I was speaking to a girlfriend over the phone and she was telling me how she managed to 'persuade' her husband to spend next weekend at her parents place - something he dreads. I'm not going to get into the subject of in-laws but rather how she went about 'persuading' him.
Simply put, she went down on him. She was telling me how she would always give him a rare blow whenever she wanted something. I actually know a guy she was seeing before she got hitched and he would sometimes reveal how she sucked at it - and I mean it not in a good way mind you.
So I decided to ask her what she felt about going down on a man and her response was that she would rather not do it. She considers it a chore and is although she didn't mention it upfront, I gathered that she was disgusted by the act.
Now I am, as most of you know, a lover of the deed but I certainly don't suggest going down on a man just for the sake of it. Worst still, when you dislike it. It's something that has to come with attitude.
Forget the skills because if the attitude and desire to please isn't there, you might as well just do something else.
If sex-for-favours is the kind of sex life you have, then all I can say is you are missing out on a whole lot of adventure and passion.
For a woman, giving a blow can give you a sense of empowerment over a man, especially when you sprinkle it with some variation every now and then. By variation, I don't just mean your skills but with how you approach it. Yes, sometimes I just want to pull down a man's pants to get down rough and heady while at other times, I'd like to make a less direct approach like kissing his body and moving gradually around his tool before taking it in my mouth.
I'm sure a lot of women use that as a means to get something in return but by doing so, they are losing out themselves. Pity.
Missus Singapore out!
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