A WOMAN'S WAY

A 34-year old man writes in, "I just can't seem to understand my wife. Sometimes she is so much in the mood for sex that at times she even jumps me but at other times, when I do the same to her, she pulls away. Women are weird."

Tomas, from Spain.

MS: Well, Tomas, she is not weird. She is just  being a woman. You have to understand that women are for most parts, cyclic creatures who are at the mercy of hormones. What is going on in her life at that point in time is also a contributing factor.

If you think that just because my blog centres on sexuality that I am humping all the time, well you are wrong. There are times that I just don't feel in the mood. I mean it could be to the extent that I'd probably go for a root canal than have sex. Okay, maybe that's a bit exaggerated but you get the idea.

Women do get bored easily too, especially when its the same song and dance routine. So you need to take some time to understand your woman. Hang out together without any pressure on sex to get to know each other on different levels. That way you would probably be more in-tuned to her moods and if you are lucky enough, you might even discover the key to getting her in the mood. It really pays to take time to know your woman.

Missus Singapore out!

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GRAPE SEX ANYONE?

I've always found that two glasses of wine are just about right for me to get into the right mood. Anything more and the horniness is gradually replaced by sleepiness. Of course I'm talking about a good quality wine not some cheap $7 bottle.

I had this discussion with three other friends and while they had different limits, they seemed to agree (all except one). Strangely enough, it took fewer glasses to get high for the ones who could hold their liquor.

Then last week, I stumbled upon this little snippet in Woman's Day, about a research project in Florence, Italy. It revealed that women who drink one to two glasses of wine a day, have a higher sexual desire, not to mention, they also enjoy better lubrication. This was in comparison to women who are less frequent drinkers.

Apparently, (and I'm not trying to insult anyone's intelligence), blood gets to the important lower regions (duh). It also said that a third glass of wine may make you dozy and dry!

So remember, ladies, holding your liquor has nothing to do with feeling frisky. You want to drink to get into the mood not get moody and dry.

Missus Singapore out!

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