HOW TO SATISFY YOUR PARTNER

I received this last week from Janet Tan from Singapore. She is a regular reader of Missus Singapore.

The 39-year old, who works as a accountant, has three children and sent this in an email saying, "There are just so many jokes about women that I felt it was time to even the odds to make fun of the men for a change. It's time for them to know how easy it is for a woman to get any man they so desire."

How to satisfy a woman
Caress, praise, pamper, relish, savor, massage, make plans, fix, empathize, serenade, compliment, support, feed, tantalize, bathe, humor, placate, stimulate, stroke, console, purr, hug, coddle, excite, pacify, protect, phone, correspond, anticipate, nuzzle, smooch, toast, minister to, forgive, sacrifice for, ply, accessorize, leave, return, beseech, sublimate, entertain, charm, lug, drag, crawl, show equality for, oblige, fascinate, attend, implore, shower, shave, trust, grovel, ignore, defend, coax, clothe, brag about, acquiesce, aromatize, fuse, fizz, rationalize, detoxify, sanctify, help, acknowledge, polish, upgrade, spoil, embrace, accept, butter-up, hear, understand, jitterbug, beg, plead, borrow, steal, climb, swim, nurse, resuscitate, repair, patch, crazy-glue, respect, entertain, calm, allay, kill for, die for, dream of, promise, deliver, tease, flirt, commit, enlist, pine, cajole, Anglicize, murmur, snuggle, elevate, enervate, alleviate, serve, rub, rib, salve, bite, taste, nibble, gratify, take her places, scuttle like a crab on the ocean floor of her existence, diddle, doodle, hokey-pokey, hanky-panky, crystal blue persuade, flip, flop, fly, don't care if I die, swing, slip, slide, slather, mollycoddle, squeeze, moisturize, humidify, lather, tingle, slam-dunk, keep on rockin' in the free world, wet,brush, tingle, dribble, drip, dry, knead, fluff, fold, blue-coral wax, ingratiate, indulge, wow, dazzle, amaze, flabbergast, enchant, idolize and worship, and then go back, and start again.

How to satisfy a man
Show up naked with food.

Missus Singapore out!

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OUTDOOR SEX (POLL 31)

Here are the compiled results from a poll on outdoor sex that was held during December 2010 and January 2011.

Compared to a 2006 poll, it clearly appears that more and more people are heading outdoors for some sexual adventure, and we are not talking Great Outdoors here. One woman from Australia wrote in to admit having sex in her lawn at 2.30am, apparently a time when most Aussies are concussed in bed. 

As expected, penetrative sex ranked the lowest in terms of sexual activities held outdoors. Handjobs are the most common.

Thanks for all your votes and emails too. I am encouraged and motivated to continue with my polls due to the enormous response that I get over and over again. So here then are the results in detail.

HAVE YOU EVER HAD SEX OUTDOORS?

Oral sex only: 54 (24.9%)
Got/gave a handjob: 72 (33.2%)
Penetrative sex: 44 (20.3%)
Curious to try: 20 (9.2%)
Definitely not: 27 (12.4%)

Total no. of respondents: 217

Missus Singapore out!

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AM-NYC Sex Party review

Okay – maybe I’m just lucky – but every time I go to one of James’ parties I have a great time. I always hook up with hot guys at NYJOCK and last Friday’s AM-NYC was no exception. Guys bitch at me because they say that too many dudes just stand around in expensive underwear waving off anyone to approaches them. Okay – it’s true – and fucking annoying. But, with these two parties if you stick with it until the earlier hours of the morning, guys let down their guard and usually get into hot fucking.

Friday’s party started late like all AM-NYC (11pm) – not much was going on until 1am – a few guys fucking around, a lot of guys standing around. But by 1:30-2am, the party was swinging. People were fucking and sucking everything in site in the back room – very hot. At one point there must have been 5 couples fucking on the main bed with guys surrounding them and helping out by giving the bttms something to suck, and the tops a mouth to tongue. And even the other beds were filled too. It was filled with muscle guys, a few little twinks, a bodybuilder or two and some very hot riffraff.

Anyway guys – it’s all about waiting for the mood to set in, and choosing your shots. I fucked more guys than I care to remember, and got fucked a few times myself. Had a very hot time and stumbled out of there an exhausted happy guy.



If you’re game to go to the next one, here’s the info: AM-NYC: An All New After Hours Party (Midtown). AM is a private, selective, and hot party only for good looking in shape guys. Get about 80 guys. This is a SAFE & DRUG FREE PARTY. Party takes place after you've been everywhere: Usually starts after 11pm or midnight and goes until early morning. Condoms, lube, water, Gatorade and more is provided. Same dude runs this who runs NYJP (and has a similar crowd to NYJP).
For invite, email James: aminnyc1@yahoo.com

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ASK THE BOLDER WOMAN

Here is a question sent in by Tonya Long from New Zealand.

Q: I've been married for 11 years and my husband and I are very much in love. However, about a year ago we went through some hard times and I suspect that my husband cheated on me. I asked and he denied but my gut feeling tells me that he did it. I left it alone but recently, I met an old schoolmate and am thinking of having an affair myself. This man and me seem to have a lot in common and we enjoy each other's company a lot. I really don't want to destroy my marriage but deep inside, I just feel that my husband deserves me to cheat on him.

A: Tonya, are you listening to what you are saying? It seems you have provided the answer yourself. You don't want to destroy your marriage yet you are contemplating a potentially marriage-breaking exercise. In my opinion, your marriage seems to lack an open line of communication. There seems to be a lot of distrust and suspicion. An extra-marital affair never solved anything as far I know.

What I suggests is this.
1. Talk to him about the time when you suspected him having an affair. Don't bring it up directly but refer to it as the time when he seemed distanced from you. You have to have an open mind and weigh the possibilities should his answer go either way. What will you do or say should he admit to it? How will you react if he again declares he is innocent. You will have to let him know how much his behaviour at the time hurt you.

2. Discuss how you have both let the marriage get a little boring and come to a consensus on how you will both work to spicing things up.

3. Ideally, you should try getting away from familiar surroundings of the home. Take a short vacation when its just you and him and free from any family or work distractions.

4. You ought to put a stop to complicating things by having a vengeful affair yourself. You have the power to do so and if you are weak, you will never get down to the truth which will inevitably eat into you.

Missus Singapore out!

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RAW PORK sex party review

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GROUP Sex Parties -- Monday, March 7 to Sunday, March 13

Sex Parties -- Monday, March 7 to Sunday, March 13...

***HOT PICKS OF THE WEEK: NYJock (Fri), Golden Boys USA (Sat) & The Hot Jock Party (Sun)

Monday...
JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) @ "Paddles" Doors 7 PM to Midnight, goes 'til 2 AM; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here
JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

Tuesday…
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. TONIGHT is the FUSION party. Fusion is a mized (wristbands for safe sex). Held in a private apartment. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35.Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Paddles." Check out: http://www.nyjacks.com

Wednesday…
THE FORMER DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Gramercy). LUNCH-TIME Party (noon-3pm). Great vibe with some average to hot guys. The host is very cool guy, who tries to be selective. For a mixed crowd/for average to hot guys. EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com

MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s) Starts at 9/9:30pm (also has lunch-time parties). In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking/sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys maye have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys.
*Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com

HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) "An intoxicating blend of sexual possibility and good vibes." Held at Paddles every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less.
Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

ND2 (Midtown). This party is for average African American and Latino dudes ONLY. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are Wed nights. Send pics and stats to HARLEMDUKESNYC@YAHOO.COM

Thursday…
EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-4pm) party expecting a huge turnout, quickly becoming the place for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

ROCK SOLID PARTY (Gramercy). 7pm-11pm. Said they had a great party on Friday—but trying to be very selective this week. Have lube and condoms.
Send stats and pics to: abbasyabbasy@yahoo.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. TONIGHT is ERUPTION party. Eruption (not exclusively safe). Held in a private apartment. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35.Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 6PM-MIDNIGHT. Refreshments and snacks provided For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

Friday…
THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square) NYJP MARDI GRAS: Beads, Boys, and Booze. 10pm-5am. Door closes at 4. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not always great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. For a younger/hot crowd. Send face and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy). Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties: RAW RORK, PORN STARS. Last week's party had about 60+ older, out of shape guys. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

THE OMEGA PARTY (Soho). NEW LOCATION. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 9PM TO 4 AM. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 12:00-7:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited.
To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 8PM to 3AM. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn)7pm. 18-30yo ONLY. Usually 40-50 hot guys; *All lean in shape guys: No fats, chubs, dads, or bears. For a younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotbrooklynparty@nyc.rr.com

Saturday…
LOAD NYC (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement for in-shape guys. 90 guys, porn. ALSO has Park Slope party. For hot/younger crowd. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com.

FOREVER FISTING PARTY (Chelsea). 7pm. Open door policy at "Chelsea Space" – Contact Cain at MasterCainB@yahoo.com or check out www.ffslingers.com.
NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are usually twice a month, usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights too 12am-6am. Gets 70-90 dudes each party. Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

COLLEGE WATER SPORTS KEGGER PARTY and GOLDEN BOYS USA (Brooklyn) Held in the basement space in a brownstone. Only accept guys who
are in-shape, 18-30 years old. Have regular rooms and wet rooms (even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party). Average 75-120 guys attend, all 20 YOs. For a younger/hot crowd. Email here ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 9:00pm-3:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills) The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in pvt 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am.
Mostly older guys. Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com

Sunday…
JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) "SPRING-AHEAD DAYLIGHT-SAVINGS PARTY" On SUNDAY MORNING-AFTERNOON: doors 10am to 2:30pm, goes 'til 4 pm; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Gramercy) Held in a studio space -- has guys in mostly 20s
-30s-hot 40YOs. It's above average to hot muscle guys, and twinks. Not a lot of attitude. Usually hot sex, and a fun mix of guys. Easily one of the best parties -- and one of few that you get a good mix of hot guys and hot sex. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice a month, 6pm-10pm. For a racially mixed younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Chelsea Space." http://www.nyjacks.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Soho). NEW LOCATION. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 9PM TO 2AM. An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. TONIGHT is FUSION party. Fusion is a mized (wristbands for safe sex). Held in a private apartment. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35.Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

GALLERY OF MEN (Times Square) 8pm-2am. "Horny Spring Blast." According to the host the "last party was filled with some young good looking guys. Doing it! Hot Sleazy man juice filled action." This is a private play space is equipped with a sling, sofas and beds; 4 different rooms and dark areas. Open-admission, no-attitude party, Mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. A party mainly for older out of shape guys.
Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com

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THE DATING GAME

This week's video comprises excellent lessons for guys wanting to learn the finer points of dating.

Leave it to Rowan Atkinson to show you the ropes in dating etiquette. Well, at least it can't get it any worse. Have a great week ahead.

Missus Singapore out!

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