"I read how someone actually wrote in previously about how she would stay away from people that irks her. I would like to reiterate that that can really make a difference to one's moods. I find men who think they know it all as my greatest source of irritation. I should know as I was married to one such man. If I am planning to meet a male friend for an intimate night, I would try my best to keep away from such men as much as I can on a personal level.
If I come into contact with them, they will tend to irritate the hell out of me and kill my mood. The last I would want to do is spend a night with the species, even if he is not the sort. So I find cleansing myself of opinionated men for the day has a fantastic affect on my libido. Some men, most men really, think they understand women and our nuances. Others even think they understand how our hormones work! So rather than to confront and try to explain things to them, I'd rather slip away and spend my precious time doing something else. Sadly, a woman still depends on a man for sex, at least for the foreseeable future."
MS: Well Leisha, there is really nothing we can do about people with opinions so what you are doing does make a hell of a lot of sense. As for me, I won't let them bother me. I'm kind of immune to that sort of thing. I laugh it off most of the time rather than waste my energy and effort on someone who just refuses to be educated. Some try to be really intelligent but you can tell from what they are saying that they are just coughing out their egos the way many men do. Thanks for your comments and the research papers you sent. Interesting reads!
Missus Singapore out!
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