RIDING HIGH

A friend emailed this article about how a girl in China was arrested for having an orgasm while riding her bicycle. There are just so many questions like is it illegal to cum in public, never mind on a bicycle, even if you are clothed? Was it a bumpy road? Did she have a dildo in her?

Check out this week's video. Whatever it is, I am going to get myself a bike like hers. 

Missus Singapore out!

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G-SHOCK!

Well if is a recent study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine is verified, this whole idea of the G-spot has just been one big myth.

In this particular study, 1,8000 women apparently were observed during a series of tests and no conclusive evidence pointed to the existence of this mythical spot that supposedly lies in the upper front wall (2.5-5cm in).

Of course you would expect all those self-proclaimed women pleasers and sex therapist to come out and argue otherwise. Interesting debates lie ahead.

As for me, I never bought it from my personal experiences and countless discussions with women and girlfriends. Some swore by it, others remain clueless. However, what I can tell you is that most of them admit there are some spots in and around the said region that sends them up to the clouds.

For me, it's more on the outside. A woman I know claims it lies on the lower wall. So it varies all over the place. I feel that every woman has that O-spot - one that can get them off with proper stimulation.

The key word here is 'proper' because even if you find the spot, how you work on it is going to make a big difference.

Missus Singapore out!

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WHAT WOMEN WANT

So, alas you know know what women want? But serious for me, I prefer the deed. I'm not too hung up on something that money can buy. I go for the priceless stuff.

Missus Singapore out!

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SEX ACCORDING TO THE EXPERTS

I was reading who whole stack of research on sexology (by clinical sexologists) passed on to me by a friend and was left feeling really stupid for them. By and large, they are making announcements that the man-on-the-street would probably already know. Nothing new really.

One of them claims to have found out that a woman touches you the way she wants to be touched. Duh?

Now if a woman begins to gently run her fingers over your body does she really expect you to start slapping her butt or pulling her hair to position her mouth where you want to? Come on. I mean there probably is some guy out there like that but most of them know better?

I agree that a woman tends to set the tone for sex - either she wants it rough and wild or soft and passionate. If ever in doubt, start out slow and you can take it from there to see how robust she wants it.

But then again, if she is already sinking her fingernails into your back whilst rubbing up against you in the lift to your apartment, you can pretty much figure out that she expects a sweaty encounter el pronto.

Looking for her signs to know you are heading in the right direction for her to orgasm? Yeah, I agree that helps but they talk about looking at the colour of her clitoris and labia. The problem with these PhDs is that they obviously don't realise that its not exactly well illuminated down south.

Besides, another study I read found that 76% of people are most comfortable having sex in the dark! These guys are too technical.

Another says that her pupils will dilate. Are you kidding me? In the throngs of ecstasy, I've never heard of a woman opening her eyes for you to look at them. And if its all dark - it's not exactly easy to see them unless you stick your face up close to do so.

It's more accurate to observe her breathing, toe-curling, hand grabbing, moistness and contractions (you can feel it by placing your hand over her abdominal area). And you won't need any light to figure this.

So if you really want to know more about pleasing a woman, it is always going to be easier to do it hands-on. Learn as you play, as I always say. Anyway, sex is a natural part of us and sooner or later, there is a high probability that we will unleash what we all have imbedded in us - our sexual instinct.

Even Homer has been known to be an animal in bed, if Marge is to be believed.

Missus Singapore out!

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SEX BITS

The most number of orgasms enjoyed by a woman in 1 hour was a shattering 134.

A 47-year old Scandanavian woman was recorded in April 2003, to have had these orgasms in front of three people - a reporter, a medical technologist and her husband. She had brought herself off by using a typical vibrator.

In one hour? I'd probably have three over the hour, but 134? I think I'd comatose. I know of women who are fortunate enough to enjoy multiple orgasms but no one comes close to this. This had me thinking if such reports are real to begin with.

If it is to be believed, she would have had about two orgasms ever minute or an orgasm ever 30secs. Come on! Honestly!

But let's give her the benefit of the doubt.

More importantly for us women, the big question is how 'typical' is her vibrator because it has got to be something else.

Missus Singapore out!

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