OUT WITH IT!

After a break sorting out the emails that have come in, I'm finally ready to start posting your confessions. One observation though. Where are the guys? It seems the ladies outnumber confessions 5 to 1! Well it seems the women have a lot more to get off their chests!

Here is one (quite long) from Jamilah in Sekudai. Not sure if it is in Indonesia or Malaysia. Anyway read on.

J: I live along a street with a sundry store at the end of it. It is in the suburbs so it is a rather quiet street. Only in the mornings and evenings will there be lots of people passing by either to go to work or when returning home. I have three children - all schooling. My husband works in another state and sometimes comes home after two to three days each time. I am a senior bank teller in a local bank but now only work mornings so that I can be home around the same time as my kids.

Back to the shop. It is owned by this man Karim who runs it with his brother Kassim. They are both rather pleasant and well-behaved men. Both of them were around their early 40s and not married as far as I know. We always exchange greetings and sometimes joke around.

So one morning, I made my usual stop at the store and got a few cans on milk and some bread. As I was paying, I saw an adult magazine hastily tucked under some accounts book. I curiously asked what it was and Kassim who was attending to me blushingly handed it to me. Being brought up in a very conservative family with strict religious parents, I had never actually seen such a magazine in all of my 30 years. To be honest, I've never even seen another cock other than my husband's.

I mustered all my courage and asked it I could look through it. He shyly agreed and handed it over to me. As I flipped the pages, I felt a strange feeling between my legs and my heart started pounding. I returned home to masturbate. I had not done so since I got married. But more importantly, I was hooked. I now secretly visit the store to borrow adult magazines from Kassim on a regular basis.

Nobody but Kassim knows about this. I'm sure I will be the scorn of everyone if they found out but it is just so hard to resist. Sometimes when Kassim and I talk about it, I get so horny and now I'm finding myself wanting to have sex with him. I've not done anything yet.

MS: Thanks for sharing this Jamilah. To me it was a little bit of an anti-climax but I suppose considering your conservative upbringing, this would be scandalous where you come from. I guess it must be nice to have a store around the corner that meets your every need! Let me know if you decide to take it any further with Kassim.

Missus Singapore out!

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THIS IS FREAKY!

I know about orgies but this is really straight from weirdsville. I don't know what this was for - perhaps some attempt to be recorded in the Guinness Book of Records. I don't know.

Well the Japanese after all, do have a reputation of taking things to extremes so perhaps a kind Japanese reader of MS might like to elaborate?

For many women and men I know who have attended adult parties, they always seem to mention about how difficult it is to get used to being naked with more than their partners in the same room. But they do say after the first time, it's plain sailing after. I wonder how these people do it.

Someone please enlighten me - how is this enjoyable?

Missus Singapore out!

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Sex Parties Week of 2/7 - 2/13

Sunday...
THE HOT JOCK PARTY -- Super Bowl Sex Party! (Midtown East)
This party -- usually at a hotel -- has guys in mostly 30s-40s (some 50s, and a few 20s). It's a mixed crowd, hot to average guys, but mixed. Sunday night crowds are better than weekdays. Not a lot of attitude (unless you count the host). Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice a month. $25 donation. 5-10pm.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

SUPER BOWL ORGY! REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Sunday afternoons & Tues nights; $25 donation.
http://www.nyjacks.com/

SOS: SEX ON SUNDAYS (formerly NY BUTT LICKERS) (Grammercy)
Now held in the E20s -- in HUGE beautiful duplex apt (same space as Olympus). Orgy every Sunday. Unfortunately --the have an open door policy and let in ANYBODY -- so the place is FILLED with overweight and really old flabby guys. Possible the most disgusting party I've ever attended. If you are desperate for sex with anyone (or get off with gross old guys -- GO; if you have ANY self esteem, and have ever been to the gym (ever) then SKIP THIS ONE. I often get off on sex with old dudes, but these are NOT hot. Also, they will host the occasional Saturday night party. Charge is $25 for in and out access 10pm till 10am.
Email for invite: sexonsundaynyc@yahoo.com
NOTE: FREE THIS WEEK.

Monday...
MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s)
In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from
incredibly hot guys to very average dudes. The host is a big guy, can be too much for some. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20- mostly 30- some 40 YOs. Have parties at random. FREE.
*Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com

JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea )
A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. http://www.jacksofcolor.com/

Tuesday...
MONMOUTH COUNTY PARTY (Tinton Falls). Lunch-time sex party held at hotel. $20.00 donation; Condoms lube bottled water provided; held in Penthouse Suite with beds & showers and plenty of room to play. Get 30 to 60 guys in a 4 hour time span. For invite: mfactor62@yahoo.com
NOTE: LUNCH-TIME GROUP ---11AM TO 3PM

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Sunday afternoons & Tues nights; $25 donation.
http://www.nyjacks.com

Wednesday...
NJ PARTY (Fairlawn, NJ) Held in a duplex apartment - upstairs is turned over to the party for 2 hours LUNCH-TIME and EVENING PARTIES each week - schedule varies; $20 - soda, condoms and lube provided.10-20 people at each event. LUNCH: 12-2pm, NIGHTS; 7-9pm.EMAIL pics and stats: njparty@aol.com and/or njparty@ymail.com
*WEDNESDAY LUNCH-TIME: 12:00PM-2:00PM

CUMMONKEY/GRAB ASS PARTY (Chelsea)
Studio space, not apartment. Since this re-started is much better class of guys, much hotter mix. Usually 30-50 guys attend, from 20-30-40 YOs. Every Wednesday. $25 donation, plus $2 for clothes check. (I haven't been in a while: but I hear attendance is down, and so is the quality of guys).
http://www.cummonkey.com/

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

Thursday...
DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Financial District). Held in a clean studio apartment in a doorman building near Rector Subway stop). Motto: Sex Party for All Men - No Attitude, Friendly Environment; CLAIMS: Hot guys ages 20's - 40's+; Doors open 7:30pm - 10pm (open until midnight); $20 donations. The new revamped parties have been hot -- lots of muscular and lean guys, and some average guys. Mostly oral, some fucking. The host is a great guy.
EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com

DARRELL’S DUNGEON (Chelsea). Leather, Military or Less. All Male, All Colors, Anything Goes…First Thursdays, starting January 7, 2010 (8PM-3AM). Held at PADDLES (w26). For more information, check out: www.darrellsdungeon.mobi. For invitation, send stats and pics to darrell@darrellsdungeon.com

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) This party is held in a private apartment; Thursday, 6PM-MIDNIGHT, or Fridays, 8PM to 3AM; $15 donation. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

NJ PARTY (Fairlawn, NJ) Held in a duplex apartment - upstairs is turned over to the party for 2 hours LUNCH-TIME and EVENING PARTIES each week - schedule varies; $20 - soda, condoms and lube provided.10-20 people at each event. LUNCH: 12-2pm, NIGHTS; 7-9pm.EMAIL pics and stats: njparty@aol.com and/or njparty@ymail.com
EVENING: THURSDAY, 7:00PM-9:00PM

Friday...
THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Midtown West)
In duplex apartment. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 30-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. $25 donation.
nyjockparty@yahoo.com
*Next party is early Friday, February 12, 2010.

TESTOSTERONE: THE SINNERS & SAINTS PRE-VALENTINE'S DAY EVENT (Gramercy), where good boys go bad and bad boys are good, the guestlist filled with lots of hot out-of-town jocks and studs visiting the city for the holiday weekend, ready to ignore and brave the expected snowstorm and "man-up" to the cold brutal weather, showing what they're made of and filling the duplex with testosterone.... $20 donation, 9pm-3am. Ive never been to TESTOSTERONE, but it's the same party promoter as OLYMPUS: which pulls in a very mix to average corwd, with lots of unsafe sex.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net (Be SURE to him EVAN sent you).

HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn)
18-35yo ONLY. Usually more than 60 cute boys; *All lean in shape guys: No fats, chubs, dads, or bears. ($20 Donation for New Members; $15 Donation for Members; College Boy Twinks 18-23yo Free 10pm-12am /$10 Donation after 12am). Unlimited Cosmos and Beer 11PM-3AM. Party runs 10PM- 4 AM.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotbrooklynparty@nyc.rr.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn )
I've never been, but am told it's for Black and Latino guys, and guys
who love big black cocks. Safe sex for in shape guys—huge space, held every
Friday. its a safe and clean place. lots of space: two floor. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. $15
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

BANA POOL PARTY (Downtown) In a club. A huge space with different levels and rooms: hotubs, pools, shower rooms, saunas, steam rooms, sex rooms, dance floor, bars.$40-50 general admission, $60-80 gets you a locker+, and $100 VIP pass. Very cool party. Lots of fun. February 12th at 11:59pm - 5AM
http://www.hotsteammachine.com/
http://www.thebanapoolparty.com/

Saturday...
JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. "20TH ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION #3"
NOTE: AFTERNOON PARTY: doors 1:00 -6:00pm, open until 8:00pm.
http://www.jacksofcolor.com/

ALL NUDE FREAK PARTY (Gramercy)
According to the host, they screen to invite hot, athletic/fit/in-shape men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot! Guys that used fake pics/stats to get an invite & but are out of shape, have large bellys, large/average build or look much older than 45 are not be admitted to the party. 10:30pm-4am/ $20
(plus minimum $1 coat check tip for helpers)
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@yahoo.com

COLLEGE WATER SPORTS KEGGER PARTY and GOLDEN BOYS USA ( Brooklyn )
Held in the basement space in a brownstone. Only accept guys who are in-shape, 18-30 years old, and get into (or tolerant of) guys pissing on other guys -- they NOW also have NON-WATER SPORT parties. Have regular rooms and wet rooms (even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party). (I've never been to this one. This was reported to me by the promoter. Email me for their website.) Average 75-120 guys attend, all 20 YOs, $25. Second Saturday of every other month. ALSO have general UNDERWEAR parties every so often.
http://www.goldenboysusa.com/

HOT PARTIES 2006 (Queens). Party is held in a private apartment, on Saturdays. $20 donation. Also has parties in Manhattan & Brooklyn.
*Email photos and stats to hotparties2006@verizon.net or hotparties2006@msn.com

WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills)
The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in pvt 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am.
Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) I've never been, but am told it's for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex for in shape guys—huge space, held every Friday. its a safe and clean place. lots of space: two floor. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. $15 http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

GALLERY OF MEN (Times Square) every two weeks, 20s - 40s mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. Filled with 99% old, out-of-shape, gross guys. $20 admission first hour, $25 after that.
Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com

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ASK THE BOLDER WOMAN

Here is the next installment of this column, reproduced from the one that ran in a local man's magazine.

Q: Our sex life has plummeted ever since the baby came along. How can we go back to those pre-baby hot nights?

MS: Instead of making time for sex (not always possible), try creating and sustaining the mood for it. That way, when baby decides to suddenly take a siesta, you can get straight down to it without spending too much time getting your motors up and running.

Keep the flirting going through conversation, SMS or naughty post-its. Sneak into the shower together or treat her to a nice body massage. Ironically, the best thing you can do to keep things hot is to help with the chores.

Seriously! If a woman isn’t overwhelmed by mothering duties, there’s a greater chance she’ll put her freed-up energy to show her deepest (pun intended) appreciation.

Missus Singapore out!

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WHERE FALLS THE BLAME?

Every New Year's Eve there is a hot countdown party at one of the beaches in Singapore's island resort of Sentosa. Usually it's the chance for the younger local crowd to unwind and busloads of foreigners to join in the festivities. It's all wild fun.

I was at two of these parties some years back and had to admit that it was kinda draining for me. (Is age catching up?) Anyway, at the most recent one to welcome 2010, there was some measure of controversy when a tape leaked out showing a woman enjoying herself dancing on an erected platform at one stage and minutes later, being groped by a group of men as she tried to get away.

Typical of Singaporeans, no one offered to help her.

When word (as well as a video) got out, many readers to a local forum wrote in to say she deserved it since she was showing her curves quite openly and wearing such skimpy clothes.

Sometime later, it was suggested that she was in fact not a she. Many identified her from a group of transvestites from Thailand. Others claimed she was a local. But what really took the cake was when the general consensus seemed to indicate that being a transvestite made it acceptable.

One woman in a local forum was vehemently condemning the act initially. But when she found out 'she' was actually a 'he', she did a flash U-turn and said 'he' deserved it.

So while the men cheered and insisted this 'he' deserved to be groped and was asking for it, many women are equally to blame for their views towards transvestites.

Who gives anyone the right to be treated in the manner she was? The guys were squeezing her tits, slipping their hands into her bikini bottom and it was clear from the video that she was trying to evade them but to no avail.

If we are to be a sophisticated, inclusive, understanding and tolerant society, this is certainly no way to go about it.

Woman or not, just because someone moves to arouse, or dresses to tease - it is not an open invitation to make a move on her or him. The guys are a disgrace and the women who condemn the person are equally culpable. Yes they may be different. They may feel and see things differently but isn't that what a diverse society is suppose to be? Embracing every aspect of diversity.

In terms of people on the streets, Singapore is really very much like New York, so many different colours and races spread all over the place. But in terms of accepting people - no matter what their sexuality, I have to admit that Singapore falls short - badly so.

I've many reasons to be proud for being Singaporean but this is not one of them.

Missus Singapore out!

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MS BLOG GUEST - JESSICA (PT 2)

Here is the second and final part of the interview with Jessica. Hope you enjoy it and if you want to, you can direct any questions you have for this extraordinary woman.

MS: So tell us Jessica, what has been your best experience to date?

J: There was this man. He works across the border in Malaysia but works in Singapore. He has been regular for about two years. We had sex only twice because each time, he visits me, he just wants to spend an hour talking to me. He is really lonely but he treats me like a real woman. He’s a perfect gentleman. He is also slipping me extra notes every now and then.

 

MS: So I take it most men are not gentlemen?

J: Well they come for sex and most of the time it’s really to release their frustrations at work or in their unhappy lives. Many times, I find them really angry by the way they have sex but when they cum, they are less stressed. But the worst client I had was really rough and would spit at me and call me all sorts of names. But worst of all, the pig-sty in my farm back home in China smelt better than him. He had body odor that could kill a city!

MS: So what has been the most unusual experience then?

J: There were two I can remember.

The first one involved a regular client. One day, I was walking into the street where I work when he approached me. Strangely, there was a woman with him. She introduced herself as his wife and I almost ran. I thought she was going to slash me or something with a knife. Instead, she wanted to talk to me about how I please her husband. She wanted to learn from me. That was weird!

MS: So did you help them?

J: Well, I agreed to sit down and talk to her over coffee. I felt uncomfortable but she really doesn’t know how to have sex at all.

MS: And the second?

J: This woman came in with a man. She sat down and watched for a while and later joined in. It was kinky but I was uncomfortable because I was not prepared for it. I’m not sure but I think they made some arrangement so that she can join in.

MS: Do you service women too?

J: Well, yes (giggles)

MS: Do you like a woman going down on you?

J: Oh yes! Three of us women stay together. Do you think we play dolls on our off days?

MS: What about the most exciting experience for you?

J: That has to be the time when I met this client of mine outside. Many of them actually stay around the area. This was a little risky for me because we were not allowed to see clients outside the brothel. Anyway, I did because this guy was cute and treated me nice.

So one off day, I went to a bachelor party. He offered me $1,500 which was a lot but when I got there, I realised that I had to fuck nine other men. I wanted to walk out until I saw them. Deep down it was my fantasy to have an orgy with so many different races at one time. I agreed besides they seemed like nice men. 

So the groom was first and soon the others joined in. It was somewhere during the fourth man that I had a huge orgasm. The biggest I’ve ever had. For so long, I’ve fantasised about it. There were four Chinese men, two Indian men, two Caucasian men and a Malay man. It was the best money I ever made especially since I was paid and had the chance to live my fantasy. 

MS: How long do you think you will continue to do what you are doing?

J: Well, I’ve managed to help my family buy a new house in China and now I’m just saving for myself. Maybe another two years and then we will see how. They don’t know that I’m working as a hooker. They think I’m helping to run a friend’s business here (giggles).

MS: One last question. When we first met, you and your friend wanted to pick me up. What did you have in mind?

J: My friend said you were pretty and delicious. So I said why don't you eat her. She said ok I will try and that is how we approached you. It was out from a dare really. But we do still want to eat you.

MS: (Smiles).

Missus Singapore out!

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SHE'S A KILLER BLOW

It seems that a man's NEED for a blow transcends all cultures, customs and races. Men will be men. Here is one from Darleen, Hamptom (UK?). She also shares in her email, the interesting story of how she gave her husband a blow that ended him in hospital.

"He had been away for six days for business and when he got back, he had to rush from the airport straight to a friend's place for dinner. So I met him there. We were both feeling frisky and after dinner, when everyone broke off into groups to chat, we slowly escaped. We got up the stairs and I went down on him. Just as he was about to cum, he lost his footing and went tumbling down.

Thankfully, it was only about eight steps up. But he hurt his hip and elbow badly as he laid sprawled on the floor with his dick out of his pants! It was not funny then but now, we can joke about it. That's how good my blows are!'

Darleen - one question. Did he manage to cum at all? If not, it definitely wasn't worth it!

Missus Singapore out!

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