pay some hooker or would I have to wait for my wife to come around and start making out again.


MS: A relationship is a very complex issue but it certainly becomes more complicated when marriage comes about. The initial months and even years, can involve a great adjustment in both of your lives as you go about adapting to a totally different sex of circumstances. There is naturally a mix of confusion, frustration, inward doubts, and sometimes even anger.

So the question is why then get married?

Well, it is a risk no doubt but it is also a challenge which we can take in a positive way. If you want to overcome the challenges, there is no two ways about it - you will have to do it as a team. It is the same way if you were a singles tennis player and now have to adapt to being in a doubles partnership. You will have to train with each other to get to know just about everything about  your new partner. Marriage is the same way but sadly, not given the same kind of attention (and training).

You don't have to live under the same roof with a woman to know that she has a phases but it's different now that you have to be there. There is no dropping her off quickly and heading home to your personal comfort zone.

I honestly feel that it is not so much about sex but more about her emotions behind this major phase in her life. Sometimes, it takes a longer time for some people to adjust to the new situation.

The best advise I can give you is to communicate. Obviously, you are second guessing her at this stage and she may just need a listening ear. It might just do the trick. Another thing to take note of is after all the excitement leading up to your wedding, she may be suffering a post-wedding burn out. Six months is not a lot of time for some to get over it.

However, if she is ignoring you, then there is a problem. Engage her. Ask her what is wrong. Send her loving and concerned text messages or post-its. Don't appear to put pressure on her having sex. Take her out. Romance her again.

Your suggestion of paying a hooker and getting off is only gong to complicate matters more. I'd rather you pay me the money for my advice! I'm no qualified marriage counselor mind you but I have been told that I have a good strategy in getting couples to come out and talk about things.

Good luck.

Missus Singapore out!

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HAPPY VALENTINE'S!

It is with love that I'd like to wish all my readers and visitors a 'Happy Valentine's Day'. It is my 5th VD with Missus Singapore and it has been a pleasure getting to know all about you and receiving all your comments, gifts, among other things.

My best suggestion for today is to start the day in bed. Yup, get laid and if you still feel that you want to spend the day with your significant other, then chances are your relationship is on a high. After all, most of us just waste lots of money - chocs, flowers, dinner and dancing - only to get a wild session at night. Why not try it out the other way around just to make things seem that it isn't all about sex in your relationship?

If you are alone this year, remember, you can always visit my blog or send me an email. I will try my best to keep warm company.

Missus Singapore out!

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GROUP Sex Parties -- Monday, February 14 to Sunday, February 20

Sex Parties -- Monday, February 14 to Sunday, February 20...

***HOT PICKS OF THE WEEK: Private Party (WED)



Monday...
JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea)"FULL-MOON FEBRUARY MASSAGE-&-PLAY MONDAY PARTY!"
@Paddles; doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s) Starts at 9/9:30pm (also has lunch-time parties). In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking/sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys maye have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you
attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys.
*Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com



Tuesday…
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. TONIGHT is the PEAK party (Peak is a Safe sex party) Held in a private apartment. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35.Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Paddles." Check out: http://www.nyjacks.com



Wednesday…
THE FORMER DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Gramercy). LUNCH-TIME Party (noon-3pm). Haven’t been to the new location – but the former location had a great vibe with some average to hot guys. The host is very cool guy, who tries to be selective. He also hosted lunch-time parties in past, hopefully will bring this back too. For a mixed crowd/for average to hot guys.
EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Great social sex party in large private loft apt held once a month, 8pm-12am.. Great mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45, or under 21) -- 70-90 guys attend (last few parties had 85, 97 & 100+). This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. Just a warning: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). Guys, I know it sounds annoying – and can be -- but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex).
*Send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) "An intoxicating blend of sexual possibility and good vibes." February 16th is their first DirtyBoyVideo.com Model Search: Think you are dirty enough to be a DirtyBoyVideo.com Model? Bring the "show-off" in you down to throw down with some of the real Dirty Boys in the Dirty Boy Confessional! Held at Paddles every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less.
Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com

ND2 (Midtown). 10pm-3am. This party is for average African American and Latino dudes ONLY. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are Wed nights. Send pics and stats to HARLEMDUKESNYC@YAHOO.COM

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.



Thursday…
EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-4pm) party expecting a huge turnout, quickly becoming the place for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

THE FORMER DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Gramercy). 7pm-10pm. Haven’t been to the new location – but the former location had a great vibe with some average to hot guys. The host is very cool guy, who tries to be selective. For a mixed crowd/for average to hot guys.
EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. TONIGHT is ERUPTION party. Eruption (not exclusively safe). Held in a private apartment. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35.Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea)"21ST ANNIVERSARY THURSDAY NIGHT SPECIAL!" @Paddles, Doors 7 PM to Midnight, goes 'til 2 AM; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 6PM-MIDNIGHT. Refreshments and snacks provided For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com



Friday…
THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy). Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties. Last week's party had about 60+ older, out of shape guys.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 12:00-7:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited.
To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 8PM to 3AM. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Soho). NEW LOCATION. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 9PM TO 4 AM. An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn)7pm. 18-30yo ONLY. Usually 40-50 hot guys; *All lean in shape guys: No fats, chubs, dads, or bears. For a younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotbrooklynparty@nyc.rr.com

THE GALLERY OF MEN (Times Square) Mostly 40YO+ -- mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. 70 guys who want great sex from mild to wild and everything in between. This no attitude fun group believe having an awesome good time is the Best thing in life. This private, safe and selective space is complete with a sling, three comfortable rooms that all add up to a cool place to hang. 9:00 pm -3:00 am, A party for older out of shape guys. $20 admission first hour, $25 after that.
Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com

FOREVER FISTING PARTY: Open door policy, "Chelsea Space/" Catering to Men interested in exploring the sensual and spiritual Art of Handballing. They have a private play space where you are free to explore and enjoy in a safe,secure and clean location. Contact Cain at MasterCainB@yahoo.com or check out www.ffslingers.com.



Saturday…
NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are usually twice a month, usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights too 12am-6am. Gets 70-90 dudes each party. Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

LOAD NYC (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement for in-shape guys. 90 guys, porn. ALSO has Park Slope party. For hot/younger crowd. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 9:00pm-3:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

SPAM PARTY (Brooklyn). Not a M4M party, but may interest the more adventurous of you: A play party where dykes, fags, bisexuals and tansgendered folks get together for a sexually charged underwear party. 11pm-4am, Admission: $10 women/trans, $20 men, student's 18-22 w/valid id FREE! Mandatory Pants Check Down To Your Underwear. They also run the SUBMIT PARTY. Check out the parties at http://www..submitparty.com. If you have questions, please email Red@submitparty.com.

MILK CHOCOLATE NYC (Gramercy). Hot Body Men's "HUNG" Party, 8pm - 12mid, So far The host says they're put 52 fit/hung guys on the list for monthly Hung Party. Only fit men hung 8+ on the Hung List, and men on the VIP List, will be admitted to the party from 7pm-8pm. Everyone on their email list can join the action 8pm-12mid. According to the host, "they screen to invite fit, slim, athletic build MEN of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. No one with a large belly or years older than age 45 admitted to the party." Send clear face/body pics and all stats to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com to get on the party list.

FOREVER FISTING PARTY: Open door policy, "Chelsea Space/" Catering to Men interested in exploring the sensual and spiritual Art of Handballing. They have a private play space where you are free to explore and enjoy in a safe,secure and clean location. Contact Cain at MasterCainB@yahoo.com or check out www.ffslingers.com.

WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills) The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in pvt 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am.
Mostly older guys. Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com



Sunday…
THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Midtown East) 6-10pm. Held in a duplex space-- has guys in mostly 20s -30s-hot 40YOs. It's above average to hot muscle guys, rough trade, and twinks. Not a lot of attitude. Usually hot sex, and a fun mix of guys. Easily one of the best parties -- and one of few that you get a good mix of hot guys and hot sex. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend. For a racially mixed younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

THE NYJOCK PARTY and GOLDEN BOYS USA (Midtown East) Two of the hottest parties join forces: GBU and NYJP present “Boxers and Briefs Underwear Party ,“ 9pm-4. Monday is a holiday: Be there for another wild and fun night! Held in bar space. For a younger/hot crowd.
Send pics and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com or ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com, or check out www.goldenboysusa.com.

THE OMEGA PARTY (Soho). NEW LOCATION. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Drinks, snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 6 PM TO 2 AM, DOORS 6 PM TO 1 AM , party till 2 AM; An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Chelsea Space."
http://www.nyjacks.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. TONIGHT is ERUPTION party. Eruption (not exclusively safe). Held in a private apartment. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35.Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem) 7pm-12am. “NEON BLACKOUT” (When you arrive, you will be given and wear a neon glow-stick bracelet. There will be one color for tops, one for bottoms and one for vers. The playroom will be dark except for the light coming from everyone’s bracelets. The rest of the apartment will remain dimly lit.) In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com

ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) 5PM to 12AM. Sunday at Sunset. Held in a private apartment by an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35 - 45. They get about 40+ guys. The hosts says They provide condoms and lube; Smoking is allowed in designated areas; it's a BYOB party. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude.
Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

PITSTOP (Park Slope, Brooklyn) A fetish sex party for In-Shape guys where "almost anything goes." 6pm-11pm at the same space in Brooklyn that GBU uses. Safe-sex dungeon kinkfest where anything goes EXCEPT barebacking: be a voyeur or exhibitionist in scenes involving PISS, role playing, BD/SM, fisting, spit, foot worship, spanking, humiliation, raunch and much more! Stripping to your underwear, jockstrap or fetish gear is required. Nudity is encouraged! Safe sex is REQUIRED. Anyone caught fucking without condoms will be told to leave. There is zero tolerance for barebacking at this space. This party will also have a broader range of ages, but we ask that only in-shape kinky guys attend.
To get future announcements, please email me at: pitstop_nyc@yahoo.com

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