SEX BENEFITS (POLL 16)

The jury is out. 79% have a favourable view of sex which is heartening. However, the bigger question is how many of the respondents actually are able to get it on a regular basis.

I've always found it extremely enjoyable but it is also a good way to connect with your partner. Yes, it's definitely a stress reliever but I like to also think of it as a recreational activity. You get to see and do what you don't normally do, it can be a sweaty affair, and you can live out fantasies physically and mentally which I don't think anything else is able to achieve.

While its probably right to say that the initial stage of any relationship, sex is a binding element, I think once marriage comes about, the mistake many often make it having similar expectations. That opens yourself up for disappointment because like anything new, there is always excitement and enthusiasm for the novelty but once you get the hang on it, it does get boring. So its probably wise to re-look at the role sex plays in a marriage.

Think about it. When you start out on a new sport - say tennis, you want to keep up with your coaching sessions. Thereafter, you pester friends to head to the courts on a weekly basis. Soon, it's a monthly affair, and later its a by the way sort of thing. Sex is no different.

To reinvent it and revitalise the interest, you need to commonly explore new ways to enjoy it. It doesn't have to be a regular affair but occasionally spicy enough to keep you lusting for more. Variety and spontaneity is the way to go.

Once you open up to the fact that sex should be an ever-evolving factor in any relationship, the possibilities are endless. Mindsets - that is the first thing to overcome but only if you are serious about re-injecting some excitement into your relationship.

Missus Singapore out!

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ASK THE BOLDER WOMAN

Here is another from my column in the Men's Magazine sometime back.

Q: Her bedroom shyness used to be cute and a turn-on but now it's getting a bit boring. How do I lure her out to be more expressive?

MS: I take it you mean she is coy about exposing her body fully. Many women, even those with knock-out bods do occasionally feel conscious about some self-conceived faults or inadequacies in their bodies. Unless you know her well enough, broaching the subject may backfire.

The trick is to give her confidence that she has a knock-out body (even if she doesn’t). During sex, tell her what you like about her body, how much of a turn on it is to feel her and see her in the buff, and it will gradually get her out from under the sheets. Bottom line: women love to receive compliments with or without clothes on.

Missus Singapore out!

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Sex Parties March 7 – 14

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DON'T BE A WUSS. SUCK IT COWBOY!

Nice cartoon from Helen, a US citizen who now stays in Singapore. Her husband had a great job opportunity here and uprooted the whole family to sunny Singapore.

Well this is definitely one way to obtain a permanent hard-on! I read some years back about a man who got stung by a scorpion in his privates. He got it treated and recovered but after, his wife reported that he had a renewed vigor for sex. He could never stop humping her at every opportune moment.

So ladies, if you want to boost your man's libido, you know what to do. Unfortunately, as far as I know, they don't sell scorpions in pet stores here.

Missus Singapore out!

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NO INTERNET, MORE INTERCOURSE

The Internet was acting all funky in Singapore last night and if you were one of the unlucky ones to have experienced it, well I hope you've got it sorted out.

It's amazing how much our lives revolve around it. It's very disconcerting to know that our lives depend a lot on it. I've had lots of friend bitching all day today about it.

For me, it's not as bad. I do a lot of my work online and even need a connection for blogging but if it shuts down for some reason like it did last night, there is always sex.

Yup, sex is, for me, a better alternative to surfing. Thankfully, my hubby is on the same wavelength and though it is important (the Internet) for him as well, he would rather have a hot and sweaty romp in the sack with me.

Once we got started, it was an all action night. With the heatwave also upon us, we snapped open a couple of beers and just messed around. To be fairly honest, we haven't really had such a wild night in a long time. So it was a welcome reprieve for the both of us.

Don't get me wrong. We still have lots of sex but it was different when you don't have the subconscious need to check up on work emails or do some online research.

So this brings up one important question that was lingering on my mind for much of today. Is the Internet really a bane to sex? Singaporeans are notorious for staying up late into the night and do what it is they do online. Without it, there is really not much else to do other than read a good book and get a good lay.

If only we can have an Internet break once in a while. Imagine what it could do to our moods. Imaging what it could do to our terribly low birth rates. Our minds and bodies need to be freed from the clutches of technology once in a while so that we can keep in touch with our humanity and the things we humans need to do - one important thing being sex.

Missus Singapore out!

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SEX POSITION FOR THE WEEK #2

Crawl
Technically it's known as the crawl but most of us know affectionately refer to it as the Doggy. I especially like this position provided the guy knows what he is doing. I'm not referring so much as to the penetration but more about knowing how his women is constructed.

No two women are alike and their vaginal passages could be tilted upwards or downwards in which case how a guy positions himself is important. In fact a urologist once told me that some women, though rare, have their passages tilted sideways!

Anyway, if the guys is not particularly long, then it won't be so much of an issue but if he is, then go slow initially and watch how a woman reacts to every gentle thrust. Once you know it, its easily and more comfortable to her if you increase your intensity of thrusts.

The other important thing is where you place your hands. Many men always push down on your butt. If its gentle, that's fine but most of the time they push it downwards and lose sense of just how hard they push. As a result, a woman's knees would tend to buckle or she would have to resist falling on her tummy - so the focus is not on feeling good but on preventing herself from falling.

I like it when a man places his hand gently at the edge of my pelvic bone and support my body when he thrusts into me. Or perhaps play with and hold on to my tits as he does his thing. If I'm comfortable and have my mind free, I'll reciprocate by pushing back into him as he thrusts. It's very much like a rhythmic effect - moving in unison.

Another variation of the crawl is to do it at the edge of the bed with the man standing. It's more intense as he has a grip with his feet instead of the soft bed. You could also try in on a chair for similar effect.

Enjoy the crawl this week!

Missus Singapore out!

PS: With regards to last week's position - Astride - or Woman on top, I just loved it and its always something I like to do. Perhaps I also get off watching the guy squirm with my every movement.

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SEX Parties March 1 - 7

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