TAKE IT SLOW

I had the conversation the other day with two younger women I met during a press conference. We had met before and we really got along. So one was talking about how she always has to get hey guy off so quickly. The other readily agreed but I didn't.

I explained that more often than not, guys want to wait as long as they possibly can to ejaculate. Women need to know what they are thinking and not make quick judgments based on an erect and throbbing penis. This is assuming of course that we are not talking about a quickie.

For a man, the longer they wait, the better the payoff because when the momentum is built over time, they tend to enjoy a more intense climax. While it is difficult for most men to hold back when they are fully aroused, it is to no one's advantage when a woman assumes that his throbbing excitement translates to him wanting to ejaculate as soon as he can.

My suggestion is to lower the focus and intensity when he gets too excited. Pull it out and take a breather - a smooching time out for a few minutes - get him to go down on you or whatever, before returning to penetrative sex. His climax will be more intense for sure thereafter.

Another technique I try sometimes is to pull him out in the midst, and using your thumb and index finger, firmly squeeze the tip of his tool. It should cool him down for a bit and allow him to hold back his explosion.

Just a few tips I've tried. Hopefully, they will work for you too. As for the two young women, they were taking notes and promised to call me once they returned to their bedroom labs and tried it out.

Missus Singapore out!

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TASTY SEX TIPS

Here is a tasty sex trick to try in bed. It was sent in by FabBoy from Sweden. He is only recently married (in December 2010) and claims to have a very frutiful sex life thus far.

Well, FabBoy, we all have it too. The challenge really is keeping the same sparks flying after 10 or 20 years. The sex may not be as good for some but the key is not about having good sex after that long. It's about reinventing and continuous exploring the realm of sex.

Many times, we may not have certain preferences when we are young but as we mature, things may change. Blame it on the hormones or whatever you like but its a natural process. Lets put it this way, when we were very young, didn't we just hate the opposite sex? Look at what we try to do to each other these days? So be conscious about that and keep exploring with each other.

Anyway, here is his tip.

FabBoy writes: "Fill the bathtub halfway with water then pour bath gel over each other's bodies. As you lie down in the bath, get your woman to lie on-top and instead of going straight into penetrative sex, try getting each other off by rubbing your bodies together. Amazing."

Sadly FabBoy, not many of us in Singapore have bathtubs installed. We live in pigeon holes over here. But I like the idea.

Missus Singapore out!

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NO FAST-FORWARDING

I was reading through this sex study the other day. Quite old but I do think it still is relevant today. Apparently, this exercise was recommended by a sex therapist for women whose partners tend to rush through the good parts of sex.

It suggests having a man lie still on his back while you stroke, caress, and kiss him all over for about 30 minutes. He is not allowed to reciprocate. Should the man fail this test, he is the kind who usually rushed through foreplay and it may not augur well for the sexual relationship.

The key is to do it until he passes. In other words, groom him for your satisfaction.

Sounds good but I am thinking that the men too want something to groom their woman. There must be a test for it. For example: the faster she goes down on her man, she passes the test. For some men though, if she goes down at all, then she will pass.

Missus Singapore out!

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