Sad news about the host of THE HOT JOCK PARTY

Guys have been asking me why THE HOT JOCK PARTY was unexpectedly canceled on Sunday night. I am sorry to share the very sad news that Arron, the host of THE HOT JOCK PARTY, has died.

Arron was one of the best hosts to party with. The news of his death (and by the knowledge that it seems to have happened as a result of his own decision to end his life prematurely), has hit and anyone who knew him hard. Besides hosting the New York Jock Party for years, he was also the host of the recently started The Poz Jock Party. Arron's parties were always known for his keen eye for hot guys and wonderful eroticism. He will be greatly missed, and the void he leaves will be keenly felt.

The memorial service for Arron has already occurred, and his ashes have been scattered in the Hudson River per his request. If you would like to contribute to a cause in his honor, an AIDS Walk team has been formed in his name. Please let me know and I'll connect you with the sponsors.

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THE HOT JOCK PARTY review

Hey guys, unfortunately here's a disappointing review of THE HOT JOCK PARTY from Sunday...

"I went to the Hot Jock Party this past Sunday. The ad said that it would be a completely naked (no underwear) party. I arrived early and they had already abandoned that idea. There were some guys hanging out, talking to Aaron (the host) near the clothes check. When I went inside to the play area(s), only the downstairs was open and available; that was a bummer. The downstairs is very small, and unfortunately too close and open to the check-in/clothes check. There were maybe 6 large ottomans against the walls, not nearly enough space for anything fun to happen. When I entered there were about 12 guys hanging out, while the host and a handful of guys chatted loudly in the other room. Nothing was happening in the play area. An hour went by and about 15 more guys entered, and still no action. It was like we were next to the kitchen at a frat party. The Greek guy (no pun intended) that leases the place was also there and chatting away. There was a very weird energy in the air. I would have to say that if they close the upstairs, they might want to think about canceling the party all together. The space is just too open and I think it makes people feel uncomfortable. I left very early and unsatisfied. That isn't normal for me for that party."

He later added: "I only lasted until 7:45. Not sure how it was afterwards, but I couldn't stand waiting to see... I've never left that early before. I'm sure it picked up as long as people stayed and more came. My point really was that it usually gets going much earlier at that particular party if the guys show up. The guys did showed up, 20+ people before 7:15 is a lot of guys. The problem is that they weren't doing anything, just standing around, talking. I really believe it was a mixture of the space and the loud talking that delayed the sexual energy. Also, two other guys left when I did at 7:45. I'm not saying that I won't go again, just that Arron needs to think about how the space and his behavior effects the energy of the partiers."

Disappointing because this is always one of the hot parties. I was gonna go on Sunday, but there were a bunch of other parties that night and I decided to hit the NYJOCK PARTY & GBU party instead -- which is may explain why no one was at the HOT JOCK. But, it could be that it's too early (starts at 6pm) or too short (ends at 10pm).



ALSO GOT A REBUTTAL from another reader: "It's odd because many of the things that the other reviewed disliked about Sunday Hot Jock Party were what I viewed as its strengths. First, let's clarify the points of agreement: The space, with the blocked of spiral staircase, was a bit weird. It was also too cold, and the way the furniture was laid out was passing comprehension. I also could have used a bit more light, since I could never really tell what anyone's face looked like, and call me old fashioned, but I like to see a face before I kiss it. But the thing that I actually really liked about this party was the kitchen area, where people were congregating and hanging out a bit. The host is sweet, flirtatious and goes out of his way to make people feel comfortable. The guests that I hung out with in the kitchen all seemed very bright and social, and I appreciated that we could all just sort of hang out and chat. I guess the point of the party is not socializing, but this is what really set this party apart. It wasn't like the NYJP where a bunch of bitchy prima donnas stand around not talking and not fooling around. It wasn't like so many other parties you can't move two feet without someone trying to shove their hand up your asshole. It was funny, friendly, and sexy, but you could actually talk to people. Imagine that. You'd spend a bit of time chatting with your fellows and then you'd head into the back and get your swerve on. I met a couple people there that I would actually talk to if I saw them in public, which is basically never the case with these things. And for the record, the boys at this party were par excellance. They were just as good as the bitches that populate NYJP. Also, for the record, the sex was super hot, and I got off a couple times with absolutely beautiful men."

I still feel that the real problem to me is the space. The 1st floor of the duplex is too weird a space and doesn't have enough furniture to fuck on or even sit down. It's better when the upstairs is used too. But all that said, the party was much better when it was held in the hotel suite. The space was more contained and guys were forced to be on top of one another. Also hotel sex is always hot. Anyway -- don't give up on THE HOT JOCK PARTY, but I wish the hosts would be more careful when they all decide to have their parties on the same night.

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The TOP 7 Parties for HOT guys

Hey guys – readers are always asking me which are the HOTTEST parties. That’s easy – there are only a few – most of the parties suck, but these seven parties are always fun – and always filled with hot guys. That said – they are VERY different parties, so depending what you want – and how HOT you are…give them a shot…

THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Gramecy or Midtown East). Held in a studio space or hotel suite. Personally like the hotel vibe more (the Gramercy doesn’t really work for me). Has mostly guys in 30s, some hot 40YOs, and a few 20YOs. What I like best about the guys here – lots of big rough muscle guys. All types go: from average to muscle guys, and a few twinks, but the general feeling is muscle. Not a lot of attitude, which is cool – and this usually means some hot sex.. Easily one of the best parties -- and one of few that you get a good mix of hot guys and hot sex. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend.
* NEXT PARTY: Sunday, November 21

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square/Garment District) The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not always great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys. For a younger/hot crowd, although they have been letting some 40YO dudes in lately.
* NEXT PARTY: Sunday, November 28

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) To me the best mix of guys and sex. It’s also the most social sex party in New York. Held in large private loft apt. Also amazing is the mix guys: bunch of hot little twinks mix it up with jocks and muscle guys. A good mix of 20YOs-30YOs-40YOs (no one over 45). Usually 70-90 guys attend, often more. Also newbies: This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around – fucking, sucking – and all safe sex. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels.
*NEXT PARTY: Wednesday, December 1

UPPER WEST SIDE UNDERWEAR PARTY (UWS) Very hot, and although they’ve been on hiatus, it looks like they’ll be back soon, and more selective. This is a private apartment in a doorman building so discretion is a must. This is a private party so only the people who have been approved are invited. This is a fun atmosphere to chill hang out and play with hot guys. No obligation to participate if you don't want to. Have porn and lube and condoms as well. For a young/hot crowd.
* NEXT PARTY: coming soon.

PUMPNYC (Midtown). New party from the guy who brought you NYJOCK PARTY. Very select: There will be no more than 50 guys allowed into the party and you will only have three hours to enter. PUMPNYC is about quality not quantity. Includes: Bar. Snacks. Supplies.
* NEXT PARTY: coming soon.

COLLEGE WATER SPORTS KEGGER PARTY and GOLDEN BOYS USA (Brooklyn) Held in the basement space in a brownstone. Only accept guys who are in-shape, 18-30 years old. Have regular rooms and wet rooms (even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party). Average 75-120 guys attend. For a younger/hot crowd.
* NEXT PARTY: Saturday, January 8

HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn) 18-30yo ONLY. Usually 40-50 hot guys; *All lean in shape guys: No fats, chubs, dads, or bears. For a younger/hot crowd.
* NEXT PARTY: Fridays



Contact Information on how to get in…

THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Gramercy or Midtown East) 6-10pm. For a racially mixed younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square/Garment District) 10pm-4am. Door closes at 3. For a younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Held once a month, 8pm-12am. Just a warning: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). Guys, I know it sounds annoying – and can be -- but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex.)
*Send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

UPPER WEST SIDE UNDERWEAR PARTY (UWS) Doors open 10:30 to 12:30am, goes until everyone is satisfied. For a young/hot crowd.
To get in send pics and stats to underwearpartyuws@gmail.com.

PUMPNYC (Midtown). 9pm-2am; Door will close at midnight (You not be allowed in after so get there by then).
VERY HOT GUYS ONLY send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com.

COLLEGE WATER SPORTS KEGGER PARTY and GOLDEN BOYS USA (Brooklyn)
Email here ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com

HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn) Party runs 10PM- 4 AM.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotbrooklynparty@nyc.rr.com
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Review of Sunday's PRIVATE PARTY

Dudes, as my readers know, I'm always recommending PRIVATE PARTY, and this Sunday's party was great as usual. The next party is a few weeks away on Wednesday, December 1.

Here's a first-timers' rave about the party, and even the interview process. Check it out and see you on December 1. (And if you're not already on the list -- send the host an email now)...

"I was referred to your blogspot several months ago because I have always been curious about a gay group sex party. Although you had all the information that I needed I was very unsure about how to proceed. I am a handsome, worked-out,ivy-league educated attorney with no interest in rec drugs and only interested in safer sex.I was uncomfortable about sending pictures let alone an interview to join a group but I also thought that the "open" parties could not be what I would want. Last week I finally contacted the host of Private.Party,since you suggested this party is best for the uninitiated. I am not sure what I expected but I ended up with an amazing explanation of the gay-life history of this guy, which led to him creating these parties. After the why's, he explained the party and procedures in detail.We then talked a bit about me.I was happy that he repeatedly stressed safe-sex and drug free. He claimed that these parties were also very friendly and social with good looking career-oriented guys. He was open to all my questions which were ,I now admit, a bit snarky.That call was an interesting and pleasant experience. But I was still not sure that I was willing to "interview" and not convinced that this was exactly what he claimed it to be. But IT WAS! I went on Sunday night,admittedly with a chip on my shoulder about having to interview in person. I was greeted warmly at the door by the host and offered a drink and made to feel very comfortable before it was my turn. Moments later I am having a naked chat with 3 charming gentlemen ,who made me feel so at ease and sooo eager to be part of this group. The rest of the men interviewing seemed similar in age and stats to me but 2 were turned down for some reason. The venue is large but not huge, clean and nice and well-lit ,which was important to me.Refreshments were plentiful and all other needs in large supply.Members started to arrive at 8 and by 8:30 it seemed very active---I was a kid in a candy store . Everywhere around me were truly attractive guys talking , laughing, catching up and having more sex than I actually thought one could handle in a few hours. It was all so inclusive--I did not realize that you could have a large group of gay men in one room and not be overwhelmed with attitude and airs. The rest was a blur of more fun than I have had since college. I left with phone numbers, e mails and ,I think, a handful of new friends. I am sorry that there is a month gap between his events. So,chastised and educated ,I learned that if you submit to a screening and interview you will be part of a group that knows how to interact socially, sexually and safely. They did a great job. It seemed like everyone had all kinds of fun.
I noted the next few of these parties and will eagerly return on Dec. 1 .But now,Evan,am spoiled and all else will be downhill in the group sex circuit? I am going to try some others but I am not sure that I can handle more fun than I had last night. Thank you,Evan, for helping us all thru this daunting maze of groups and parties."





Anyway, guys are always asking me for other parties like this one -- there aren't any. PRIVATE PARTY is safe, clean, very social, and filled with HOT guys, who are into hot sex. Guys complain to me about the interview process, but without it the party would be like the others -- filled with the wrong guys. Here's the info on how to get into the next party on Wednesday, December 1...

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Great social sex party in large private loft apt held once a month, 8pm-12am.. Great mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45) -- 70-90 guys attend (last few parties had 85, 97 & 100+). This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. Just a warning: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). Guys, I know it sounds annoying – and can be -- but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex.)
*Send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.
NEXT PARTY: WED.DEC.1

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THE HOT JOCK PARTY this THURSDAY

Just heard that there's a THE HOT JOCK PARTY this THURSDAY -- definitely one of my favorite parties.

Here's the info...

THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Midtown East) 7-11pm. Held in a hotel suite -- has guys in mostly 20s -30s-hot 40YOs. It's above average to hot muscle guys, and twinks. Not a lot of attitude. Usually hot sex, and a fun mix of guys. Easily one of the best parties -- and one of few that you get a good mix of hot guys and hot sex. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend. For a racially mixed younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

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THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Thurs Night) -- Don't Miss It!

One of my favorite parties is Thursday night -- THE HOT JOCK PARTY,which is now held in a HUGE apartment in Gramercy. It's this Thursday night (7-11pm). Don't miss it -- guys in mostly 20s -30s, some hot 40s, all races, and in great shape -- it's above average to hot muscle guys, and twinks.

Not a lot of attitude. Some hot sex, and a good mix of guys. Easy one of the best parties -- and one of few that you get a good mix of guys and sex. Last Thursday's party was amazing -- some very hot guys -- a great mix of white, black and latino guys. Some great fucking and sucking going on. I'm definitely going back this week. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend. $25 donation. For a mixed younger/hot crowd ONLY. See you there!

TO GET IN, Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

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