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Hookup culture isn't killing relationships.

According to a study by a University of Iowa sociologist, casual sex does not necessarily dilute the possibility of falling in love or becoming romantically involved.

Anthony Paik's survey of 642 adults in Chicago initially found that "average relationship quality was higher for individuals who waited until things were serious to have sex compared to those who became sexually involved in 'hookups,' 'friends with benefits,' or casual dating relationships". This was according to the press release on the study.

However, when Paik had controlled for people who had zero interest in having a relationship, that difference disappeared.

He said, "Couples who became sexually involved as friends or acquaintances and were open to a serious relationship ended up just as happy as those who dated and waited."

Apparently, the study did not pick up much evidence that relationships were lower quality because they started off as hookups. It suggests that rewarding relationships are possible for those who delay sex. But it's also possible for true love to emerge if things start off with a more 'Sex and the City' approach, when people spot each other across the room, become sexually involved and then build a relationship.

Read More at Salon.com.

MS: Honestly, this isn't a big revelation. Many of us already knew about this either first-hand or from the experiences of friends. Of course this study didn't mention how long these relationships lasted or if they progressed into a live long union.

It's really a matter or timing and moods for me. Hell, we can be so strong at times while at other moments, we tend to be so fickle and emotionally swayed that if a particular song is playing at the time a man approaches us, it is not too hard to envisage ourselves locked into a mysterious bond that finds us swooning in bed over this guy a few hours later. Sometimes we hope he calls the next day. Sometimes we don't.

Missus Singapore out!

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SEX BITS - THE ANIMAL CONNECTION

Here are some interesting sex bits sent in by Carlo from Veracruz in Mexico. I won't even begin to question any of them but it makes for an interesting real.

FACT 1: Male and female rats may have sex twenty times a day.

MS: I used to be like that 20 years ago. Now its only half that number!

FACT 2: Turkeys can reproduce without having sex. It’s called parthenogenesis.

MS: If only humans can do it, we would have a valid excuse when we have to explain the belly hump to our parents.

FACT 3: Male bats have the highest rate of homosexuality of any mammal.

MS: That explains why they always seem to attack voluptuous women wearing wet see-through Ts in the movies.

FACT 4: Some lions mate over 50 times a day.

MS: It never mentioned if they were dreaming about it whilst laying under a big shady tree for 18 hours a day while the female is out hunting.

FACT 5: Snakes have two sex organs.

MS: It does make a menage a trois so much easier to organise, doesn't it.

FACT 6: A pig’s orgasm lasts for 30 minutes.

MS: No wonder Porky always stammers and looks stoned.

Missus Singapore out!

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Here are some interesting sex bits. Some of the most amazing sex records I've ever come across. Astounding really.

Record 1: The most ejaculatory orgasms ever recorded in 1 hour for a man is 16.

MS: It didn't mention if he survived it or not.

Record 2: The farthest a woman has been recorded to ejaculate is about 9'29" (3 m).

MS: Stand clear of this one or you'll get drowned where you are. I see how some men might enjoy this - as they might any freak show.

General Fact: The average speed of a man's ejaculation is 28 mph (45.05 km/hr). The average speed of a city bus is 25 miles (40.22 km) per hour.

MS: Who says you can't be killed by a speeding sperm?

Missus Singapore out!

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In a previous installment of Sex Bits, I mentioned some gangbang where a woman had sex with 500 men or there about. But I totally forgot that prior to that record being broken, a Singaporean woman actually held it.

She was Annabel Chong, who had sex with some 251 men. I am not sure how many hours she took but it was her claim to fame I suppose.

I remember when it was reported in the local media, many locals and Asians, for that matter, condemned her antics. I for one hailed her as a woman brave enough to do what she wanted to do without anyone telling her to do this or that.

Here is a woman many of us can learn from. No, I'm not suggesting we all go out and get fucked silly by several busloads of horny dudes, but when it comes to chasing our goals in life.

There was a documentary on her, a play and I think even a book was written about her life. She never once regretted it, which is a lot more than what I can say for a whole load of women, who have more regrets than shoes.

It is always "I should have done this before!', 'I wish I had taken the risk then!', 'Why didn't I try it out?'.

Well the good thing is that it's never too late to chase your goals.

In a way, I subscribe to Annabel's way of life. Strike while the iron is hot. All hail the great Annabel. I for one am proud of her for putting Singapore on the porn map!

Missus Singapore out!

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A Russian woman has set a new world record, lifting a 14-kg. glass ball with her vagina muscles. Tatiata Kozhevnikova of Novosibirsk, aged 42, has been exercising her intimate muscles for fifteen years, and has already made her entrance into the Guinness Book of Records as the possessor of the world’s strongest vagina, she proudly told Life.ru.

“After I had a child, my intimate muscles got unbelievably weak. I read books on Dao and learned that ancient women used to deal with this problem using wooden balls,” she said. “I looked around, saw a Murano glass ball and inserted it in my vagina. It took me ages to get it out!”

The embarrassing first experience did not scare Tatiana off. She developed quite a taste for vagina fitness, and now she has her exercising balls custom-made.

“You insert one of the balls in your vagina, and it has a string attached to it with a little hook at the very end. You fix a second ball onto this hook.”

The Russian recommends vaginal exercises to all women who want to improve their sex life.

MS: Can someone verify if these sort of things are really recorded? If this is true, then I doubt if any of her lovers are still alive to confirm her abilities. I can just hear all the men reading this and screaming out in pain. This gives a whole new meaning to squeezing every drop out! Now to get myself some glass balls!

Missus Singapore out!

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The most number of orgasms enjoyed by a woman in 1 hour was a shattering 134.

A 47-year old Scandanavian woman was recorded in April 2003, to have had these orgasms in front of three people - a reporter, a medical technologist and her husband. She had brought herself off by using a typical vibrator.

In one hour? I'd probably have three over the hour, but 134? I think I'd comatose. I know of women who are fortunate enough to enjoy multiple orgasms but no one comes close to this. This had me thinking if such reports are real to begin with.

If it is to be believed, she would have had about two orgasms ever minute or an orgasm ever 30secs. Come on! Honestly!

But let's give her the benefit of the doubt.

More importantly for us women, the big question is how 'typical' is her vibrator because it has got to be something else.

Missus Singapore out!

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MOST SEMEN SWALLOWED: Michelle Monahan had 1.7 pints of semen pumped out of her stomach in Los Angeles in July 1991.

That is a whole lot of semen - almost two 2-litre bottles of coke! It never mentioned if it was from one guy or 100, or if it was human to begin with but here's the thing - I doubt it would have been a pleasant experience seeing that she had to have it medically pumped out of her system.

The big question that lingers is who actually records such things?

Missus Singapore out!

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I really am overwhelmed by the things you guys send in and I totally appreciate it. In sorting them out and finding a way to group them, I've decided that the easiest way is to start another section which encompasses all the interesting titbits and snippets I've received.

So to kick things off, here is an interesting one which the girls might find amusing. Don't worry boys, I'll have lots for you too.

GREATEST DISTANCE ATTAINED FOR A JET OF SEMEN: Horst Schultz achieved 18 ft 9 in with a ’substantial’ amount of seminal fluid. He also hold the records for the greatest height (12 ft 4in) and the greatest speed of ejaculation, or muzzle velocity, with 42.7mph.

MS: This guy gives a new meaning to an explosive cumshot. I presume if he does cum in a woman, she'll get a taste of him in her mouth for sure. On hindsight, I think that would be a lot safer for her because at that speed and intensity, he could cum on her face and give her a nasty bruise the next day or at worse, a concussion or even blind her.

I knew a guy who had a powerful squirt but he's definitely no where near this guy. He did however leave me with a tearing eye once. Okay so he couldn't really rock my bed but I have to admit, it was the highlight of our times together, watching him cum. I'm so nasty aren't I?

Missus Singapore out.

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