Monday...
MMX Muscle (Manhattan). HARD BUFF MONDAYS - 3/14 at 7:30pm. Not a sex party, but a massage party…its about touch. The hosts says. "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Limited to 14 guys; Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries. To Get in email the host: mmxnyc@gmail.com and check out www.mmxnyc.com.
JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "MARCH MASSAGE-&-PLAY MONDAY PARTY #2" -- doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am; @Paddles; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com
MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s) Starts at 9/9:30pm (also has lunch-time parties). In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking/sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys maye have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys.
*Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com
Tuesday…
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. TONIGHT is the PEAK party. Peak is safe sex only party. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35.Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.
FOOTMENNYC and TOUCH PARTY GUYS (Chelsea). 8pm - 2am. Not really a full-flegded sex party, but you get…Free Full-Body Massage provider all night, and Curtained play-spaces for your pleasure. Held at The Eagle (28th St., btwn 10th & 11th Aves.) $10 cover, includes drink ticket (21 years old and over). The private party is on the 2nd floor and the roof.
Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com
NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Paddles." Check out: http://www.nyjacks.com
Wednesday…
THE FORMER DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Gramercy). LUNCH-TIME Party (noon-3pm). Great vibe with some average to hot guys. The host is very cool guy, who tries to be selective. For a mixed crowd/for average to hot guys. EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com
PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Great social sex party in large private loft apt held once a month, 8pm-12am.. Great mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45, or under 21) -- 70-90 guys attend. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. Just a warning: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). Guys, I know it sounds annoying – and can be -- but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex.)
*Send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.
HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) "An intoxicating blend of sexual possibility and good vibes." Held at Paddles every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less.
Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com
INFINITY NYC (Times Square). WEEKDAY AFTER-WORK PARTY: “For dudes in need of a weekday release.” STRICTLY FOR FIT MEN 20-45ish; HOT porn, HOT dudes, & HOT action; All supplies provided; mandatory street clothescheck. No shirts or tees. To get in send stats and pics to infinitinyc@yahoo.com
REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.
Thursday…
EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-4pm) party expecting a huge turnout, quickly becoming the place for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. TONIGHT is ERUPTION party. Eruption (not exclusively safe). Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35.Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.
BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 6PM-MIDNIGHT. Refreshments and snacks provided For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com
JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "BLACK PARTY WEEKEND SPECIAL #1,” doors 7 pm to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am @Paddles; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com
THE FORMER DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Gramercy). 7pm-11pm. The host is very cool guy, who tries to be selective. His parties downtown were very hot. This week's party is a the first time he is co-hosting. The host insists that the party will be up to his usual standards, and if cohosting doesn't work out he won't do it again. (For me this doesn't bode well: Gramercy Duplex parties often take in the dregs and try to mix them with hot guys). Hope it works out! Let me know if you go. Usually for a racially mixed crowd/for very average to hot guys. EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com
OPEN HOUSE PARTY (Gramercy). So ROCK SOLID and some other parties at Gramercy have merged. They claim be very selective, but a few guys emailed me about last Thursday's party which was very mixed: a few hot guys and a lot of old, out-of-shape guys prowling around after them. To get in send pics and stats to this email: aopenhouseparty@gmail.com.
Friday…
MMX Muscle (Manhattan). HAPPY HOUR JOCK FRIDAYS with Thaddeus Starts 3/18 at 6 pm. Not a sex party, but a massage party…its about touch. The hosts says. "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Limited to 14 guys; Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries. To Get in email the host: massagecoachnyc@gmail.com
THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square) 10pm-5am. Door closes at 4. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not always great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. For a younger/hot crowd. Hit up the host with pics and stats: nyjockparty@yahoo.com
THE HOT JOCK “POZ” PARTY (Stuyvesant). 9pm-2am. The guy that hosts THE HOT JOCK PARTY also hosts this special party for HIV+ guys who are in great shape. THE HOT JOCK PARTY parties are usually have above average and hot muscle guys; not a lot of attitude; usually hot sex, and a fun mix of guys.
TO GET IN send stats and pics to: nycpozparty@yahoo.com
THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy). Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties: RAW RORK, PORN STARS. Last week's party had about 60+ older, out of shape guys. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.
THE OMEGA PARTY (Soho). NEW LOCATION. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 9PM TO 4 AM. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.
THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 12:00-7:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net
BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited.
To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.
BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 8PM to 3AM. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com
HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn) 10pm doors open; 11pm doors close; party till 2 am; everything to play safe. 18-30yo ONLY. Usually 40-50 hot guys; *All lean in shape guys: No fats, chubs, dads, or bears. For a younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotbrooklynparty@nyc.rr.com
Saturday…
RITES XXXI: THE BLACK PARTY (Midtown West). Roseland Ballroom: 239 West 52nd Street. Saturday March 19, 2011 (10:00pm until Sunday afternoon); Music by 80R15 of Berlin, Manny Lehman & Danny Tenaglia; The world's most infamous party. Strange Live Acts. Dress: Heavy; Proper ID - 21 and over. TICKETS: $100 through February 28th; $120 after March 1st through day of event (Includes complementary entrance to Saturday's BPX: Black Party Expo). http://blackparty.com
LOAD NYC (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement for in-shape guys. 90 guys, porn. ALSO has Park Slope party. For hot/younger crowd. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com.
OZONE PARK SEX PARTY (Ozone Park, Queens). Held in a private apartment, 9pm-am (doors close at 10:30pm). Host 30 to 50 guys once a month (usually 35 guys per party with 30 here at a time); big on variety, so lots of different guys: breakdown of 35 guys is something like 10 guys under 30, 15 guys in their 30s and 10 guys over 40. Now only accepting new guys who are under 35 years of age (exceptions made). For a mixed age/average to hot crowd.
Email pics + stats to: SexPartyQueens@gmail.com.
NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). 10PM-8AM. This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Gets 70-90 dudes each party. Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com
MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy). “Black Party Weekend Party!” & "BlackOut Party." Hot Body Men's Party, 8pm-2am. Host is bringing back the BlackOut theme: Wear sexy black jockstrap, underwear or ALL NUDE ONLY. According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. Will limit this to 80 guys. Not sure how hot the guys will be, probably a wide variety from out-of-shape to average to a few hot guys – which seems standard for these parties. Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com
ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) Boyz'll Be Boyz. 8PM to 2AM. Held in a private apartment by an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35 - 45. They get about 40+ guys. The hosts says They provide condoms and lube; Smoking is allowed in designated areas; it's a BYOB party. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude. Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.
THUGS 4 THUG SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 9:00pm-3:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net
WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills) The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in pvt 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am.
Mostly older guys. Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com
SPAM PARTY (Brooklyn). Not a M4M party, but may interest the more adventurous of you: A play party where dykes, fags, bisexuals and tansgendered folks get together for a sexually charged underwear party. 11pm-4am. Mandatory Pants Check Down To Your Underwear. They also run the SUBMIT PARTY. Check out the parties at http://www..submitparty.com. If you have questions, please email Red@submitparty.com.
Sunday…
JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "BLACK PARTY WEEKEND SPECIAL #2" On SUNDAY MORNING-AFTERNOON-- doors 10 am to 2:30, goes 'til 4 pm @Paddles; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com
THE NYJOCK PARTY (NYJP) & GOLDEN BOYS USA (Hell's Kitchen) Another hot combined party with NYJP and GBU – “BoXXXers And Briefs Underwear Party Black Party Weekend.” The combined parties are held in a bar lounge. The hosts are very discriminating -- and because of it these two parties have the hottest guys. Mostly 20s-early 30s. For a younger/hot crowd.
Send face and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com or ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com.
PITSTOP (Park Slope, Brooklyn) 8pm-1am. A fetish sex party for In-Shape guys where "almost anything goes." At the same space in Brooklyn that GBU uses. Safe-sex dungeon kinkfest where anything goes EXCEPT barebacking: be a voyeur or exhibitionist in scenes involving PISS, role playing, BD/SM, fisting, spit, foot worship, spanking, humiliation, raunch and much more! Stripping to your underwear, jockstrap or fetish gear is required. Nudity is encouraged! Safe sex is REQUIRED. Anyone caught fucking without condoms will be told to leave. There is zero tolerance for barebacking at this space. This party will also have a broader range of ages, but they ask that only in-shape kinky guys attend.
To get future announcements, please email host at: pitstop_nyc@yahoo.com
NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) 7pm-1am @Paddles. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger guys in. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night.
www.NYBondageClub.com
NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Chelsea Space." http://www.nyjacks.com
THE OMEGA PARTY (Soho). NEW LOCATION. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 9PM TO 2AM. An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.
THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net
THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem) 7pm-12am. NEON-BLACKOUT PARTY! When you arrive, you will be given and wear a neon glow-stick bracelet. There will be one color for tops, one for bottoms and one for vers. The playroom will be dark except for the light coming from everyone’s bracelets. The rest of the apartment will remain dimly lit. In big apartment in West Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys. The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. TONIGHT is ERUPTION party. Eruption in not a safe-sex party. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35.Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.
The review goes on, but that was the thrust of it – what really caught my eye was that these old guys who the host let into to party don’t take no for an answer. Even Brandon Aguilar mentions in his review about these old out-of-shape guys at some parties -- they are grasping, groping, and gross. First of all I don’t understand why many hosts don’t control the parties more—or why they even let them in in the first place. And second, I can’t understand why these old guys don’t go to the fucking gym. If these guys want to go to a sex party, and go after hot guys – cool – but why don’t they get into the best shape they can. Do they know much fucking time these guys spend at the gym to look like that? Why should some gross old troll get to enjoy all their work. I can guarantee that unless they had some weird fetish -- the hot dudes are NOT interested. Do you really think they work out like dogs so they can fuck some fat old guy. They don't.
And, before you all start throwing shit at me, I am not an ageist -- I get off on older inshape guys. For example, I was away last week for a business trip in Chicago – Chicago is one my favorite cities for business trips because there are so many hot guys there that I always have a hot time. (One of my old fuckbuddies, Dan, who writes a great sex blog (http://mattanddanssexualadventures.blogspot.com/), and I are always comparing our sexploits and how many guys we fuck on our business trips. He is a master – he even films his adventures (check out his site), but on my trip to Chicago I think I beat him: five guys in two days.) Okay, I cheated: one was a threeway. In fact the threeway was one of the hottest I’ve had in a long time. I was on a lunch break trolling adam4adam, when this dude sent me an IM asking if I wanted to get fucked. (D’uh!) I checked out his pics – amazing muscular body, about my height and build, but he was in 48. So, if he was 48 on A4A, I was guessing 50something in the real world. Fuck, but his pictures were really hot, and he insists they were recent. Then he throws this at me this – he asks if he can bring a friend and they can tag team me. He says they are working construction, but can take a break for a few hours. Dude, you had me at “tag team.” He sends me his friend’s page on A4A, which is even hotter than his – another muscle dude, but this guy says he’s 53 – so what is that like 60 in the real world?? I’m a sucker for a threeway, so I decide to give it a shot – the pics were HOT. They come over and they are totally cool. We quickly get naked, and fuck guys – their bodies were better than most guys my age (28). So fucking hot. We get down to business and we fucked for over an hour or more. There was barely a moment when there wasn’t a cock in my ass and a dick in my mouth. They just didn’t stop. Amazing – their (no doubt Viagra-filled) dicks just didn’t stop. I came about three times – twice without touching my dick. When we finally all came – all over me, of course, we talked for another 20 minutes. I’m still amazed at these guys’ bodies – not an ounce of fat. I kept telling them how hot they were—and they said yeah, it was killing them to look that way – guys, maybe true, but totally worth it. Older dudes can be incredible – but it takes work.
What did we learn – don’t brush off older dudes -- some have amazing bodies – if they put the work into it they can be just as hot as anyone else – and older guys often really know how to fuck. What else????—older guys, there’s no excuse for having bad bodies. If you want to go to a sex party and fuck with hot guys – then fucking go to the gym like the rest of us. Or find someone with a fetish for fat old guys, and leave the rest of us alone. Okay, and third: I’m an asshole, but we all knew that.
