EGO-BOOSTING MEN'S ROOM

This is really the kind of washroom men will tend to visit more often, especially the ones who are modestly endowed. I think it's really a novel concept - if you want men to pee more often.

Some time back, many washrooms in Singapore (a few still do) charged 10 or 20 cents per entry. If this is the case then I am guessing this one will rake in the big bucks in no time.

I think it's about time they did something to spruce up some of the men's washrooms. A few male friends of mine constantly complain about the dullness within. Once, a few of them actually brought me into one to prove their point - and this was in the lobby of a major hotel.

I went in, looked around and although it was clean, it was really nothing like some of the women's washrooms around town. We've got a sofa in one, a powder area, a few slick chairs and even a range of dispensers of all types of tissues. I remember one even had a face blotter for oily skin.

But seriously, do guys really need that kinda stuff? I really thing all they really need is their urinal wall dressed up like in the photo and they will be happy!

Missus Singapore out!

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GIRLS' NITE IN

Some girlfriends got together at my place the other night and since our last get together, we definitely had some some serious catching up to do. We have not met up for almost six months, no thanks to our clashing schedules.

So when one of them called up, I immediately suggested coming over to my place since I told them about my intention to cut down on pubbing from April onwards. They agreed. Rita brought a bottle of Black Label, Anne - a half bottle of tequila, Sharon - a small bottle of gin and I threw in what ever I had left of my vodka.

It was a rare occasion when all of their hubbies were out of town. Of course mine was out too with his press club buddies plus the kids were staying out till late.

So essentially we had the whole house to ourselves. Awesome!

After the customary bitching about work, Rita, who had since our last meeting, completed her second grade in erotic dancing, decided to show off her new skills. Gosh she was really great and nimble and at 37, she is one hot momma.

Of course we all were left envious and demanded that she teach us some moves, which she did. It was hilarious and after a broken glass, some snapped pieces of cane decor, and a dirty footprint on my newly painted wall, we were rearing to go.

By that time, with liquor as sustenance, you would expect things to tone down but on the contrary. Sharon, who was the youngest among us at 35, was also the loudest and she definitely announced herself to my neighbours because the cops came a-knocking around 1.30am.

You should have seen the looks on their faces when we opened the door. Instead of finding a group of teenager girls, they found us four adult women, all high and sweaty (from the dance lessons)!

They even slipped off a smile as they told us to keep the din down. We all had a good laugh.

So we decided to tone down our activities and as you would expect, get down to some serious sex talk. We touched on a lot of things and one of the interesting subjects that came up was how often we all got laid.

Anne who is the most recently married says she gets it three times a week. Sharon has it twice a month while Anne had to put in a lot of thought to come up with New Year's Eve as the last time she had a roll in the hay with her hubby of 10 years. I was a little taken back. I mean these are all hot women mind you, trim and fit, especially Anne who had tits with their own zip code.

I was a little embarrassed to say how many times I had sex a week for fear of upsetting them. So I lied and said five times a week. Still they were all going "WOW, woman, you're such a horny bitch!"

They wanted to know what my secret was, and honestly, so did I because I made no secret that I love sex and always have. To me, its a full workout like playing tennis. It's just that I do it everyday, sometimes a few times a day. It's not like I have no deadlines to meet because I do but I make it a point that if something is important to me, I will go as far out as I reasonably can to get it.

So once I get my thoughts clear, I'll definitely be posting what we spoke about in detail. Look out for that.

It's really important to chill out with girlfriends once in a while. It really is. In today's world of mess and stress at the workplace, the responsibilities of being a wife, mother, daughter, daughter-in-law don't often help. So we need to take time out to spend moments with others like us to offload - it has the same effect as rebooting a computer. We need that too.

Missus Singapore out!

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SEX BITS

A Russian woman has set a new world record, lifting a 14-kg. glass ball with her vagina muscles. Tatiata Kozhevnikova of Novosibirsk, aged 42, has been exercising her intimate muscles for fifteen years, and has already made her entrance into the Guinness Book of Records as the possessor of the world’s strongest vagina, she proudly told Life.ru.

“After I had a child, my intimate muscles got unbelievably weak. I read books on Dao and learned that ancient women used to deal with this problem using wooden balls,” she said. “I looked around, saw a Murano glass ball and inserted it in my vagina. It took me ages to get it out!”

The embarrassing first experience did not scare Tatiana off. She developed quite a taste for vagina fitness, and now she has her exercising balls custom-made.

“You insert one of the balls in your vagina, and it has a string attached to it with a little hook at the very end. You fix a second ball onto this hook.”

The Russian recommends vaginal exercises to all women who want to improve their sex life.

MS: Can someone verify if these sort of things are really recorded? If this is true, then I doubt if any of her lovers are still alive to confirm her abilities. I can just hear all the men reading this and screaming out in pain. This gives a whole new meaning to squeezing every drop out! Now to get myself some glass balls!

Missus Singapore out!

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ASK THE BOLDER WOMAN

Q: Why won't she masturbate in front of me as part of foreplay?

MS: It’s probably because she might feel a little self-conscious if she were to do it while you sit and watch. It is pretty normal since masturbation is by-and-large, a private indulgence. Some women actually masturbate before their partner comes over to get their juices flowing.

Has it occurred to you that maybe it could be that she simply prefers the real thing? Perhaps her not wanting to masturbate when you are before her could also be a vote-of-confidence of your sexual prowess.

Accept it, celebrate the attention she gives you and don’t complain too much. Remember this: It is not difficult these days for a woman to find a sex toy that is more dependable and satisfying than what any man has to offer.

Also, when you grow more comfortable with each other, her exhibitionist tendencies may emerge. Don't bother too much about it.

Missus Singapore out!

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SKINNY DIPPING SHOW

I remember almost 15 years ago, a friend of mine and her then boyfriend were fined for skinny dipping in a condominium pool here in Singapore. They subsequently paid the fine and that was the end of it.

If that were to happen today, chances are the fine would be the least of their problems. With digital technology packed away in everyone's pocket these days, you will probably find your photos splashed all over the local forums.

Singapore is small and in a world that has grown smaller over the years, you can imagine how familiar your faces would appear to Singaporeans. Which is why I always believe that if you can stay out of a scandal in Singapore, despite your promiscuous habits, you can make it anywhere in the world.

As the video shows, you can never be too careful these days. Being spontaneous is one thing but you also have to be careful when you play.

This video was sent in by Yong, who hails from our northern neighbour, Malaysia. Thanks for all your kind words and I hope to use some of the other videos you sent in later. You will get your 'reward' when you decide to visit.

Missus Singapore out!

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Best Party of the week: April 7

Best Party of the week of April 5, is hands down NEW YORK BY NIGHT...the party is filled with HOT guys, little attitude, no pressure, very clean, safe social, and always fun. And BEST no guys just standing around -- it's full of HOT HOT SEX. There is booze and a shower when you're done.

If you don't believe me, check out what Next Magazine said....

"NEXT"MAGAZINE: New York By Night Party(NYBN) Where: Garment District When: Once a month, usually wednesday starting at 8:30pm Number of Guys: About 80 While the vetting process for an invitation isa telephone and pre-party, in-person interview with host Richard may seem like a bit much, it really helps add to the social and inclusive atmosphere of the party. Held in a large loft apartment and attended mostly by handsome men over thirty and a few hot young bucks, the party invokes a sense of camaraderie that is rare at these sorts of soirees. People socialize before and after the action (and during rests) and the play tends to include a number of people rather than pairs heading off into their separate corners. This makes New York By Night the closest thing there is to an actual orgy, but you wouldn't think that giving the friendly and social atmosphere.

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NEW YORK BY NIGHT (Midtown West) Great party in large loft with sofas. Good mix of guys from hot to average 20-40 YOs (no one over 45). This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very safe a clean atmosphere, no attitude. 70-90 guys attend (March party had 85 guys), once a month, 8pm-12am. (Don’t let the initial process: phone call and interview (just before the party) bother you - it's all cool and makes for a good crowd.) $25 donation. Check out this feature on them in Next Magazine...http://tinyurl.com/yew8her
*Send pics, Stats to: RBN33@MSN.com.

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Sex Parties April 5 - April 11

Sex Parties April 5 - April 11

*** PICK OF THE WEEK: NEW YORK BY NIGHT on Wednesday***

Monday...
JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) Our "MARCH FULL PINK MOON PARTY" at "Paddles" -- doors 7:00pm to Midnight, goes 'til 2am; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. The party is back on: sometimes 3 nights next week. http://www.jacksofcolor.com/

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s) In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from incredibly hot guys to very average dudes. The host is a big guy, can be too much for some. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20- mostly 30- some 40 YOs. Have parties at random, but often Mondays. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. Most parties are filled with guys having sex one-one-one or threesomes. At MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. FREE. *Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com

HotParties 2006 (Times Square). Hot Easter Sunday Party 2010, 6 PM to 12AM. Held in a private 2-floor studio; Early Special : $15 from 6:00PM to 8:00PM; $22 from 8:00 PM to Midnight FOR INVITE: hotparties2006@verizon.net , hotparties4u2006@verizon.net ultrahotparties2006@verizon.net, or hotparties2006@msn.com

Tuesday...

THE PEAK PARTY (West Village). Held in a private apartment. 8pm-1am. SAFE SEX ONLY. $20 (half price the first time). Contact Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Sunday and Tuesday Parties at "Paddles"; 25 donation. http://www.nyjacks.com/

Wednesday...
NEW YORK BY NIGHT (Midtown West) Great party in large loft with sofas. Good mix of guys from hot to average 20-40 YOs (no one over 45). This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very safe a clean atmosphere, no attitude. 70-90 guys attend (March party had 85 guys), once a month, 8pm-12am. (Don’t let the initial process: phone call and interview (just before the party) bother you - it's all cool and makes for a good crowd.) $25 donation. Check out this feature on them in Next Magazine...http://tinyurl.com/yew8her
*Send pics, Stats to: RBN33@MSN.com.

CUMMONKEY/GRAB ASS PARTY (Chelsea) Held at Paddles, a dungeon-like party space. Usually 30-50 guys attend, 25 to 55 height/weight proportionate. "All body types, extremely friendly group with a bit of something for everyone." Every Wednesday, 8pm-3am. If you arrive from 8pm to 9pm, admission is $20.00 plus $2.00 clothing check. If you arrive after 9pm to 1am, admission is 25.00 plus 2.00 clothing check. (I haven't been in a while: but I hear attendance is down, and so is the quality of guys). For more information, check out: http://cummonkey.com/. For invitation: send a pic and stats to hunteur@verizon.net.

FOREVER FISTING PARTY: Open door policy, every 2nd Wednesday at "Chelsea Space" – Contact Cain at MasterCainB@yahoo.com

WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills) The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in pvt 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am.
Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com

Thursday...

DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Financial District). Held in a clean studio apartment in a doorman building near Rector Subway stop). Motto: Sex Party for All Men - No Attitude, Friendly Environment; Average to Hot guys ages 20's - 40's+; Doors open 8pm - 10pm (open until midnight); $20 donations. The new revamped parties have been hot -- lots of muscular and lean guys, and some average guys. Mostly oral, some fucking. The host is a great guy. One of the better average parties.
NOTE: THEY ALSO HAVE A LUNCH-TIME PARTIES (on Friday).
EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com

THE ERUPTION PARTY (West Willage). An open door policy party from the guy who brings you THE XTUBE PARTY. Does not insist on safe sex - lots to bb. Held in a private apartment. 8pm-1am. donation requested. Send pics and stats to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

GANG FUCK PARTY (Grammercy). Never been to this one. They claim a restricted door policy. Doors open at 8... play till 1am...space is a very cool top floor duplex... They claim: hot guys only, restricted door policy, clothescheck...$20... usually get about 60 to 75 very fun guys.For Invite send stats and Pics: sweatyjocknyc@yahoo.com

DARRELL’S DUNGEON (Chelsea). Leather, Military or Less. All Male, All Colors, Anything Goes…First Thursdays, starting January 7, 2010 (8PM-3AM). Held at PADDLES (w26). For more information, check out: www.darrellsdungeon.mobi. For invitation, send stats and pics to darrell@darrellsdungeon.com

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) This party is held in a private apartment; Thursday, 6PM-MIDNIGHT, or Fridays, 8PM to 3AM; $15 donation. Refreshments and snacks provided For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) "WINTER FLING PARTY" at "Chelsea Space" -- doors 7 pm to 1 am, goes 'til 3am. A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. Sometimes 3 nights next week. http://www.jacksofcolor.com/

Friday...

DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY -- LUNCH-TIME PARTY (Financial District). Held in a clean studio apartment in a doorman building near Rector Subway stop). Motto: Sex Party for All Men - No Attitude, Friendly Environment; Average to Hot guys ages 20's - 40's+; Doors open 12pm-2pm (open until midnight); $20 donations. The new revamped parties have been hot -- lots of muscular and lean guys, and some average guys. Mostly oral, some fucking. The host is a great guy. One of the better average parties.
EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com

HARDCORE (Gramercy) -- Formerly THE OLYMPUS PARTY. If you like HUGE PARTIES – this is it. Penthouse duplex complete with themed rooms, sling, and a "Sky Box" viewing gallery overlooking all the action below, everyone is naked (no underwear allowed). This is a HUGE, HUGE party--100-150 guys (can hold 200). According to the host…this is INTENTIONALLY not one of those "hot jock perfect only bodies parties" where everyone stands around and give one another attitude, competing amongst themselves…this party is intended to be a mix, where average guys can interact and have fun with the hot ones, a chance for everyone to enjoy the space and experience the night without judgment and attitude, making it unique and memorable......and they do enjoy it, very much, except for the occasional person who arrives expecting a "Colt" event. Every Friday: 9pm-3am. $20 donation to get in. The guy who runs this also runs Testosterone, Raw Pork, and Metropolis. In my experience, it's a very mixed crowd--too many out-of-shape/older guys for my taste with only a few hot guys there), There is no attitude, but way too much BB (unfortunately safe sex is not required), and the place is TOO DARK (put some lights on). *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net (Be SURE to him EVAN sent you).

GALLERY OF MEN (Times Square) every two weeks, 20s - 40s mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. Filled with 99% old, out-of-shape, gross guys. $20 admission first hour, $25 after that. 9PM-3AM.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, held every Friday (12midnight. its a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. $15 http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

Saturday...

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Park Slope) Just moved to Brooklyn. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. $25 donation. 10pm-5am.nyjockparty@yahoo.com

HOT BODY UNDERWEAR PARTY (East Village) 11pm – 3:30am/ $20. Held at a hot lounge feel with a bar, lounge sofas, flat screen for oh-so-hot porn and a draped off “BlackOut Room” that you guys seem to love so much. (Not to offend anyone but only fit, athletic, muscular MEN age 21-45 will be admitted to the party. Please do not force our staff to turn you away at the door. To be clear – our party is not for Bears, large build or over-weight guys.)
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@yahoo.com

SOS: SEX ON SATURDAYS (Grammercy) --- Was "Sex on Sundays" and formerly "Buttlickers" Now held in the E20s -- in HUGE beautiful duplex apt (same space as Olympus). Orgy every Saturday, . Unfortunately --the have an open door policy and let in ANYBODY -- so the place is FILLED with overweight and really old flabby guys. Possible the most disgusting party I've ever attended. If you are desperate for sex with anyone (or get off with gross old guys -- GO; if you have ANY self esteem, and have ever been to the gym (ever) then SKIP THIS ONE. I often get off on sex with old dudes, but these are NOT hot. Also, they will host the occasional Saturday night party. Charge is $25 for in and out access 9pm till 3AM. Email for invite: nybutt@yahoo.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, held every Sat (12midnight-7am). its a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. $15 http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

Sunday…
NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Sunday Parties at "Paddles"; 25 donation. http://www.nyjacks.com/

JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) "DAYLIGHT SAVINGS PARTY" at "Chelsea Space" -- doors 6 pm to Midnight, goes 'til 2am; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. The party is back on: sometimes 3 nights next week. http://www.jacksofcolor.com/

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, held every Sunday (9pm-3am). its a safe and clean place. lots of space: two floor. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. $15 http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

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