MOOD BOOSTERS

Siew Hwa, 44, from Singapore writes in with her suggestion on how she gets into the mood for sex.

"I'm not sure if this only works for me but I realised that each time my husband and I go out to a quiet place for a walk or just to sit down like at the beach, we tend to get really in to the mood for sex. It has to be quiet, just us two and our moods to get intimate rise. We have three kids and my mother-in-law lives with us so it tends to be rare for us to sit down on the couch and enjoy a quiet time at home.

It is not that we don't have sex at other times but each time we come back from such an outing, we are really into each other. The best sex we have had has definitely come after we had gone out on a quiet 'date' like that. In fact, even before we reach home, our hands are all over each other."

MS: I fully agree. With the hectic lifestyles many of us live, quiet time together is really a luxury. It is as if all our senses return to the raw and we revisit with our raw instincts too. Keep up those quiet moments. All I can say is it would be best if the two of you avoid visiting the library together.

Missus Singapore out!

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TILL DEATH DO US PART

A man returns from the doctor and tells his wife that the doctor has told him he has only 24 hours to live. Given this prognosis, the man asks his wife for sex. Naturally, she agrees, and they make love.

About six hours later, the husband goes to his wife and says, "Honey, you know I now have only 18 hours to live. Could we please do it one more time?"

Of course, the wife agrees, and they do it again.

Later, as the man gets into bed, he looks at his watch and realizes that he now has only 8 hours left. He touches his wife shoulder, and asks, "Honey, please... just one more time before I die."

She says, "Of course, Dear," and they make love for the third time.

After this session, the wife rolls over and falls asleep. The man, however, worried about his impending death, tosses and turns, until he's down to 4 more hours. He taps his wife, who rouses. "Honey, I have only 4 more hours. Do you think we could have sex again?"

At this point the wife sits up and says, "Listen, I have to get up in the morning. You don't!"

MS: Thank you Alan Wieslan from New Zealand. I hope your wife is not ignoring you and is treating you better these days.

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Out-of-Tower's "group" Group Sex Party Review

Hey guys -- I haven't been personally reviewing much lately as my reviews wouldn’t have varied much: the last Private Party was hot as always (don't miss the party next week!); the last few The Hot Jock Party parties were great as always (don't miss the one this Thursday) -- including their new space in the East Village (very hot crowd); and I'm looking forward to the "new" Olympus party (if he ever gets to me for my "interview"). BUT I always appreciate guest reviews from blog readers, especially multiple reviews like the one below from an out-of-tower. He covers a lot of ground here, guys, so hold on and pay attention. I don't think I disagree with anything he says...

"Thanks for running the blog, and don't worry about the negative comments some guys give you. I am a 30 year old, athletic (4x week with trainer) tall bubble butt guy who was in NYC around Labor Day. I read your blog and visited as many parties as possible, and I thought your descriptions were pretty much dead-on accurate.

The HotJock party was the most fun. It had friendly and cute doormen/bartenders. There was one porn actor (who just stood around) and another hot guy who I was pretty sure was a former porn actor there. Some guys got into the fucking, while others just stood around looking for the next best thing. Good party.

MilkChocolate party during the week was pretty good, for a weeknight. There were about 20 guys, including the friendly and good looking staff. The only problem - not much fucking.

I tried going to the HotDiesel party but that was cancelled.

JackofColors was sad. I found the one good looking guy and tried to get some action in a corner, but some nasty old guy was watching - leading the hot guy to lose his hardon. I told the old guy to go away but he refused.

Thug4thugs in Brooklyn was okay, but I learned when I got there at 1am that I was much too early. There were about 6 black guys, most with decent bodies, but no action. The host said it was too early.

WestSideClub was only good during a weekday when tourist were there. Otherwise, it was pretty sad.

Keep up the good work."

Hope this was helpful. If you have anything to add, let me know. Have fun guys and play safe!

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THE WEEK'S WEIRD ARRIVAL

I've decided to take some of the most curious word searches that got some of my readers here. This one takes the cake for this week.

"SINGAPORE PORN GIRLS WHO ARE NAKED"

There are certainly a handful of Singaporean girls who have exported their talent to the US and Europe so not so much a revelation. But naked? Have you not have to get naked to do porn most of the time? I like to see porn where there are no naked bodies. Clothed-porn anyone? Now there's an idea!

There are probably girls performing porn with their clothes on at some point but the crux of the idea inevitably has to involved some removal of clothes doesn't it. But the important question here is how on earth did such a search send a reader this way? So much for how Google tags blogs.

Missus Singapore out!

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Group Sex Parties -- September 27 to October 4...

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FAST CAR OR WOMAN?

Well, the Video for this week shows you how some guys are so obsessed with their cars. Besides sports, beer and Victoria Secret's models, I think fast cars are up there in the list of things us ladies have to compete with.

I once knew this guy who was so obsessed with how clean he kept his car that he was checking my shoes even before I got into it. Well, as you might expect, I never saw him again. The funny part is he is how he recently connected with me on Facebook and has been trying to get me to have dinner with him, for old times sake - he calls it. Hah. And he wonders why he is still single and even trying his luck with a married woman. 

Enjoy and have a great week.

Missus Singapore out!

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CHEATING PARTNERS (POLL 25)

Here is the other part of the cheating poll. Based on three other online polls that I've done over the past three years, this one shows that cheating has dropped somewhat. Good to know. Although there are a myriad of reasons behind why people cheat, one thing remains clear: that is exists across all races, religions and cultures. It's almost as if its human nature.

Wait a minute - the last I checked mankind wasn't designed with monogamy in mind. So staying in a relationship is really a big challenge and my hat goes out to all of you who have managed to cull temptation. But for those of you who are in an open relationship, more kudos to you guys.

The top reason for cheating - Sex Wasn't Enough or Good. Sex Sex Sex! Will people just come to realise that it's a big part of a relationship? Not everything but a big part! Can we all just agree on this and just get laid?

Missus Singapore out!

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ARE YOU AN INFIDEL? (POLL 24)

I'm as guilty as the 14% of women who have cheated on their partners. This was a long time ago before I was married and seeing someone else. It was a mix of curiosity and my flirtatious nature that got me cheating on my then-boyfriend with not one, but two of his friends.

Typical of my youthful ignorance at the time, I didn't so much as blink an eye after doing it. But we live and learn. Or do we?

So here are the results of the recent poll on who you think cheats more these days, men or women. While men win it hands down, there is really a noticeable trend that us women are catching up. Thanks for all 70 of you who voted.

Missus Singapore out!

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INTIMATE SHAPES

I was sent this sometime back. It's an outline sticker to shape a woman's pubic region into either a star, heart or X.

Pretty neat I thought at first but it's not exactly easy to use, depending on the texture of your pubic hair. You will have to first let your hair grow out to about a 3/4 centimetre before you use it. Stick it on to where you want to shape. That's the easy part.

For me, my hair strands are pretty thick so that was a problem. I think if you have thin hair strands you might have an easier time. But seriously, it's best if you have someone to shape it for you since even with a mirror as your guide, it is quite a cumbersome task. I'd rather just shape it as I always have, a slim vertical strip.

In any case, should you want to know more about this, email me.

Missus Singapore out!

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Review of the "new" GRAB ASS/CUM MONKEY Party

Guys -- As you may have noticed Hunteur, the host of the GRAB ASS/CUM MONKEY PARTY (which is every Wed night at Paddles), has been more selective lately, and trying to maintain a hotter group of guys. Well, GOOD NEWS: his promotion in August to pull in hot guys seems to have worked. I haven't been to the party in a while (because, well honestly, the guys were getting less hot each time), but below is a review from one of my friends who says the party has returned to it's former hotness. So, give it a shot guys. Here's the review...


"Good news about wednesday night Grab Ass party. Either people have been complaining or the guy who runs it is tired of looking at sagging asses but it seems he is changinng the door policy. He's keeping to a ht/wt proportion and age policy and I actually saw him turn a few guys away. A few did slip by but overall the crowd was much better. It's not the exclusive crowd the hot jock party gets but overall the guys were worth getting on my knees for. You should let people know, maybe the party has a chance of becoming something. It's such a great space."

Good news all the way around! If you check it out, let me know. Here's how to find them...GRAB ASS PARTY (Chelsea) Held at Paddles. Every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Get 30-50 guys ages 25 to 55YO: height/weight proportionate (all body types, extremely friendly). Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com

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TATTOOS AND ME

I love tattoos but not those that go overboard. It's like when it compliments the aesthetics of the body, that's fine. I'm not a fan when it starts to cover the whole body and completely destroys the natural beauty of the body.

I know that in modeling, they squirm at tattoos on the body or limbs. More than several times, I've had a job canned because of the tiny one I had just above my left breast. Sometimes, they actually paid to have it concealed up a professional make-up artist.

Of course the other reason why I only have a tiny one is because my tolerance to pain is ridiculously minimal. I'm just a coward when it comes to that. Thanks to my significant other, I've sky-dived, bungee-jumped and done all sorts of adrenalin-pumping things but when it comes to needles, I'm out of there as fast as you can say 'needle prick'. So for now at least, all I can do is appreciate the wonderful tattoos on some women.

Missus Singapore out!

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BABY-FRIENDLY BEER

Thank you Jamie for this ad. Why didn't they have such beer when I was expecting? But to be honest, beer never appealed to me when I was younger. I'd rather go for the alcoholic cocktails - the dainty stuff. At most it was a light beer for me. Nowadays, I find myself drinking more beer and trying out all the little unknown brands.

Of course it helps that the significant other is a hobbyist beer historian of sorts. I always liked the rugged sort but I just had to have one extreme of it - sports and beer lover is one thing but to be obsessed with it, that's a new ball game! See what I mean, it's even entering my mind.

Missus Singapore out!

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ASK THE BOLDER WOMAN

Q: Do women enjoy the man-from behind position?

MS: Personally, I love it but only if the man does it right and not tries to bang you off the bed! The problem is not so much with the position but with how most men hold the woman when they do it. Most push down on the butt which makes it hard for the woman to keep on her fours. Others squeeze the waist too tight which can either be downright painful or ticklish.

All you really need to do is gently hold on to her waist, just below her pelvic bone – and support her gently. Just keep it simple, increase the rhythm on her cue and don’t over-estimate the length of your manhood or it will keep slipping out and hit her sensitive areas. Now this is a definite turn off.

Missus Singapore out!

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THE PERFECT DATE

Nothing like zipping past the formalities and getting to the whole purpose for some. Check out the Video of the Week, sent in my Jackson Thifsen from New Caledonia. It gives a whole new meaning to a one-night-stand.

I've had several painful dates before where I wished they had suggested what the man in the video does. At least it would have spared me from a wasted night. I still get my meal, he still gets off and we never see each other again. The perfect date!

Missus Singapore out!

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Group Sex Parties -- Monday, September 20 to Sunday, September 26

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