They were both asking why some threesomes are so fun and others just uneventful - for lack of a better word. Well, personally for me, a threesome is not different in a regular one-on-one session. Without chemistry, it just won't work out well.
It's after all not unlike any other social get-together. I've had my fair share too in the past but I've come to realise that its equally important to get to know each other a little. I'm not suggesting opening up each other's family history book but at least spend enough time to get each other acquainted, even if it is at a superficial level.
I tend to initiate topics of conversation until I strike on one which brings both to common ground. It's like a facilitator-cum-initiator if you like. The guys are likely to converse through the woman and it is up to her to bring them together.
It seems like something so simple but it is not really so. Of course I am referring to the situation when both men don't know each other. If they are friends, hey, let's just get down to the nasty. And in case you were wondering, No, it's not just an Asian thing.
Even if the combination is different, say a FFM, the same thing applies. Trust me, the whole experience will be a whole lot more pleasant for everyone. But to be fair, with the same guys, the second time is always less awkward and definitely a lot more fun!
Missus Singapore out!
