A GIFT TO EAT

This week's video features a Victoria's Secret collection of items that every woman dreams off - me included. It's Christmas time so if you are anything like my significant other, you ought to start your list going. Last minute shopping is madness in Singapore not to mention a totally frustrating exercise.

Get a gift which is appropriate for how well you know your woman. The closer your relationship, the more intimate the gift should be. But the thing about Christmas is that if you do get a gift wrong, there is a good chance you will be forgiven. But if you should go wrong, go wrong in a good way.

Any gift from Victoria's Secret for instance, is likely to be accepted with a big grin even if it is not appropriate for the relationship you have with your woman. Perhaps the most inappropriate gift I ever had was from a guy friend who gave me edible undies. If you figure something from VS is a little too personal for your woman or if you want to give her something to eat, for heaven's sake, make sure its chocolates!

Missus Singapore out!

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One Party Host that doesn't like my blog

So, the EROS party host is even more of a prick than I'd heard -- now he's sending me threats. What an asshole. He asked me to remove his party from my blog (a party he is advertising on the VERY public Adam4adam). Also, this week's party was at the city's most popular sex party location: the Gramercy Duplex. I offered to remove his email and any info he said was untrue, but clearly that was not good enough. I only added the party because dudes kept asking me about it. Anyway, now I'm waiting for the dead horse head in a bed tomorrow morning, or maybe just a hacker. Check out his email to me...

"Evan, Adam4adam is a NEW approach to how we are recruiting.
Much to the dismay of some of the People that come to the parties ( A4A) has a HIGH flake rate, plus the publicity is not a GOOD thing.
as far as being posted:
We will ask NICELY one more time.
Because of some of the people who play at these parties...please CEASE and DESIST with posting EROS events ALONG with MY "personal" e-mail.
You are infringing on MY own privacy....I personally don't want my e-mail up there.
EROS events have been more "Word of Mouth" and that has worked just fine.
We do not need or want any other eyes to be looking in on EROS events.
So "Evan" ??
WE will ask nicely to "not be mentioned" or "associated" with your blog. List your parties and whatever...

Otherwise we have several tricks up our sleeve and can play a very NOT nice game.

Go ahead with fielding people who "want to know" about the events....they may not NEED to know, or EROS as an an event does not want them there.
I also HIGHLY Doubt anyone is asking YOU about the events.
Not to offend....BUT,
The people who play at the "private events" don't deal with SEX BLOGS or people who write them.

So once again...Please cease and Desist with mentioning EROS events with my own "personal" e-mail.

Thank you for understanding.
EROS"

What made me laugh was after threatening me, he writes: "Thanks for understanding." What an asshole.




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WAIT!!! It continues. Here's the latest...

"Evan?

I have been nice to you?
It's no wonder there is an amount on your HEAD and your blog.
You have a rude awaking coming next year SIR.
Niceity's aside.
EROS attracts POWERFUL men, not the twinks and muscle boys that "XXXXXXX" (name removed) Feeds alcohol to "underage" Minors ( and then has images ALL over craigslists of his parties?)
then uses YOUR Blog ( evan?) to promote his "gatherings"
Watch your steps wisely
You are being watched by Higher authorities than me.
And when the AX comes down.
I don't want to get hit with the splatter...or be anywhere NEAR you when it happens.
That is what our "LAWYERS" have said.......
Don't say I didn't warn you.

EROS

As far as the parties sucking? Maybe....Lunch Parties are a new thing......And I know for a fact you have NOTHING to do with the "Private Events"
Behave a like a gentleman...or act like a brat your choice.
In "jail" they don't care what your story is...everyone has one."

I may go to their next party -- I've always wanted to meet Barry Diller, although I can't imagine why any POWERFUL man would climb the five flights to the Duplex. I'm sure they'd rather stay at the St. Regis.


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Well, guys, it goes on and on and on...

"Evan,

Dude...you talk WAY too much.
Your blog is an ACCOMPLICE to what he is FACILITATING.
Making you an ACCOMPLICE. I personally KNOW that you are NOT XXXX ( ...but that doesn't mean that you are NOT on his payroll)
The D.A.'s office and the CDC are looking in at you BOTH....among others?
Particularly after your little business venture was posted ONTO craigslist..... with pics from the parties...and a few of the boys who you invited were not only UNDER age, they were drinking...and there parents were NOT happy.
Be careful.
EROS does NOT care to be associated with EITHER of you.

SO Please Cease and Desist Posting anything about EROS events on your BIAS blog.
You are NOT the Godfathers of SEX.
Hot sex is not how someone LOOKS but how they behave.

I am not threatening you that is NOT my style...I am warning you...you need to smarten up and realize the difference.

EROS
Good luck in jail"


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and more...

"I have no idea who Barry Diller is?"


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and, finally, the last (I guess he discovered Google)...

"LOL...I take that back...Barry is not associated with EROS...but one can hope.
If you know him...it will be interesting to see how quickly he forgets who you are once you're MADE public, with the D.A.'s office AND the Center For Disease Control..
Warning you seems to do nothing...
You've pissed off the parents of one boy who attended and his father is a State Senator.....
Good luck."

ANYWAY -- guys, guys, guys -- life is too short, and I'm tired of the endless insane email threats --- man, it's all about having fun, and I'm NOT having fun. I WILL NOT POST about this party EVER, nor will I ever go to the EROS party. I want NOTHING to do with this host, and if you do, you'll have to find out about it on your own. All I can ask is WHY? There are tons of cool parties, you don't need this in your life.

ALSO -- I apologize to the guy who runs the Gramercy Duplex -- you don't need this craziness in your life. Sorry man -- your job is hard and crazy enough without this shit.

Lastly, I am NOT on anyone's payroll. I have NEVER been comped at any party -- I pay like everyone else -- I do this because I like sex parties -- that's it guys. Lastly, all the pics I post are from ponr movies and sex sites, not any of these parties listed. I thought that was obvious. Nite.

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FOR THE BOOB-LOVING MAN

With Christmas around the corner and still with no idea what to get your man, here are five gift ideas, if he is a boob-loving sort of guy. Chances are he is, like about 99.9% of men!

#1: Boob Soap Dispenser

#2: Boob Coffee Mug

#3: Boob Salt & Pepper Container

#4: Boob Radio

#5: Boob Job

Missus Singapore out!

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MS ADVISORY

Here is this month's sex advisory. It is a self-explanatory poster sent in my Marcel who helps run an AIDS Awareness Group in Holland. He started out helping the organisation as a volunteer in 1998 when a friend he knew succumbed to the disease a year earlier. Since then, he has become a full-time staff.

He is open about being gay and admits that even he thought at the time it was a gays-only disease. Ever since he joined the organisation, he has been seeing an increasing number of heterosexuals with AIDS coming in for counselling. According to him, figures show that it has surpassed the growth rates amongst the gay community.

Thanks for sharing this Marcel.

Missus Singapore out!

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TAKING A SEX VACATION

I received an interesting email from a reader the other day. She was telling me how she had spent months coming out from a devastating break-up until she decided to have a one-night stand.

She wrote, "It was instantaneous, the healing. For months I had sat on my butt crying my eyes out but then I decided to have sex on the spur of the moment with someone whom I knew for ages, but never forged any physical attraction with. We were friends and we still are friends but he had healed me because the next day, I felt that my system was re-booted and I could function once again, at work and socially. It was like a sex vacation - and a very revitalizing one!"

MS: I think she hit the nail on the head when she talked about re-booting her system. However, I don't think it will work for everyone. In fact for others, it may just make things worse by complicating your emotional state of mind.

But that is just mankind's resilience - to find ways to get out of the rut. I do however think that doing something different, getting out of your comfort zone will help. Doing things you associate with your ex will definitely not be productive. Get out, do something different and if it is a one-night stand, hey, who am I to judge.

Missus Singapore out!

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SURPRISE STALKER

My friend Rasheda called me a few weeks ago and as we were talking, she revealed that she had been stalked for the past two or so months. On random nights, after she had finished work, she would notice the same figure following her as she got down from the bus near her place in Clemenceau Avenue, off Orchard Road.

Three months earlier, she had moved in with her Danish lover who rented an apartment there. Not long after doing so, this episode began. Since he was travelling a lot, she was on most occasions, left on her own, which didn't quite mind.

So I offered to get my significant other's opinion since he is somewhat of a stalker himself, in the journalistic sense at least. So on three separate occasions, we decided to plan a surprise trap for Rasheda's stalker. The first two drew a blank but yesterday, we hit the jackpot.

We knew where she would alight and stood at a bus-stop across the road from her to observe the proceedings. True enough, what seemed like a very short guy emerged from a pillar and began to follow her. If he wanted to be discrete, he certainly failed big time because it was past dusk and yet he spotted a pair of sunglasses!

So we communicated with her via her hands-free and told her exactly what to do and where to go as we tagged along. At a near-by park, we abushed the stalker and I pulled off the cap he had on. To our surprise, long hair rolled down revealing that it was in fact a she who was tagging Rasheda.

Rasheda recognised her immediately. It was her Danish boyfriend's old girlfriend! It was kind of an anti-climax for us really, after all the cloak and dagger preparation. They certainly had lots to discuss and excused themselves for a private discussion over coffee. Rasheda promised to update me over the next few days. Will update you when I know more.

Anyway, not wanting to waste a clear night (it's the wet season in case you didn't know) in an almost empty park, what else was there to do? We messed around for some. Alas, the night was not wasted.

Missus Singapore out!

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WEIRD ARRIVAL

Here is one more arrival to MS for the week. Not particularly odd but interesting nonetheless. Funny how some words just manage to bring surfers to MS but it does give me the opportunity to iron things out.

The keywords used were "What is the right ways to f*&K a MILF"

MS: Well there is no right way or wrong way! Anyway will do as long as you do it to her. LOL!

But seriously, the concept or phenomenon of an MILF has been rather blurred by wrong interpretations. Being a MILF does not mean you are 'loose' by any measure of the word. It simply means that she is a hot and appealing matured woman whom you fancy sharing a bed with.

I've found over the years that while it is easy to look your best (without much effort) when a woman is young, the challenge is keeping your looks and figure or maintaining them as you grow older. But a true blue MILF has to, well, be a mother too. This means she would have to have gone through the rigors of childbirth. Being an older woman without that does not qualify you to be labeled a MILF.

I remember some years back here in Singapore. A former Miss Singapore winner got married and took part in a Mrs Singapore competition two years later after getting hitched. She easily beat the other women who were considerably older and had children. Essentially, there was not much difference in how she appeared in the physical sense. So there was no need for her to work her body into shape.

But whether or not a MILF is up to being promiscuous, that is really up to her. In that sense, she is no different from any other woman who has such a lifestyle.

Missus Singapore out!

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