I've always joked with my significant other about something he told me about pleasing women in bed. This was when we were much younger - let's just say when shoulder pads were cool.
He told me that by telling a woman that he loved the way her pussy looked, she would subconsciously be drawn to the man more. He did that to me too - in a tasty manner of course but at the time, I just thought it was his way of saying 'Baby spread them up, here I come!' or something along those lines.
Of course I also didn't know any better then. Besides, I have to admit that as a horny young thing, it didn't take much to get me embroiled in a one-night-stand.
So back to the privates talk.
So he claimed that he always got women coming back for seconds and thirds.
So you can imaging my astonishment when I actually came across an article about s study published by the International Journal of Sexual Health that revealed how women whose genitals receive positive praise from their sexual partners during or after sex, are more likely to be drawn to the man behind those comments.
There's more.
According to the study, this creates a positive attitude about their privates and thus allows them to enjoy sex more and reach orgasm more easily.
I suppose it has to be with self-confidence and the ability to relax a lot more when you are 'visually acceptable' to your mate. So considering that the hubby made that comment decades before this study emerged, I'd give the bugger some credit for it. Now I know why his past lovers who we bump into on the street are always eager to meet up for a drink (READ: Reminisce old vulva tales).
So the message here is this - if you want to get a woman to feel good in bed with you, praise her vulva. She may come back for seconds. But the thing is, don't do it before you've even seen it in the hope of getting her all aroused. I doubt if it works that way. You might not get any at all. Be vulva smart!
Missus Singapore out!
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