Senin, 06 September 2010

Group Sex Parties -- Monday, September 6 to Sunday, September 12

Sex Parties -- Monday, September 6 to Sunday, September 12...

***PICKS OF THE WEEK: For Afr-Am/Latino guys: Nudian Dukes; or for everyone else: College Kegger Party (both Sat)

Monday...
JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) Doors, 7:00 - Midnight, goes 'til 2 am; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

Tuesday…
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). TONIGH is PEAK party. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Paddles."
http://www.nyjacks.com

Wednesday…
DIESEL (Hell's Kitchen). New location. Every Wednesday night (8pm-1am and no longer closing the doors so arrivals can continue coming in throughout the party). Guys are 20-45YO. VERY HOT guys -- great party. For a young/hot crowd. For invite you should send stats and pics at diesel.nyc@hotmail.com or hit up "Diesel2010nyc" on Adam4Adam.com. I hear that the last few parties have had very small attendence.

GRAB ASS PARTY (Chelsea) Held at Paddles. Every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Get 30-50 guys ages 25 to 55YO: height/weight proportionate (all body types, extremely friendly). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com

HARLEM FREAK PARTY (Harlem) Weekly Wednesday Night Harlem Discreet Freak Party. Its gets better every week..with hotter guys!! Drinks/Condom/Lube provided. 2 rooms available for all nite fucking!! 12am-6am. email/text for more info!! iamthestylist@sprint.blackberry.net

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older.
To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s) Starts at 9:3opm. In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys maye have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys.
*Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com

Thursday…
THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Midtown East/Gramercy) 7-11pm. Held in a hotel suite or Gramercy Duplex -- has guys in mostly 20s -30s-hot 40YOs. It's above average to hot muscle guys, and twinks. Not a lot of attitude. Usually hot sex, and a fun mix of guys. Easily one of the best parties -- and one of few that you get a good mix of hot guys and hot sex. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend. For a racially mixed younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). TONIGHT is ERUPTION party. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 6PM-MIDNIGHT. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

Friday…
MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy). HOT BODY MEN'S PARTY - "BLACK OUT" 11pm - 4am. The Manhattan party is held at the Gramercy Duplex. According to the host, they screen to invite hot, athletic/fit/in-shape men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. Guys that used fake pics/stats to get an invite & but are out of shape, have large bellys, large/average build or look much older than 45 are not be admitted to the party.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@yahoo.com, or check out http://hotsexpartiesnyc.blogspot.com/

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square/Garment District) 10pm-4am, Door closes at 3. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not always great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. UPDATE: I HEARD THAT THE LAST PARTY HAD A FEW OLDER GUYS -- NOT SURE WHAT'S GOING ON HERE. Usually for a younger/hot crowd. TO GET IN email pic and stats: nyjockparty@yahoo.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Times Square). Held in a great space near Times Square. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 6PM TO 2 AM, DOORS 6PM TO 12 am; Donation. coat check $1. The new location in the W40s is great: fully equipped with shower, porn rom, sauna and with air conditioner. An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email omegaparties@hotmail.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (UES). It's BACK and in a new location on the UES. Description is from the host, not me: private Mediterranean-themed party for solid masculine men (italian, greek, latin, white, black, middle-eastern) over 200 naked hairy muscled jocks and smooth pumped-up studs, ages 21-45, powerful determined tops and hungry willing bottoms, lots of thick heavy uncut meat, 9pm-4am, NEW UPPER EAST SIDE TOWNHOUSE in E60s, need pics/email address...also need sexy workers. This is the party that was held in the Gramercy Duplex, which generally had average guys, and an older crowd, but hopefully this new party will be more discriminating. Give it a shot and let me know guys.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem)
In big apartment in Harlem, 9pm-2am. The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending (although last time I went a few weeks ago there were only 6 guys there)from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com

ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) 8pm-2am. Held in a private apartment by an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. Starts at 5pm and runs until 12am (officially there is no door closing time). The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35 - 45+. They get about 40+ guys. The hosts says They provide condoms and lube; Smoking is allowed in designated areas; it's a BYOB party. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude.
Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited.
To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 8PM to 3AM. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

Saturday…
COLLEGE WATER SPORTS KEGGER PARTY and GOLDEN BOYS USA (Brooklyn) 10pm-4am. Held in the basement space in a brownstone. Only accept guys who are in-shape, 18-30 years old. Have regular rooms and wet rooms (even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party). Average 75-120 guys attend, all 20YO. For a younger/hot crowd.
Email here ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). This party is for muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are usually twice a month, usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights too 12am-6am. Gets 70-90 dudes each party. Send pics and stats to Nubianmidtown@yahoo.com
NOTE: Starting today, NUBIAN MIDTOWN will merge with HARLEM DUKES to become NubianDukes. Instead of being a boxer party, we will start providing waist towels. Turn the waist towel one way and the ass hangs out; turn it the other way and the dick hangs out.

UPTOWN’S FINEST UNDERWEAR PARTY (Harlem). Held in an apartment – in total darkness this week – plus a garden to fuck outside. FOR Invite EMAIL: KAIZEN729@GMAIL.COM

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

ASSTORIA BY NIGHT GANG FUCK PARTY (Astoria, Queens). Description by host: party filled with hot naked bi, gay, straight, married voyeurs and exhibitionists. The last party had muscled hairy greek & turks jocks, DL black boys, smooth pumped-up Brazilians, Latino studs, Italian dudes, Asian twinks, and rugged masculine middle eastern arabs eager to relieve their stress in a Dim orgy setting private luxury apt. Age 21 – 45 ONLY slim, athletic, muscle (All races welcomed). 11pm – 3am, STRICT door policy will be enforced, everyone WILL be screened with no exceptions. Must strip down naked at door. Alcohol & Soda refreshments provided. This is drug free & SAFE sex party Condoms & Lube provided.
TO GET IN SEND PICS AND STATS TO: asstorianparty@gmail.com

EDEN UNDERGROUND! (Park Slope)This is a party for transexuals, transvestites, drag queens, cross dressers and their admirers! 11pm-4am, Mandatory Pants Check Down To Your Underwear. They also run the SUBMIT PARTY. Check out the parties at http://www..submitparty.com. If you have questions, please email submitparty@aol.com.

Sunday…
THE OMEGA PARTY (Times Square). Held in a great space near Times Square. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 6PM TO 2 AM, DOORS 6PM TO 12 am; Donation. The new location in the W40s is great: fully equipped with shower, porn rom, sauna (although OFTEN NOT WORKING!) and with air conditioner. An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email omegaparties@hotmail.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). TONIGHT is SIR party. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Chelsea Space."
http://www.nyjacks.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

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GO COUGARS!

The term Cougar, I feel, shouldn't be restricted to single unmarried and matured women. I know quite a few who fit that description. But I bet you my bottom dollar that the younger men really want Cougars who are married or at who have been married.

Matured or not, being single means means that you tend to see life differently. Your sexual mindsets (not necessarily experience) are still rather tame in the board sense. The sexually active married women are more forthcoming, know what they want and don't beat about the bush taking what they want in bed. Maybe, that's just me.

Anyway, watch more about in on the video of the week.

Missus Singapore out!

Cougar Town: The Complete First Season

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Minggu, 05 September 2010

WHAT DOC ORDERED

Annie works in the corporate communications department of a healthcare provider here in Singapore. I've known her for almost ten years and we met because she was coordinating interviews that I had to do with doctors. I was writing a lot about woman's health issues back then. To come to think of it, hell, I'm still writing an awful lot about it, although thankfully, it has moved somewhat into sexual health.

So anyway, out of the blue, she calls me and tells me she is now married and has a two year old girl. So we started chatting and I asked how is the marital flame burning for her. Her momentary silence told me a lot. But then she replied saying that the marriage was okay but the sex was far from it.

I pried and found out that they were having sex like twice a week. Duh?

By comparison, I insist of a higher frequency but judging from the bigger scheme of things, she was doing pretty good. In fact, I told her that many women I know would certainly envy her!

Right now I can think of five of my girlfriends who wished they had sex once a week at least! And I was only thinking of five girlfriends. The problem here is prioritising. Annie and her husband both work full office hours so the fact that they make time for each other tells that sex is pretty high up their list.

I hear all sorts of excuses but if couples take the time to prioritise and perhaps even lend a hand every now and then, sex is not an impossibility. Sadly, making money is top on the list. Many say family but if you truly treasure your family, that means ensuring that your marital relationship is on a good standing.

Sex is definitely not the only answer for it but it goes a long way in establishing and strengthening intimacy. Think about it, kids growing up with loving parents stand a better chance spring-boarding off from a stable family unit to face the world riddled with uncertainty.

In any case, a new research showed that people, especially men, who have sex at least twice a week stand a better chance of reducing a risk of heart-attacks by up to 50%. The promotional poster read "F%@K FOR YOUR HEART"

Missus Singapore out!

Sex and Your Heart Health: A Cardiologist Tells All

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Sabtu, 04 September 2010

BULLS WILL BE BULLS


Like boys, when bulls get together, you can always expect philosophical conversations. It comes with the territory I guess.

I've been to several strip clubs in Europe and the US and I have to admit that while the clubs for women (male strippers) are more rowdy and entertaining, the strip clubs with female strippers are a little disappointing. Of course I am making my comparisons with the clubs in Thailand and one unbelievable one in the Philippines. Super entertainment!

Missus Singapore out!

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Jumat, 03 September 2010

THIRD MONTH IN A ROW!

I'm really pleased that for the third month in a row, the most common search key words for readers who got to this site is "MISSUS SINGAPORE". It's probably no big deal for most well established sites but for this site, with little to no robust promotional efforts or scandals to announce, it's really surprising.

Okay, I'm pleased and I'd really like to thank everyone who has supported my blog in one way or another.

What really takes the cake is the many people who continue to write in with all sorts of requests and sending in all sorts of things. I try my best to reply to as many as I can but I admit how sometimes I go into lapses where I just don't attend to them like I should.

Anyway for those of you who are curious, there were 63% who actually keyed in Missus Singapore which means they know of me. I'm honoured.

I also had one reader who typed the weirdest things to get here and I'm honestly not sure how. It was this and I'm repeating every word as I see it.

'Lady watching a many jerk off on a nude beach'

Missus Singapore out!

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Kamis, 02 September 2010

MOOD BOOSTERS

Maisy is from Adelaide in Australia. This is her version of boosting her moods for a fun time in the sack with her husband of nine years. She is 38 and works in a non-profit organisation and has three kids and two dogs.

"I'm not sure it is me but I'm always worried that the house is a mess. If it is, I'll find myself a little bothered and usually, it's hard to get into the mood for sex. So once I'm sure that the home is in good shape and toys are not left around, I just feel more open to having a nice time in bed. Now that my kids are a little bigger, I find it a huge help to get them to keep their rooms and the home clean."

MS: I fully agree with you. What else are children for? LOL! But in some ways, I'm like that too. If there are lose ends that need to be tied up, I'd rather stay up and sort them out. I hate to have anything but sex on my mind when I'm at it.

Missus Singapore out!

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Rabu, 01 September 2010

CHATTER OVERKILL

I was having dinner with my significant other the other night. We were treating ourselves after a hectic few weeks of assignments. Not that the madness is over but at least we managed to peel away for a reprieve.

So this other couple was next to us. Obviously on their first date judging by their fumbling. Besides, the guy was rather loud so we sort of picked up things as we were digging into our steaks.

This was one great example of what not to do during a first date, and I've mentioned it before. Men and women are guilty of this. This guy was unloading his job, family, and sports buddies on his hapless date a furious pace. It was unbelievable.

Then as we moved on to dessert, he suddenly realised and said, "I've been doing all the talking. I hardly know anything about you. "

Finally!

But two sentences later, we found out about all the pets he has had as a child, amongst other things. Looking at his poor bored date, we both felt sorry for her. You you tell she was hoping for something to happen to pull her out of there - like a fire or suddenly recalling that she had an appointment to have brain surgery.

Anyway, this is one of the worse things to do on the first date. Talk all about yourself and chances are you will be by yourself but a long time to come. A little babbling is normal when you first meet someone you are attracted to going into chatter overkill mode will certainly kill your chances of progressing any further with this person.

Share the spotlight and remember that good conversation is always a dialogue not a monologue.

Missus Singapore out!

The Ten Commandments of Dating: Time-Tested Laws for Building Successful Relationships

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